Hikikomori - ndivana ani? Vanorasikirwa, vanorasikirwa nevanhu kana vanhu vasina simba vanotambura, avo vane tsika dzakawanda dzemagariro vasingateereri kukosha kupi zvako? Hikka - zita rakadzama zita rave rakava zita remhuri revechidiki vaduku.
Hikikomori - ndiani uyu?
Hikikomori ishoko rechiJapane rinotsanangura vechidiki muJapan avo vakapinda mune zvekugara vari voga uye vakasarudza kusununguka mujeri. Vanoramba kusiya imba yevabereki vavo. Chiitiko chemae - rudo rwechikadzi rwemhuri rusingaverengeki rwunokurudzira kuvhara kwakadzika: zviri nyore kuti amai vabvume mwana wavo sezvavari uye kuti vamupe, panguva ipi zvayo, pane kungodzingwa kunze kwemukati ndokudzoserwa kune hupenyu huri oga. Hikikomori is subculture iyo yakabata nyika dzakawanda dzakabudirira.
Zviratidzo zve hikikomori
Chii chinonzi hikka chinoreva uye ungafungira sei munhu anotora zvishoma nezvishoma kuti azvive oga? Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika zvishoma nezvishoma, asi kazhinji kazhinji kamwe kamwe. Iko hikikomori, unhu hunoita zviratidzo zvekuvharwa:
- tsvaga kudzivisa kunze kwemasimba;
- kuputsa masangano ose neshamwari kana kusina shamwari zvachose;
- kurara usiku, shandisa usiku uchitevera kombiyuta kutarisa: mitambo, kuverenga mifananidzo (manga), kuona anime:
- chimiro chekufananidzira kwechakaipa uye kuora mwoyo: makona emiromo inoderedzwa, pameso echinyunyuti.
Nzira yekuve hikikomori?
Nzira yekuve hickey munharaunda yemazuva ano, pane iyo haisi chido chekuva mumwe chete, asi hutano hwehupenyu nematambudziko akaiswa pamunhu. Mikana yekuva hikikomori yakakwirira kune avo vano:
- vane utachiona hwemuviri (invalids);
- kukonzera kunyadzisa kwavo pakati pevadzidzi vaunodzidza navo;
- akagamuchira zvakadzika mupfungwa mupfungwa ;
- kunzwa kuti hapana anovanzwisisa;
- vane chimiro chekuvhiringidzika kwevirist ( Asperger's syndrome ), neuroses, uye kuora mwoyo.
Nzira yekurega kuva hikikomori?
Nzira yekurega kuva hickey, kana pane simba uye chido chekudzokera kuchipfuva chevanhu? Havasi vose vaduku vakasarudza nzira ye hikikomori vanonzwa kugutsikana kubva munzira yakavharwa yehupenyu, asi vakasimudza kunzwa kwekunzwa uye kushungurudzika kana kuti vanhu vakajeka vasina kuwanikwa kushanda munzanga inoita kuti munhu azvive oga. Kune avo vaneta nokuva vakadzingwa, mazano akajeka anogona kubatsira:
- tsanangura kutya kunokudzivirira kuti usapinda munharaunda uye uwane zvigaro zvako zvekudzorera;
- kuchengetedza diary yega yega nekutsanangurwa kwehurumende uye zvinoitika zuva nezuva (manzwiro, manzwiro, zviito);
- Kamwe kamwe pavhiki, kuverenga diary yako uye kuongorora kuti zvimwe zvinhu zviri kuitika, kunokurudzira kuchinja kuduku;
- kushanda pamwe nekuregererwa kwevabereki, shamwari, ini;
- Kumbira rubatsiro kubva kune hama;
- kuisa chinangwa chemazuva ese: gymnastics, kukurukurirana nevasimboti shamwari (kutanga neIndaneti).
How to treat hikikomori?
Chirwere hikikomori chinoratidza nyika dzeAsia dzine vanhu vakawanda. Nzira yekubatsira hikikomori zvakare kushamwaridzana mubvunzo wakaoma, nokuti kila hikka munhu mumwechete uye pane imwe neimwe yakakosha kunokosha kunzwisisa chii chaive chikonzero chekuvharwa. Nyanzvi dzinofunga kuti mune dzakawanda zviitiko pakutanga kwekutanga zvakakosha kumudzinga munhu ari oga. Iyo yakareba mwana achiri kuyaruka agere muimba, zvakanyanya kuoma kumudzosa kumashure. Chikamu chiduku cheku hickey chinosarudza kudzokera kuvanhu zvakare. Kuvandudza hukikomori kuri nyore kana:
- nguva shoma yapfuura kubva panguva yekumera;
- vakapa rubatsiro rwakakosha rwepfungwa (kutanga kure);
- hama dzakabatanidzwa mukugadzirisa zvakakwana sezvinobvira uye zvinotsigirwa mukati mechikamu che "recovery".
