Izvi ndizvo zvinozivikanwa kwauri here: mwana anodanidzira, achitaura kusagumburwa kwake, uye amai vangu vanokurumidza kumuputira pacifier? Anenge makore makumi matatu akapfuura iyi yaiva maitiro chaiwo emukadzi wekuyamwisa kusvika kune kuzvidya mwoyo kwemwana wake, nokuti panguva iyoyo vanaamai vakarayirwa kuchengeta hurumende yakasimba uye kwete kuparadza mwana ne "kunyanya kuwedzerwa" kushandiswa kuchipfuva. Nhasi mamiriro ezvinhu akachinja: pasinei nekuwanda kwevana pacifia kune vana mu pharmacy, amai vakawanda vanogona kuita pasina ivo. Uye vanachiremba nevadzidzisi vekuyamwisa vanonzi dummy chete sevengi wekuyamwisa. Ngationei sei.
Dummy uye HS - iri kupi njodzi?
Kunyange asati aberekwa, mudumbu raamai vangu, mwana akadzidza kunwa: akadzidzira paminwe yake uye nharo. Munguva iyi aive achidziya, akasununguka uye akachengeteka. Mushure mokuberekwa, mwana anonzwa nezvekunzwa kwakadaro panguva yekuyamwisa. Anonzwa akachengeteka naamai vake, anoramba achigamuchira zvokudya kubva kuna amai vake.
Kana pane chifuva mwana anopiwa ruvara rwechirubha, mwana wacho nemaune kana kuti asingabatsiri anofanira kutora ichi chechipiri. Apa ndipo pane ngozi iripo: dummy nekuyamwisa inotanga kunonoka asi zvirokwazvo inodzinga amai - inonyaradza uye inonyaradza. Amai vanopiwa basa re "mupi wezvokudya" uye chete. Zvisinei, muto unokwanisa kudzvinyirira amai pane iri mberi.
Tinoziva kuti mucheche anofanira kubata mazamu zvakarurama : kwete kungova chete, asiwo chikamu chikuru cheatora. Iyo dummy yakasiyana zvachose nehuro, uye mwana haazokwanisi kushanda "kubata kwakanaka" pane yakadaro. Kana dummy inowanikwa nguva dzose, nenguva inopfuura mwana anowedzera "dongo" rinoyamwa: zvakaoma kubata chifukidzo, anogara achizora muto uye haagoni kuwana mukaka wakakwana.
Izvo zvakaomawo kune amai vanoyamwisa: "kusina chinhu" kunwisa kunokonzera kuonekwa kwekuputika pamakumbo , chiyero chemukaka chinowira zvishoma nezvishoma. Mwana wacho haatore kuyerwa, uye anotanga kumudya kubva muhombodo. Vana vakawanda kwazvo munyaya iyi vanongopera mazamu avo.
Ndinoda dummy here?
Vashandi veGV vanobvumirana pamwe chete: mbembe uye kunwisa hazvienderani. Amai vanogona uye vanofanira kuyanisa mwana. Asi vana - "maitiro" anodiwa! Mukusavapo kwezamu amai, ndiye iye anogutsa reflex inoyamwa.
Ichokwadi kuti amai vangu vanofanira kusarudza kana vachizopa mwana wavo pacipiti. Usateerera "vakachenjera kwazvo". Chinonyanya kukosha chemwana wenyu ndechehupenyu hwake. Kana iwe uchiri kusarudza kuzivisa mwana ne pacifier panguva yekuyamwisa, shandisa pasina kushingaira.