Nhasi, vagari vemaguta makuru, vanhu vari kushingairira kuvaka basa, vari kuwedzera kufunga pamusoro pehukama hwakasiyana-siyana, semisha yevaeni. Asi chii chichato chevakaroorana?
Inonziwo kunzi nyika, kureva kuti, vakaroorana vanogara munharaunda dzakasiyana, kusangana pamusana pekuda. Izvo zvinokwanisika kubata mazororo okuzorora, mazororo, kwete nguva refu yekugara, asi panguva imwechete vakaroorana havaiti imba imwe chete. Pane dzimwe nguva, vakaroorana vakasununguka kubva kune mumwe nemumwe uye mhuri yemitoro, asi kusiyana nekusununguka kwehukama, imba yevakaroorana inoramba ichireva kuvimbika kwemapoka, uye kunewo tamputi mupasipoti.
Zviratidzo zvehupenyu mumhuri yevaenzi
Muchato wevashanyi kazhinji kana murume nemudzimai wepamangwana vari vanhu vakasununguka uye vanozvimirira uye havadi kurasikirwa norusununguko zvachose. Mukuwedzera, vateveri vevakaroorana vanofunga kuti nguva refu yekugara pamwe inouraya manzwiro uye rudo, uye vashandi havaremekedzi uye vanokoshesa zvakakwana. Zvose izvi mumuchato wevatenzi zvinogona kudzivirirwa - vakaroorana vanoonekwa chete nechishuvo chekuda uye matambudziko avo ezuva nezuva haafungi. Ndezvipi zvinobatsira zvekuva nemudzimai wevakaroorana?
- hapana chekuita zuva nezuva;
- hapana munhu anokonzera munhu panguva yekupembera, kune zvakawanda zvekugara pasina nguva uye nguva;
- hapana uye hapana inogona kunge isina simba "uripi iwe", "sei wakagara kwenguva refu neshamwari dzako" nezvakadaro;
- hapana chikonzero chekutarisira mumwe munhu, kugadzirisa maitiro ake;
- kushayiwa ruzivo rwemhuri hutano kunoita kuti vashandisi vagara vachishuwaridzana, uye zvepabonde hachisi chinhu chinowanzodiwa.
Shamwari dzevashanyi dzinowanzosarudzwa navanhu vanogadzira, avo vanoda nzvimbo isina nzvimbo, semhepo, kana avo vanogara vachifamba. Kune vamwe vanhu vose, imba yevakaroorana inogona kuchinja kuwanda kwezvinhu zvisingaiti zvakakomba. Semuenzaniso, ukama hwakadaro hunogoneka chete kana mudzimai wehanzvadzi nemurume ari vapfumi vane hutano hwakanaka, vasina matambudziko aripo munharaunda. Mushure mezvose, mueni wevatano vengozi vanowira pasi pamusana pekuderera kuduku mune zvemari mune imwe yevadzidzi. Uyewo, haagoni kumira zvirwere kana kuora muhutano hwepabonde. Muwanano wevashanyi wezvisungo zvakakosha, vashandi havana mumwe pamberi peumwe, uye kana mumwe asingachagadziri chimwe chinhu, hukama hunopera pasina kukurukura kusingakoshi.
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa hazvifungi kuti rudzi urwu rwomuchato hunonyanya kukosha - vazhinji vavo vanodana ukama hwakadaro hanyengeri. Nemhaka yokuti vakaroorana vakadaro vanongotarisa hupenyu hwemhuri, vasingatyi kuzvipira kune mumwe munhu. Nokudaro, mhuri yacho inotsiviwa nechechi yepamusoro. Asi pane mafungiro ekuti mhuri dzevashanyi dzine kodzero yekuvapo, zvisinei, ndezvenguva pfupi. Mushure mezvose, kana munhu asingakwanisi kurega mumwe munharaunda yake, zvinoreva kuti ari kutsvaga zvakanakisisa, zvichida imwe nzira yakanakisisa. Asi zvisinei, hazvibviri kurambwa kuti imba dzevashanyi, asi dzichida kugadzirisa zvakanyanya kufambidzana, asi dzinogona kuva nenguva dzakaoma, kunyanya kana vaviri vachifunga nezvevana.
Vana muvakaroorana vomuchato
Mhuri yemuvakidzani haiiti mushure mekuonekwa kwevana, asi kuberekwa kwavo kunowanzogadziriswa nevakaroorana. Kunomutsa vana kana munhu anenge ane chinangwa chekuonekwa kwavo, kana kuti vaviri vacho vanogovana mabasa, kunyange pakutanga amai vachatarisira mwana chero zvakadaro. Asi kazhinji nguva yekurerwa kunowira zvakakwana pamafudzi eamai, baba vanotora nguva yakawanda muhupenyu hwevana - rudzi rwebaba rwezuva racho.
Mhuri dzevashanyi, hongu, dzine zvigaro zvadzo, asi zvinoratidzika kuti hazvikwanisi kutora mhuri yakazara-iwe unoda kuona munhu wekuzvarwa kwako zuva rega rega, uye nokuda kweizvi unogona kupa chidimbu chekunyaradza kwako pachako.