Shingairira hikikomori
Upenyu hwaHikikomori ndechokuzvitsaurira kwakakwana kubva munzanga, apo vose vanogara navo vanobviswa kana kutsigirwa mumagariro evanhu. Chimwe chinhu chinokosha chekubudirira kwevanhu pamwe chete ndechebasa, asi hikikomori inorasa chero basa rekushanda uye haaoni chero pfungwa mukati mayo. Zvose zvinokosha zvakakosha kune munhu akaenzana, nokuti hickey haisi kufadza. MuJapan, 10 muzana yevanhu vane simba vanogara kumba vachiri kuyaruka uye havaedzi kuwana basa, vachivimba nevabereki. Kazhinji hikikomori vanobva uye nekuda kwekubudirira kwekuedza kuwana basa.
Mabhuku ane chokuita hikikomori
Iyo syndrome ye hikikomori inogamuchirwa nevanyori. Zvinyorwa panyaya iyi hazvisi zvakawanda, asi vanyori vakanyora pamusoro pevanhu vakadaro vanonyatsotsanangura kukwirira kwehurumende, pfungwa uye hupenyu hwemasimba. Mabhuku pamusoro pevanhu vanobvuma kuzvipira oga:
- "Ndinodya kunyarara nemapuni." Finkel Michael . Bhuku iri rinotaura nezvemunhu chaiye Christopher Nite, uyo akapukunyuka makore 27 akapfuura mumasango kuchamhembe kweMaine. Muna 2013, Christopher akabatwa, paakaba nezvokudya kubva kumusasa, mushure mekudzidza nezvekusungwa, mazana evanhu: vatapi venhau nevashanyi vakasvika kuzotaura naChristopher, kumubvunza mibvunzo inofadza: akawana mufaro nekudzikama ari oga, akadaro sei.
- "Parasites" naRyu Murakami . Kudzoka Uihara inogamuchira kubva kuna amai vake seyemakombiyuta epo uye mumutambo inosangana neboka "Inter-Bio", iro nhengo dzaro dzinoita kuti hero iwane kodzero yekuuraya vanhu. Basa rakaoma pamusoro pekutsvaga hero kune zvinorehwa noupenyu mushure mekunge kwemaitiro ehutongerwo ehutongerwo ehupombwe nekuputika kwekuputsa.
- "Hikikomori" Kuvin Kun . Bhuku-kuongororwa kwepfungwa yevechiri kuyaruka ndeye hikikomori, inovamanikidza kuti vashandise kuvharwa. Chimwe chiitiko chakaitika muhupenyu hwemurume wechidiki, Kusvikira, kushandura pfungwa yake, anotendeuka kubva kumhuri, anozvivhara muimba uye hupenyu hwake hwose hukurukuro kuburikidza neIndaneti.
Hikikomori movies
Ndiani anonzi hikikomori, zvikonzero zvekusiya kusungirirwa uye zvinoitika kune munhu akadaro zvinogona kuonekwa mumafirimu anotevera:
- The Circle Circle . Mukadzi wechidiki anonakidza Abhigairi akagara ari oga kwemakore anenge makumi maviri asina kusiya imba yake muManhattan. Anongotaura chete nevanhu vaviri: concierge yeimba uye shamwari yekare yemhuri, Dr. Raymond. Asi nguva yasvika apo Abhigairi anotarisana nekutya kwake chiso nechiso nekuda kwezviitiko zviri mumba zvakatarisana.
- "Ndiwe aniko?" / Krai Nai Hong » . Nida, mutengesi weDVD, akakavadzana nemwanakomana wake Ton, uyo akazvivhara muimba yacho kwemakore mashanu uye achitaurirana nenyika yekunze kuburikidza nenyaya, panguva imwechete yezviitiko zvinotyisa zvinotanga kuitika. Vanhu vanotanga kunetseka: ndiani akavharidzirwa kunze kwemukova, wechidiki anonzi hikka inonzi social orbicster?
- «Thomas mukuda na amoureux» . Iyo hero yefirimu Tom inotambudzika neAgoraphobia uye inonyatsopindirana mukukurukura nevanasikana vese mumakombiyuta. Pane mazano e-web-psychotherapist, anosarudza kuzivana nemusikana chaiye muimba yehurukuro uye anowira murudo, chiitiko ichi chinonakidza kwaari, nokuti kuitira kuti awane rudo ... munhu anofanira kubva mumba.