Zvinonyanya kukosha kuziva kuti wako mutauriri wehutano unofambidzana newe nenzira imwecheteyo kunze kwekusavapo kwako, uye kunyange iwe unogona kakawanda kugumisa kuti iwe uri munyengeri wemeso maviri, zvinoitika kuti muhupenyu hunoonekwa uye vane unyanzvi hwemashupiti. Nekugomera kwekusunungurwa uye pfungwa yekugutsikana, iwe uchamupa zvinhu zvose zvaunazvo, uye pashure pokunge ugovana naye, iwe uchaona kuti iwe wave wakagadzirirwa wehutano.
Pane zvakawanda maitiro ekugadzirisa unhu hwemunhu. Usavaregerera ivo nokuda kwezvakanaka zvako.
Tinovimbisa maitiro e "kare" uye "shure"
Kana iwe uine musangano unokosha, iva nechokwadi chekutendeseka kwemukati wako. Uyai maminitsi makumi maviri mberi kwake, tsvaka pokugara kwausingazooni uye ona. Pfungwa yekutanga yekuziva kuti rudzi rweunhu hunhu ndechekucherechedza chii:
- rusununguko uye rune simba - chinangwa chemunhu ndechokuuya munguva yekuitirwa musangano, haasi kukanganiswa nezvikonzero zvinopoteredza, anokwanisa kutora mhosva yezviito zvake nezvivimbiso;
- yunifomu, asi munhu anotendeuka nguva dzose - vanhu ava nguva dzose vanocherechedza mumvuri wavo, izvo zvinoratidza kusipo kwavo-pfungwa;
- inononoka, isina hanya, musoro unoderedzwa - munhu, zvichida, akafunga pane chimwe chinhu, kana akanzwa zvakaipa;
- chinhu chinopinza, kusingagumi kubva kune ruduku ruduku-munhu akadaro anotsvaka kutsigira mune maonero evamwe, akasimbiswa uye anonyanya kuoma.
Kana hurukuro yako iripo, shandisa danho rechipiri, kuti unokwanisa sei kutsanangura unhu hwemunhu - kukwazisa maoko:
- Simbe - kana munhu akaneta, kana iwe uri vazhinji pamusangano, uye iwe unozunungusa maoko munzvimbo yekupedzisira, iwe unofunga hauna hanya uye hausi iwe unokosha;
- rinoputsa minwe uye rinopinza muruoko
- ichi chiratidzo chokupikisana, munhu anoratidza kusava nechivimbo mukati mako; - Ruoko rwechipiri runokuisa pafudzi rako - kana manipulator kana munhu asati aongororesa iwe, sezvaunoita (chero zvakadaro, kukurukurirana kuchava kunonakidza);
- Anomesa chikoro chako nemaoko maviri - kumirira chero chikumbiro kana mushoko rinokosha.
Heano mafungiro maviri maungagona kuona mberi kwekuvandudzwa kwehukama. Zvadaro, unofanira kufananidza mararamiro omumwe munhu mukukurukurirana nezvamakazviona iwe panguva yekutarisa kwekutanga.