Vana vanokura zvakakurumidza, saka, zvinoratidzika, munguva pfupi yapfuura pane purogiramu yaiva mubvunzo wekugadzirisa maitiro, uye nhasi amai vechidiki vanofunga nezvekuderedza mwana kubva muchifuva. Nyaya yacho inofadza chaizvo, sezvo inobata zvinhu zvakawanda zvehukama hwepakati pakati peamai nevana, nzvimbo yehutano, mhuri uye nguva dzemhuri. Muchikamu chino, ngatiedzei kuona kuti zvakanaka sei uye kusuruvara kunamatira mwana kubva pachipfuva.
Chii chinokosha kuziva iwe usati wabviswa?
Kuguma kwekuyamwisa ndeye chisarudzo chakasarudzwa. Muchiitiko ichi, munhu haagoni kuvimba nemazano evanasekuru, vasikana uye vamwe vanofarira zvakanaka.
Kusiyanisa ndeyezviitiko izvi kana pane zviratidzo zvakasiyana, zvakadai sekurwara kwaamai, kusunungurwa kumanikidzi uye mamwe mamiriro asingabvumirwi nekuyamwisa. Zvose zvakanyanya, kunyanya avo vanaamai vanofudza vana kwenguva yakareba, vasati vanyunyisa mwana, zviri nani kufungisisa nguva uye nzira yekuzviita nayo zvakarurama.
Nokudaro, mubvunzo wokutanga uye dzimwe nguva mubvunzo unonyanya kukosha - ndeyei wekuti muchengeti unobva pachipfuva?
Zvinosuruvarisa, hakuna zera remakore apo mwana achange akagadzirira zvakakwana kurega mukaka wamai. Somuenzaniso, vamwe vanachiremba vanokurudzira kuti varambe vachiyamwisa kusvika kumakore maviri. Nyanzvi inozivikanwa yevana Yevgeny Komarovsky inokurudzira kudya kwegore rimwe, tichifunga nezvokuwedzera kudya sezvisingabatsiri. Kana pane zvakadaro, ipapo mwedzi mitanhatu yekutanga mwana anofanira kunge ari oga pachipfuva, nokuti panguva ino iye anonyanya kutarirwa nehutachiona uye mavairasi. Vamwe vana vane mavambo ekugadzirwa kwezvokudya zvakakwana vanoramba zvishoma nezvishoma mukaka, asi amai havana matambudziko asina kufanira.
Kurambana nekudzingwa kune nani apo:
- mwana anenge achirwara kana mazino ake akaputirwa;
- amai vangu havanzwi zvakanaka;
- amai vangu havana chokwadi zvachose nezvechisarudzo chake;
- mumugwagwa unopisa zhizha kana chirwere chemaradhi nemafuta.
Basic Methods
Kana nguva yakaenzana, amai nevana vakagadzirira kubviswa, iwe unogona kusarudza nzira mbiri.
- Mumwe wavo anoratidza kupedzisira kunonoka kwekuyamwisa: mudzimai anotora zvishoma nezvishoma kunwisa nekumwe kudya. Zvakanakisa kutanga nekudya kwemasikati, uye mushure mokunge imwe nguva isara usiku. Iyi nzira inofungidzirwa kuti inonyanya kuremekedza mweya wecheche, kunze kweiyo yakachengeteka hutano hwemwana.
- Vamwe vanaamai vanotenda kuti zvinorwadza kuderedza mwana kubva pachipfuva pakarepo. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti, rimwe zuva, pakarepo urege kumwisa mwana wako. Kukutaurira chokwadi, iyi nzira inenge ichinyanyisa, uye inoda mudzimai ane shungu dzakasimba uye kutsungirira.