Mhando dzemagariro evanhu

Munhu anogara, zuva rimwe nerimwe, nemukana wose, anoedza kuona zvishuvo zvake, zvinangwa, kutanga kwezvose, kuyanana nevamwe vanhu. Mukutaurirana kwevanhu, kune dzimwe nguva kusanzwisisana, kukakavadzana, kunogona kuendeswa nekusawirirana, kukakavara, kuparadzana, uye naizvozvo marudzi emakwikwi emagariro evanhu mazhinji. Kushamwaridzana kwehukama hakusi chimwe chinhu kunze kwemunda wekurwisana nguva dzose kana kuyananiswa kwezvido. Dzimwe nguva vanopinda muhondo yakareba muukama hune dzimwe nguva ine mutsvuku mutsvuku, zvinoreva kuti kupesana, zvinokonzera uye mhando dzekusarudzwa kwavo zvichasiyana kubva kune mumwe.

Funga nezvemashoko makuru emakakatanwa anotsanangurwa maererano nehurukuro dzinopesana:

  1. Kurwisana kwevanhu pachavo kunopesana kunowanikwa mukati memumwe munhu pamwero wekuziva kwake. Mhando iyi yemakakatanwa inoreva kuchena kwepfungwa, asi inokonzerwa nekunze kwezvinhu uye inogona kuva chikonzero chekubuda kwemakakatanwa emapoka, kukanganisa kweboka.
  2. Kushamwaridzana - kusarudzwa kwemakakatanwa kunosanganisira kukakavara, izvo zvinopesana pakati peviri kana kupfuura nhengo dzeboka rimwechete kana mapoka akawanda.
  3. Intergroup - kukakavara pakati pevanhu, vanhu vanoumba boka, rimwe boka. Izvozvo zvinopesana ndizvo zvinowanzoitika, nokuti vanhu vanozoshanda pane vamwe vanowanzowana vatsigiri nechinangwa chekuumba boka revanhu vane pfungwa dzakadaro.
  4. Kurwisana kweve Mhando dzekupesana mupfungwa dzepfungwa dzinobata nzvimbo inorema, uye iyi mhuka ndeimwe yepamusoro. Kurwisana kunowanikwa nekuda kwevanhu vaviri vari mumwe nomumwe. Izvi zvinoreva, apo vanhu vanoita boka mukati meimwe, guru, kana kana munhu mumwe chete panguva imwechete ane mauto maviri okukwikwidza ari kutevera chinangwa chimwe chete.
  5. Kurwisana nemamiriro ekunze. Iyo yakasikwa apo vanhu vanoita boka vanonzwa kunetseka kwekunze (kubva mune zvezvemari, tsika, mitemo, maitiro). Kazhinji, vanopinda mumakakatanwa mumasangano aya anotsigira mitemo iyi, mitemo.

Mitauro nemhando dzemakakatanwa zvinosanganisirawo kukakavadzana kwevanhu vakavhenganiswa. Kwazviri zvinokwanisika kutakura kukakavadzana pakati pevanhu vakasiyana neboka revanhu. Izvi zvinopesana apo hutunhu hwehotera hunoita nzvimbo yakasiyana nedzimwe nzvimbo yeboka rose.

Ngatitendei pane imwe nyanzvi yekuongorororwa yemhando ipi yemakakatanwa akasiyana ndeaya:

  1. Nokutungamira (chinangwa kana chevanhu, chiremba kana imba).
  2. Pamusoro pezvinangwa (chaicho kana chinonyengera, zvakanaka zvinotungamirirwa, zvisina kunaka kutungamirirwa).
  3. Pamigumisiro (yakanaka kana yakaipa).
  4. Maererano nemaonero emapato anokakavadzana (intra-role or inter-role).
  5. Pamusoro pesimba remupfungwa, simba rekutungamira pane zvinopesana (zvakasimba uye zvisina simba).
  6. Nhamba yehuwandu (yakafara kana yega).
  7. Nenguva yakareba (pfupfupi, yakadzokorora, imwe nguva, yakapoteredzwa).
  8. Maererano nechimiro chekuratidzwa (kunze, mukati, kurongeka kana kusarongedzwa).
  9. Nezvinyorwa zvekubva (kuzviremekedza kana chinangwa).

Zvinokonzera, semhando dzemakwikwi evanhu, zvinorongerwa pane zvimwe zvikonzero:

  1. Kushamwaridzana nehutano hwehukama hwevanhu.
  2. Kushamwaridzana nehupenyu hwekubatana kwevanhu.
  3. Kushamwaridzana nehupenyu hwemapati ehondo.

Sezvo mhuka dzakasiyana dzakasiyana, kune nzira dzakasiyana dzekugadzirisa kukakavadzana:

  1. Kutarisira.
  2. Adaptation.
  3. Kubatana.
  4. Compromise.

Usakanganwa kuti chero mamiriro ezvinhu akakavhiringidza ane zvinyorwa zvaro uye zvigadziriswa uye, kuitira kuti kudzivirira migumisiro inorwadza kune mapoka maviri anokakavadzana, zvinokosha kuva nenguva yekugadzirisa kukakavadzana kana kutanga kwekusabvumirana.