Ungatsiva sei kumurume?

Inowanikwa zvakaguma nekuda kwekupedzwa kwehukama kuti ugare shamwari, kana zvakadaro zvakaguma hazvibviri, kana kuparara kwaitika nekuda kwekutambudza. Uye chii chakasara kuti chiitwe, kuti haufaniri kutsiva pane waimbova mukomana nokuda kwekumanikidzira, nekuda kwekutambudzika kunokonzerwa nokupandukira? Kwete, hongu, pane imwe imwe nzira - kukanganwira uye kusunungura, asi inoratidzika kwatiri isu kazhinji haigamuchiri, kunyanya kana kutsamwa nehasha zvinopisa muropa.

Saka ungatsiva sei kumurume akarega? Chokutanga pane zvose, iwe unoda kusarudza kana pane chido chokuchiona muupenyu hwako kana kuti kupera kwakakwana muhukama. Kana pane tariro yekuvandudzwa kwehukama, kutsiva hakuzovi nzira yakanakisisa yekubuda, saka iwe uchawedzera hunoita kuti murume uyu ave nekururama kwechisarudzo chake chokuputsa newe. Uye iwe wakasarudza sei kuti iwe hauzove neramangwana rakafanana, uye kana chido chokutsiva nokuda kwezvakashata hachina kurasikirwa, saka tinoronga waimbova murume "upenyu hunofadza."

Nzira dzokutsiva pamurume

1. Kurova kune yakanyanya kudhura. Munhu wese ane "matoyi" anonyanya kudiwa pamwoyo wake - kombiyuta, motokari, mafiriki anodiwa. Chinofanira kuita navo isu tinouya tichizvimiririra, asi tinozviita kuitira kuti kuonekwa kwechinhu ichi chisakanganiswa.
2. Zvichida wako wekare anofungidzirwa nebasa uye mukurumbira wako pachako? Saka zvakakodzera kukuparadza. Semuenzaniso, kutaurira mwoyo nemwoyo nemukomana wechidiki uye mukombe weti tiudze zvakavanzika zvose "zvinotyisa" zvemutengesi. Kana kuti ita mapepa ake mune imwe yehutano hwevanhu huripo.
3. Wako wekare ane shamwari here? Saka zvichida zvakakosha kumudzivisa mumwe wavo? Aiwa, hazvisi nezvekudzima kwemuviri, iyo inova neshamwari yako yepamwoyo.
4. Unoziva here chido chedu chekare chekare mukomana wako? Iwe unogona kutaurirana naye girlish, tsitsi, seshamwari mumatambudziko. Mucheka, murume uyu akanaka kwazvo, asi atova kurwadziwa kwete kuzvitakura uye kutakurirwa, pakarepo musikana mutsva anoona, saka hazvibviri kuchengeta masimba. Uyezve, chokwadi, inodzoka, inopfidza, asi pane imwe nguva inotora, saka chaizvoizvo ivo vakaparadzana. Zvakanaka, hongu, ndimi makanga muri muvambi wekuputsa, uye haana kukusiyai.
5. Pane here zvachose chishuvo chekuratidzira ukama hwemubatiro nehupenyu hutsva hwewaimbova mukomana wake? Zvadaro tinongoda kubata nguva iyo vachange vari pamwe chete, zvichida munzvimbo yakazara, uye vachizivisa zvikuru pamusoro pekutsvaira kwayo, sevanhu (kamwe kamwe kamwe, uye kakawanda hazvidiwi).

Zvakanaka, wakawana sei nzira yokuti iwe uve akanaka kana kunogona kuva utsinye kubvuma kutsiva mukomana wekare? Kwete, saka zvichida marwadzo uye kushungurudzika zvatove zvishoma nezvishoma uye iwe unokwanisa kunyatsofungisisa? Tarisa, nzira dzose idzi dziri pamusoro apa dzinogona chaizvo kupa mutadzi wako nguva dzakawanda dzisina kufadza, asi haagoni kukuisa mukunaka kwakanakisisa. Hongu, uye nhau ine chinangwa chokutsiva, haigoni kukuunza chero maonero akanaka, zvichida iye achasiya kushungurudzika uye kugumbuka kweupenzi hwake uye kusagadzikana. Saka zvakakosha here kuti uzvimedze, zvichida edza kungorarama pasina munhu uyu? Uye kurarama kuitira kuti pakarepo zvive zvakajeka kwaari kuti chiito chake chakakununura iwe kubva kumakumbo, chakakubvumira kuti uve wakasununguka. Zvechokwadi, isu tichafanirwa kuedza kuita. Semuenzaniso, shandura chifananidzo, nyora mubhizimisi kana kuti uzviite iwe unofarira izvo zvave zvichida kufarira, asi nenzira yakati maoko asina kusvika. Zvingava zvakanaka kusarudza chido ichocho, uko iwe unopiwa kambani yevarume. Nenzira, apo wako wekare-mukomana akanga ari pedyo, iwe waifunga nezvebasa? Kwete, kwete, ikozvino ndiyo nguva. Uye vasikana, mave kwenguva refu muchienda pamwe chete, musangano wemaminitsi gumi pamusoro pomukombe munguva yekudya kwemasikati haifungi. Uye, hongu, usazviramba iwe mufaro wakadaro, sekusangana nevatsva. Hongu, mumwe munhu akaita zvisina kuvimbika kwauri, asi izvozvo hazvirevi kuti munhu wese akafanana naizvozvo.

Ndeipi kupi waunokumbira kutsiva? Nokudaro nzira yakanakisisa uye ine utsinye yekudzorera kune mukomana nekunyomba ndeyokuratidza kuti pasina iye iwe hauri kurarama zvakanyanya, kana zvichida zviri nani. Batsira kubwinya kwako uye kuona uye mapikicha kubva kumapoka, akaiswa mumapikicha evanhu vakawanda.