Apo mwana anorwara, vabereki vake, uye vanambuya nemamwe hama vanotanga kusarudza kuti ndiani achava naye kumba. Kazhinji kacho chigadziro ichi chinoitwa nekufunga kuti ndiani ari nani kuchengetedzwa nemari, ndiko kuti, ndiani mubasa ane mamiriro ezvinhu akanaka ekubhadhara urwere-urongwa. Muchikamu chino, tichakuudza nezvekuti mwana anorwara anokweretwa sei kuchengetwa kwevana, kusanganisira vakaremara, muUkraine neRussia, uye mumamiriro ezvinhu iyo mushandi ane kodzero yekuregeredza mitemo yako yokubhadhara mari.
Kubhadhara kwezororo rekuchengeta vana
Kazhinji, zvakakosha kuti vabereki vazive kuti muchengeti wekuenda muzororo anokweretwa kune hama dzake dzisiri vedzimba dzemhuri. Maererano nemitemo iripo yeRussia neUkraine, kana mwana wacho achirwara, chero munhu akaremara wemhuri yake anogona kugamuchira runyora rwekuremara panguva yechirwere chake, uye muchengeti kana muchengeti mumhuri yevabereki. Panguva imwecheteyo, maererano nemutemo kusimbisa chokwadi chokuti munhu ane hanya ane mwana ari hama dzehama, hazvina kumira.
Kune vabereki vane vana vakawanda panguva yechirwere chevana kana vana, mapepa akawanda ekuremara, kumwana mumwe nomumwe, kana kumwana mumwe zvachose, anogona kubudiswa kamwechete. Izvi zvakasarudzwa naamai nababa, vachifunga kuti ndiani anorasikirwa nebasa apo vana vari kurwara. Kana amai vakagara nevana vose, anopiwa chipatara chimwe, chinoratidza data yevana vake vose vanorwara. Kana, somuenzaniso, mwana mumwe ari mune imwe nzvimbo yezvokurapa naamai vake uye imwe inorapwa kumba, uye baba vanomuchengeta, mubereki mumwe nomumwe anopiwa kunze kweanorwara-urongwa nezita remumwe wevana.
Mune zvimwe zviitiko, mubhadharo ane kodzero yekuramba zvipupuriro zvako nezvekubhadhara kurwara, zvakadai se:
- nokuda kwenguva yekurapwa kwemwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana uyo akatotanga makore gumi nemashanu, muchipatara kana muchipatara chero chechipatara chipi nechipi;
- munguva yekuenda, uye kwete kuti inobhadharwa.
Mune mamwe mamiriro ose ezvinhu, urongwa hwekusakwanisa kwebasa hunofanira kubhadharwa kuna amai vemucheche kana kune imwe hama iyo yaisungirwa kupotsa kushanda panguva yechirwere. Parizvino, pasi pemitemo yeRussia neUkraine, pane zvimwe zvipingamupinyi.
Nokudaro, muUkraine, chidimbu chekushaya simba kwebasa kumunhu anotarisira mwana muduku anenge achibhadharwa kusvika kumakore gumi nemasere uye kwemazuva gumi nemana ekugara kwomwana munguva yekurwara. Kana mwana wako ari muchipatara panguva yekurwara, nguva iyi yose inobhadharwa.
MuRussia, unogona "kugara" muchipatara kuti utarisire mwanasikana wako, mwana kana imwe hama yechidiki kusvikira wava nemakore 18. Panguva imwe chete, dzimwe nguva inobhadharwa zvishoma, maererano nemitemo:
- apo kutarisira zvimedu kusvika kumakore manomwe - kwenguva yose, asi kwete mazuva makumi matanhatu pagore;
- kubva pamakore manomwe kusvika kune makumi maviri nemashanu - kwemazuva gumi nemashanu panguva yeimwe chiitiko chechirwere uye kwete kudarika mwedzi nehafu pagore;
- runyorwa rwekushaya simba kwekutarisira mwana akaremara pasi pemakore gumi nemashanu anofanira kubhadharwa zvakakwana. Panguva imwecheteyo, nguva yakazara yemari yakabhadharwa nokuda kwechirwere chemwana muduku haagoni kudarika zana negore;
- pamusha kurapwa kwemusikana kana mukomana ane makore gumi nemashanu pasi pekutarirwa kwachiremba, hosha yehurema inobhadhara chete kwemazuva matatu okutanga.
Munyika mbiri idzi, kuwanda kwehutano hwekurwara zvakananga kunobva paurefu hwehuwandu hwehutambisi hwehushuwarenzi. Muchiitiko chacho kana ichipfuura makore gumi nemana, chikwereti chenguva yevanorwara-urongwa inofanira kunge yakaenzana ne100% yevhareji yemari. Saizvozvowo, kune vanhu vane reinshuwarisi rereji yemakore mashanu kusvika kune makumi matanhatu, ichi chiyero che80%, uye kune avo vasina kushanda uye makore mashanu, 60%.
Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, iyo yakarongwa chirongwa inongoshandiswa kuverenga mupiro wemazuva gumi ekuremara kwemashizha. Zuva rose rinotevera rinobhadhara zvichienderana ne50% yemari inowanikwa.