Maererano nehuwandu hwemashoko, muvanhu vemazuva ano vanenge 35 muzana yevakaroorana vanosarudza kuroorana kwevanhu kune imwe nyika yakanyoreswa kubatana. Zvikonzero zvechiitiko ichi zvakanyanya kwazvo: rusununguko rwehukama, kuchengetedza pamuchato nevamwe vazhinji. Kunyange zvakadaro, vashomanana vevakaroorana vanogara muwanano yevanhu, funga nezvekuti zviri pamutemo pfungwa ye "civil husband" mumutemo iyeyo haisipo. Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa izvi zvakaoma nyaya yehukama hwemhuri uye kuziva zvirwere izvo vakadzi vanogara munharaunda yevanhu vanogona kutarisana.
Pfungwa ye "kuroorana kwevanhu"
Pfungwa yekuti "kuroorana kwevanhu" yakabuda mumashandisirwe emangwana, uye makore anenge 25-30 apfuura, vanhu vanogara mumhuri yepamusoro vaionekwa sevatsvene vatsvene uye vakashongedzwa nenzira ipi zvayo nenzira yevanhu.Izwi iri rakauya kune zvinyorwa zvenyika yedu kubva kumavirazuva. musiyano wekuroorana kwekuMadokero munharaunda, mararamiro edu epamba munharaunda haana kubhadharwa nenzira ipi zvayo. Hapana mutemo mumwechete unoponesa kodzero dzemurume kana mudzimai kana kuti. Kunyange zvazvo kuroorwa kwehurumende, kukanganisa mafashoni, vanhu vazhinji mushure mezana Vanotarisana nezvinetso zvakakomba.
Ukaroorana hwevamwe - nekuda uye kurwisana
Chero chero vakadzi vemazuva ano vanotaura, vazhinji vavo vanobvuma kuroorana kwevanhu, vachikumbira kubvunzwa kwevasanangurwa vavo. Kusiyana nevarume, 90% yehutano hwakanaka haurambi kugadzirisa hukama hwepamutemo, husati hwave huri kurarama mukuroorana kwevanhu. Chikwata chevanhu vehurumende chinobatsira uye chinotyisa, asi sezvinoratidzira zvinoratidza, chikamu chemukadzi chinowana zvakawanda zviduku, kwete pluses.
Nzira dzekuroorana kwevanhu:
- mukana wekuita nguva yerudo muukama chero bedzi zvichibvira;
- mukana chero panguva ipi zvayo kubvisa ukama nekusiya;
- kusavapo kwezvimwe zvikwereti kumurume wehurumende;
- Zvinokwanisika kutarisa murume nokuda kwekuvapo kwezviito zvisingafadzi uye kwete kumira navo;
- mukana wekutungamira "kuronga" kwehupenyu hwemhuri, funga nezvekukanganisa kose kuitira kuti vasapfuurira kuramba vachienderera mberi.
Kuipa kwekuroorana kwevanhu vomunharaunda:
- nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, rudo rwekare rukabva kune hukama, uye vakaroorana vedzimba vanotarisana nemararamiro emhuri imwe chete;
- kakawanda kazhinji manzwiro okusagutsikana;
- kusagadzikana kwehukama nehukama hwemurume;
- hazvigoneki kuvimba nemudzimai;
- kushayikwa kwetariro uye zvirongwa zvekugoverana remangwana;
- kusachengeteka kwepamutemo kwemukadzi muwanano yehurumende.
Civil marriage nevana
Apo pavanopinda muwanano yehurumende, vanhu vanowanzofunga nezvezvinhu zvose nezvevana. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti pakutanga pakutanga rudzi urwu hwehukama hunoonekwa sechinhu chechinguva uye chisina kuvimbika. Zvisinei, njodzi inogona kurasa mune imwe nzira uye kuberekwa kwemwana muwanano yevamwe vanhu hakusi isiri. Uye, zvinosuruvarisa, kazhinji kacho mwana anova chikonzero chekusawirirana kwakanyanya pakati pevakaroorana muwanano yehurumende.
Sezvo ukama husina kubhadharwa zvakasununguka, pamuviri unova chikonzero chekuzorora kwevakaroorana vakawanda. Kune murume wehurumende, mwana wemunguva yemberi angasave akadikanwa uye mukadzi, munyaya iyi, anoramba ari "pachitsiko chakakoromoka" nechipo chechipo.
Kunyoresa mwana akaberekerwa munharaunda yevamwe vanhu hakusi kwakaoma. Amai vanogona kana kuti vangave vasina kuratidzira baba vari muchikwata. Uyezve, pamusana pekufunga kwake, anosarudza zita romwana akaberekerwa mumhuri.
Mukadzi ane mukana wekuwana kuburikidza nedare rekubhadhara kubhadharwa kweanmony kubva kumurume wehurumende. Asi izvi zvinotora nguva yakawanda uye mitsipa, uye inogona kusarudzwa kwete nekuda kweamai.