Kukurukurirana kwevanhu kubva kare kare kwakakonzera kufarira kwakanyanya kune vanhu vane utera husina simba, zvichiita kuti vakafa vapedzisire vane nyasha dzakanaka dzevakadzi. Varume vanotaura nezvei? Zvakanaka, hongu, pamusoro pevakadzi, mafirimu, motokari, zvematongerwe enyika, bhora, mitambo nezvimwe zvakawanda. Varume vanoda kuzvidya mwoyo pamusoro pavo, matambudziko avo uye vamwe, vanofarira kuchera vakadzi pohlesche. Asi kuwedzera kune zvataurwa pamusoro apa, kukurukurirana kwevarume vezera remakore-kati ndiko kukurukurirana kwezvinetso zvekuva, zvekukosha.
Kukurukurirana pakati pevarume vaviri uye hurukuro pakati pevarume nevakadzi ndeyezvirevo zvakasiyana-siyana zvinomiririrwa kwete chete nemhando dzakasiyana dzezvidzidzo, asiwo nenzira yekukurukurirana. Mukukurukurirana pakati pemurume nemudzimai , vamiririri vevasikana vakasiyana navo havadi kuda kuva nemwoyo-ku-kutaura vachitaura nevanoda.
Varume dzimwe nguva vanowana zviuru zvezvikonzero uye nzira dzokuti kukurukurirana hakuiti, nokuti izvi, mumaonero avo, basa risina basa zvachose. Musikana uyu anofanira kuedza zvakaoma kuita kuti jaya riitaure pachena.
Yakarurama Taura neVarume
Ichi ndicho chiroto chechokwadi chemudzimai wese anoda kuvaka kuvimba nekuchengetedza zvakakwana, kukurukurirana zvine musoro nemumwe wake.
Tinopa nzira duku kana kuti murairo pamusoro pe "kushandiswa kwekukurukurirana kwechokwadi nemunhu":
- Ita nzvimbo yakakodzera yehurukuro inouya. Kana munhu achipindura mumashoko e-monosyllabic, saka zvichida ane nzara kana ane musoro mubasa rake.
- Usatanga hurukuro nemashoko okuti "Tinofanira kutaura." Anotyisa kutya mukati
vamiririri vevarume nevarume. - Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kunyanya kufungidzira kunogona kukuvadza mamiriro ekukurukurirana.
- Munguva yekukurukurirana, unofanira kugara uchikumbira mupfungwa dzomunhu uye pane kubvunza zvaanonzwa, bvunza zvaanofunga.
- Dzivisa kutarisa. Varume vanove vasinganzwisisiki neizvi, nditendei ini.
Funga nezvemitemo iyi yepamusoro uye yeuka - iyo psychology yemurume nemukadzi yakasiyana zvachose. Asi, pasinei neizvi, munhu wose ane kodzero yekuda uye kutsigira.