Kurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku

Vamwe vakaroora vanoroorana havana ramangwana rakafanana, uye vaviri vacho vanosarudza kuparadzanisa. Panguva imwe chete, zvinokosha kuziva kuti kurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku vanotora nguva refu. Dare rinopinda munyaya dzakadaro. Zvakanakisisa kugadzirira kuita nekunyatsonzwisisa kuti zvinoitika sei.

Murairo wekurambana kwemurume nemudzimai, kana mhuri iri kutora vana

Mutemo pamusoro penzira yekurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku muUkraine neRussia zvakafanana.

Iyo nzira inogona kugoverwa muzvikamu zvakasiyana siyana zvinokosha:

1. Chokutanga, unoda kuunganidza imwe mapepa emagwaro.
2. Ipapo iwe unoda kuisa zvinhu zvose mudare, pamwe neshoko, iwe unogona kuzviita iwe pachako kana kushandisa sangano regweta.
3. Zvadaro, zvirongwa zvemudare zvichagadziriswa, apo vaviri vakaroorana vanofanira kuvapo.
4. Mushure mokufungisisa zvizere zvezvinhu zvose, chisarudzo chichaitwa.

Chirongwa chechipiri chinowanikwa kune avo vakatanga kurambana panzvimbo yekugara kwemupomerwa. PaIndaneti unogona kuona kuti unganyora sei zvakarurama.

Zvakakosha kufanana nekunyorwa kwemamwe mapepa anodikanwa pakurambana kwevakaroorana vane vana vaduku:

• pasipoti yemuiti wekutanga;
• chiremba chechato;
• zvakakosha kuisa risiti yekubhadhara basa rehurumende;
• zvitikiti zvekuberekwa kwevana vanozivikanwa.

Iwe uchada zvakare makopi emapepa aya ose. Mukuwedzera kune zvakadaro mapepa, unogona kuisa chibvumirano pamusoro pevana, pfuma. Nyaya yeanmony inoramba ichigadziriswa. Nokudaro, iwe unofanirwa kutarisira kuwanikwa kwemabhuku anotsigira mamiriro ezvinhu. Kana dare risingafungi zvinhu zvakapiwa kuti zvive zvakakwana, vakaroorana vachaziviswa nezveizvi.

Ndivanaani vana vaduku vanoramba vachirambana?

Chimwe chezvinyorwa zvemashoko zvinogadziriswa munyaya yekurambana ndiyo tsanangudzo iyo mwana acharamba aripo. Mushure mezvose, vabereki havagoni nguva dzose kuti vauye pamwe chete.

Kutongwa kuchaitwa kuburikidza nezvinodiwa nemwana. Dare richafungisisa zvinhu zvakadaro:

• maonero evanhu pamusoro pevana vane makore gumi;
• purogiramu yekushanda yemubereki oga;
• mamiriro ezvinhu emudzimai uyo mumwe nomumwe achagara, pamwe nemamiriro emari;
• utano hwakanaka hwaamai nababa, maitiro avo.

Vana vaduku kazhinji vanogara naamai vavo uye vanoparadzana kubva kwaari oga muzviitiko zvakakosha.

Kurambana nevana vaviri vari pasi nepakati uye zvakasiyana zvakasiyana chete muhutano hweanmony.

Izvi zvakakoshawo kuziva kuti kana mukadzi ari mutemo, ipapo zvikwereti zvinowanikwawo pakugadzirisa kwake. Kana mhuri ine mwana akaremara weboka rekutanga, saka alimony inofanira kubhadharwa asati asvika makore akawanda.

Kurambana kunoitika sei kana pane vana vaduku?

Zuva remusangano rinosarudzwa anenge mwedzi mumwe mushure mokunge sarudzo yaiswa. Vose vakaroorana vanofanira kuudzwa nezveizvi uye vanofanira kuonekwa mudare panguva yakatarwa. Kana pasina ruzivo rwekuti murume nomudzimai vakaziviswa panguva yakatarwa nezvezuva rekugadzirisa, musangano unogona kuregererwa. Zvinokwanisika kana mumwe wevakaroorana ane chikonzero chakanaka chokuti asaonekwe mudare.

Vakaroorana vangapiwa nguva yekuyananisa. Mashoko ayo achasimbiswa nedare.

Inguva yakadini kurambana kunopfuurira, kunobva pane dzakawanda zvinyorwa zvenyaya yacho. Kana murume nomudzimai pakati pavo pachavo mumibvunzo yakawanda vachabvumirana, zvose zvichaenda nokukurumidza.

Mushure mokunge mutongo wedare wakagamuchirwa, ichaenda kuRAPA. Munzvimbo imwe chete uye nyora munyore munyaya yekuroorana. Ichi chisarudzo chinogona kukwidzwa mumazuva gumi. Gare gare haichagoni kukumbira.