Vanhu vanotaurirana mumwe nemumwe kubudikidza nemashoko uye kwete mazwi, asi kutaura kwemashoko kunoshanda senzira huru yekukurukurirana. Kutaurirana kutaura kunoreva kutaura kwemashoko ; mutauro wakanaka unobatanidza shoko, mazwi, inzwi rezwi, nezvimwewo. Tine rubatsiro rwekutaura, tinopfuurira ruzivo kune mumwe nemumwe, kugovana maonero, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Zvisinei, haisi nguva dzose "kutaurira" kumudzidzisi pfungwa dzake uye, sekutonga, iyo inobatanidza urombo hwemashoko.
Ko urombo hunoreva chii?
Kukurukurirana kwemashoko kunokosha zvikuru muupenyu hwemunhu, nokuti kukwanisa kutaura zvaunofunga mumutauro unokwanisa uye wakarurama kunogona kuvimba nebasa rako remangwana, chinzvimbo munzanga, nezvimwewo. Kutaura "kuchinja" kwevanhu vose kwakasiyana, asi munhu anoziva nzira yokuratidza maonero ake zvakanaka, achinyatsotsanangura uye akajeka, achagara achiremekedzwa uye akabudirira.
Zvakanaka, kana iwe usingakwanisi kutsanangura zvaunoda, iwe haugone kuunza mashoko ako kune interlocutor, kana izwi rako rakanyanya kushoma, saka vanhu vakakupoteredza havazombokunzwisisi. Icho "kushungurudzika" mukukurukurirana, kusakwanisa kutaura uye kuratidza pfungwa dzako kunonzi urombo hwemashoko. Hazvina mhosva kuti unoedza kuzvitsanangura sei, hauzonzwiki, urombo hwako hwemashoko hahuzokubvumiri kuita izvi, izvo zvinoreva kuti iwe uchanzwa wakasurukirwa, usinganzwisiswi nemunhu chero upi zvake, saka zvinetso, uye kusachengeteka, uye pakavanzika.
Chii chinokonzera urombo hwemashoko?
Chikonzero chechinetso nekukurukurirana kwekutaura kunogona kuva:
- Mafungiro epfungwa anokonzerwa muhuduku . Kushungurudzika kwakadaro kunogona kuwanikwa nekuda kwekuti mwana haana kubvumidzwa kutaura, nguva dzose akavhiringidza nyaya dzake, nezvimwewo, asi nekufamba kwenguva, chido, uye saizvozvo kukwanisa kuratidza mafungiro uye kufunga zvinonyangarika zvachose.
- Kunyanya kuzviremekedza . Nokuda kwekusachengeteka, munhu anotya kutaura maonero ake, achifunga kuti nyaya dzake dzose hazvifadzi kune vamwe, uye kutya kwekutarisa zvinyararire "kunoita" kunyarara, zvakanaka, kusakwanisa kutaura kunotungamirira kumatambudziko ekukurukurirana.
- Banal kuverenga nekunyora . Kutaurirana hakuzi kuberekwa nemunhu kuti ataure zvakanakira, kuva nemashoko makuru, kutaura kutaura kwakanaka, munhu anoda kukura. Kuverenga mabhuku, kukurukurirana nevanhu vakachenjera, kutarisa mafirimu akanaka, nezvimwewo. izvi zvose zvinobatsira kuwedzera chivako uye, zvechokwadi, kunatsiridza mutauro unotaura.