Mhuri yemhuri inoratidzwa mumagwaro, ivo vanofarira mubvunzurudzo yebasa, kunyange apo kunyoresa kune nzvimbo dzakawanda zvinotarisirwa kuratidza ruzivo urwu. Iwe unogona kureva zvakadini shoko rokuti "kuroora" pamusoro pemukadzi?
Ndeipi mamiriro ekuroorana?
Iko kune mhando dzinotevera dzehutano hwemhuri: vasina kuroorwa, vakarambana, vakaroora. Nzira yepamutemo yemitemo iyi inonzwisisika kune wese, asi ndizvo zvinotarisirwa nemuchato kumubhadhari pakuhaya inhau huru.
Chii chichati chikwata chemuchato chichataurira mushandi?
Zvinotaridzika kuti nzira yakanakisisa yekuwana basa muirafu ndokuroorana nevarume vakaroorana. Asi kwete, kusavapo kwemhuri kunogona kunge kuwedzera kune munhu - mushandi wake achafunga kuti akagadzirira kupedza mazuva neusiku pabasa. Asi kubva kumusikana wechidiki asina kuroora akamirira ketani yakasimba: kazhinji kushanyira - kuroora - chirevo. Uye kana mukadzi ane makore anodarika makumi matatu nemashanu uye asina kumbobvira akaroora, zvino izvi zvingasagadzikana kune waanoshandira - kamwe-kamwe chikonzero chiri mumunhu akaipa weunokumbira?
Vakadzi vakaroorana vasina vana havana nzvimbo yakanaka - vanotarisirwa kuti vaende nokukurumidza, uye vakadzi vane mwana muduku havadi kutora basa, nokuti vanofunga kugara vachirwara nekuda kwechirwere checheche.
Mukadzi ari muwanano yehurumende haasiwo chikafu chinonaka kune waanoshandira - kusada kwekugadzirisa zviri pamutemo ukama kunogona kuratidza kusagadzikana uye mubasa.
Nokudaro, munhu akakodzera ndiye akarambana kana mukadzi akaroorwa ane mwana mukuru.
Ungashandura sei mararamiro mumhuri?
Sezvo takaziva kuti kubhadharwa kwepamutemo kwehukama kwakakosha, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuchengetwa kwezvinhu zvose zvakagadziriswa. Kuno chete kuvapo kwechikwata chemuchato hachisati kukupa kodzero yakakwana yekunyorera shoko remashoko "wakaroorana" kumubvunzo wemamiriro ekuroorana. Inofanirawo kuisa chiratidzo mupasipoti.
Kuti uchinje mararamiro emudzimai mupasipoti iwe unoda kushanda kuhofisi yepasipoti panzvimbo yako yekugara. Uyewo usakanganwa kuti kana iwe wakashandura zita rako, ipapo pasipoti inofanira kuchinjwa.
Kuroorana haisi ukama hwewanano!
Asi magwaro aya mapepa, asi isu hatirarama pamapepa. Uye kuroorana kunopfuura kungoita chiratidzo mupasipoti. Takazvinzwa, zvichida, kutaura: kuroorana haisi yemamiriro ekuroorana, asi chirongwa "Kuti ushingi". Nezvo isu hatigoni kusawirirana, zvakaoma kusaisa rin'i pamunwe wako, asi uchengetedze ipapo kune hupenyu. Mukadzi anoda shungu dzakawanda uye ushingi hwokuvaka ukama hwekuvimba mumhuri uye kuchengetedza rudo rwemakore ari kuuya. Asi mutoro wemhuri inofara hairevi bedzi pamapfudzi asina kusimba, rubatsiro rwemudzimai runodiwawo pano. Kunyangwe, zvose zvinoenderana nevakaroorana, semuenzaniso, masayendisiti ekusiyana-siyana vanosiyanisa marudzi akawanda emhuri.
- Ukama, yatakataura nezvazvo, apo basa rekuroorana rakaparadzaniswa zvakafanana pakati pevakaroorana, vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanofunga zviri pedyo. Union of Companions inogara yakasimba, nokuti inoda nharo kwete yekutaura, asi kusarudza nzira ipi yekuita kuti mhuri iwedzere. Rudo mumuchato wakadaro unononoka, kwete kuti uzviise pasi pawakaroorana naye.
- Imwe kazhinji inowanzoita ukama hwehukama hwakasimba - mumwe wevakaroorana anonzwa ane mhosva kune imwe uye anotarisira matambudziko ake ose. Murume haaiti nguva dzose achiita basa redziviriri, munguva pfupi madzimai vari kuwedzera kuva shongwe yemhuri.
- Kune mhuri umo vakaroorana vanoedza zvakaoma zvikuru kuti varambe vaine rusununguko. Vanokwanisa kurarama vari voga uye vanozvibvumira kuva nemisangano inonakidza "kune rumwe rutivi".
- Hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kune zvibvumirano izvo vaviri vacho vanowanzoziva kuti ndiani ndiye tenzi wemhuri. Mhombwe pazvikonzero izvi inoramba ichiitika. Imba yakadaro haina kazhinji yakasimbiswa, kazhinji vaviri vacho vanogovana nzira uye vasingakwanisi kuziva kuti ndiani anofanira kutora nzvimbo inotungamirira.
- Chimwe chisingatauri chibvumirano chisina kuwirirana ukama umo vakaroorana vanotenda kuti vanofanira kufananidzwa zvachose, vasina kodzero yehupenyu hwavo pachavo. Pano, zvakare, kukakavadzana hakusi nyore, chete chikonzero chavo chegodo.
Sezvaunogona kuona, mutsara mutsva pamusoro pemamiriro ekuroorana unotaura nezvehupenyu hwechokwadi huri hwakawanda. Saka usafunga kuti vakadzi vose vakaroora vanofara uye vanobatwa, uye razvedenok - vakarasikirwa.