Isu tose tinorarama munzanga. Zuva rega rega takakomberedzwa nevanhu vazhinji vatinofanira kutaurirana navo: shamwari, shamwari, vashandi pabasa, vatengesi vari muzvitoro, vanofamba-famba-ne-urongwa urwu runogona kupfuurirwa nekusingaperi. Kubvumirana, zvaizova zvakanaka, kusamboita zvikanganiso mukubata navo: hapazove nekukakavadzana munzvimbo yebasa, kukakavadzana pamusha, zvingave zvisingabviri pasina matambudziko, uye panguva imwechete yakarurama zvakakwana, kupedzisa chikwata chekutakura vanhu kana kusimbisa ukama nevanoshamwaridzana vavakidzani. Zvinosuruvarisa, kana izvi zvichibvira munyika chaiyo, saka kubudirira kwechimiro chakadaro kunoratidzika kuva basa rakaoma, asi zvisinei hazvirevi kuti zvakakosha, zvichida kuedza kuvandudza kukwanisa kwevanhu kutaura (kana, vanoona nezvepfungwa vanoti, kutaurirana).
Kugona kutaura - nzira yekubudirira
Vakawanda vedu tinokwanisa kutaurirana kune imwe huru kana zvishoma, asi musaita izvi nguva dzose sezvinokwanisa. Kuti tive nekuvandudza unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana, zvakakosha kubhadhara mazano akawanda:
- usaedza kubva kurekurukurirana, pane zvinopesana, iva iwe akatanga;
- edza kufarira chaizvoizvo kutaura kwevanhu;
- shandisa maitiro ako, mamwe mimwe mitambo inogona kubatsira, somuenzaniso, "Song Questions", panguva iyi mutambo boka revanhu vanoverengeka kugovana mumapoka maviri, mumwe nomumwe wavo anobvunza mubvunzo, uye anogamuchira mhinduro nenzira yemutsara wenziyo unozivikanwa: "Ndezvipi zvakafanana mudikanwi wangu kupi? "-" Mundima ine ruvara rwebhuruu, uko kunoda kunodedera ";
- edza kuteerera uye unzwe wako interlocutor. Mukati yenyaya yake musanongoparadzanisa, musataurirana, uye nguva dzose rambai muchisangana;
- Iva netariro - hapana anofarira kuteerera zvinongoramba zvichinyunyuta pamusoro pehupenyu.
Edza kushandisa mazano aya ari nyore muupenyu hwezuva nezuva, uye iwe uchaona - zvichange zviri nyore kukurukurirana nevamwe vashandi. Mukuwedzera, kukwanisa kuvaka nhaurirano inokurudzira inokosha kumutungamiri, inokubvumira kuita kuti basa rekufambisa rive rakanaka, uye zvino rinobatsira zvikuru.
Mano ekukurukura nevarume
Kukwanisa kutaura zvakanaka nevarume, zvichida, zvinodiwa kumudzimai wese - ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvinokosha zvekukwezva uye mhuri inofara. Zvinosuruvarisa, mukukurukurirana neukama hwakasimba, tinowanzoita zvikanganiso zvakawanda. Kazhinji Kakawanda:
- nemashoko akawanda-uye mazwi pamusoro pako iwe unofarira, nokuti yakange yazivikanwa kwenguva refu-
Varume havadi vakadzi vanotaura, asi nguva mushure menguva tinotanga pane rimwe chete. Vakadzi, vanoda kutora nekuchengetedza munhu - dzidza kuteerera uye kubvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pake; - kushungurudzika mupfungwa - varume havabvumiri kushungurudzika pavari zvachose, uye mupfungwa kunyanya, naizvozvo, kana iwe uchida kuratidza chimwe chinhu kwaari, rega kuona, iwe zviri nani edza kugutsikana nemashoko anonzwisisika;
- kunyadzisa kukuru-kunouraya, kune ukama. Yeuka, usazonyadzisa munhu, kunyanya mukurumbira. Varume vazhinji vanogona kukanganwira zvakawanda, asi kwete kunyadziswa kwevanhu.