Marudzi edzidzo yemhuri - chimiro chechimiro chehukama hwakaoma mukati memhuri imwechete. Zvinonyatsotarisana nenzvimbo yevabereki mune zvese uye zvinotariswa nezvinhu zvitatu zvikuru:
- kukwana - kukodzera kwekushandisa mamwe mazano edzidzo kumwana chaiye ane unhu hwake;
- dynamism - kukwanisa komubereki kutama, kuchinja, kuchinjazve, kana mamiriro ezvinhu achidikanwa;
- predictability - chirevo chekufungidzira kwechigumisiro chekushandiswa kweimwe mitambo nemhando dzekudzidzisa mhuri.
Izvi zvinotevera zvinotorwa sechikonzero chekutsanangurira mhuri dzemhando nekurera mhuri:
- Kuwedzerwa kwekugamuchirwa mupfungwa uye kufarira kwevabereki mumwana.
- Kuratidzwa kwekutarisira, kubatanidzwa.
- Kuenzanisa kwekuzadzika kwemamwe marudzi emhuri yekurera mwana.
- Inoda.
- Kukwanisa kwevabereki kutonga maitiro avo ehutano.
- Nhamba yekuzvidya mwoyo.
- Zvinotarisirwa kutungamirirwa mukati memhuri yese.
Mhando dzakawanda kwazvo dzekudzidziswa kwemhuri
Kubva pane zvataurwa pamusoro apa, tinogona kuona 576 marudzi akasiyana e "yakarurama" uye "asina kururama" dzidzo yemhuri, asi muhupenyu hwechokwadi, pane humwe chete hukuru hukuru:
- Kurasikirwa mupfungwa - vabereki vashoma mukuratidzwa kwekunzwa kumwana uye nokukurumidza iyewo haajai kuratidza manzwiro kwavari. Vana vakadaro vanokura vakavharwa, vane urombo hwakanyanya hwemagariro evanhu uye vanozvidzivirira.
- Munhu ane utsinye unowanzoperekedzwa nekurambwa kwepfungwa. Kuzvidzivirira kunogona kuzviratidzira muviri nekushungurudzwa kwepfungwa kwomwana. Vana vanorerwa mumugwagwa kazhinji vanoratidza unhu hwekushushikana uye huwandu hwoutsinye.
- Kuwedzera kwemitoro yezvetsika - kuiswa kwekutarisira kusina kuzadzika uye tariro kune mwana, nzira yakarongeka. Mafungiro ehupenyu evana vakadarowo ari varombo, vanorasikirwa mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana.
- Kurwisana kunokonzerwa munyaya yekukwikwidza pamusoro pemitambo yedzidzo mumhuri. Vana vakadaro vanokura kuzvidya mwoyo, hypochondriac, unyengeri.
- Kunyengedza - kusava nehanya kwechokwadi muhupenyu hwemwana, kusava nekudzivirira. "Vasina hanya" vana vanopinda mungozi yekuwira pasi pesimba reumwe munhu.
- Hyperprotectics - hyperopeak , chido chekutonga zvakakwana mwana
uye kumudzivirira kubva kunze kwenyika. Kanowanzova migumisiro yevabereki vasingazivikanwi zvido zve rudo. Kunyanya kutarisira vana vanokura kuti vave vanozvida, vasingakwanisi kubatana nevose pamwe chete. - Hypochondria - inowedzera mumhuri iyo mwana ave achirwara kwenguva yakareba nehosha yakaoma. Upenyu hwose hwemhuri hunonamatira kuhutano hwake, zvose zvinopesvedzwa kuburikidza nejeri rechirwere. Vana vakadaro igocentric, tsvaga kunzwira tsitsi.
- Rudo ndiwo rudzi rwakanaka rwekudzidziswa kwemhuri, apo vabereki vasingabvumirwi kubvuma mwana, vanofungisisa zvaanoda, vanokurudzira chiito.