Mutambo wechido, chimwe chezvinhu zvinofadza zvevechidiki. Kwemakore, hazvikanganisi kukosha kwayo uye kunyange vanasekuru vedu vanogona kuzvirumbidza kuti kana vaita zvimwe zvinhu kune shamwari dzavo dzevarume. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, mubvunzo wezvido zvipi zvingave zvakagadzirwa nemurume, zvakare, haana kurasikirwa nezvakakosha. Uye vasikana vakawanda, vachibvumirana nemutambo uyu, vari kutanga kufungidzira pamusoro peikuvhiringidza shamwari yavo. Ngatiedzei uye isu tichafungisisa pamusoro penyaya iyi uye tifunge kuti chii chinoita kuti murume aifunge, zvichienderana nemarongwa edu kumunhu uyu.
Murume uyu akakavimbisa chido - chii chaifunga?
Kutanga, sezvo musikana wese akabvuma kutamba chido, zvinoreva kuti iye achiri nezvimwe zvinotarisirwa kubva kumurume wechiduku. Izvozvo ndizvo zvakaita vakadzi - hatingatauri nevaya vasingafariri matiri. Saka, icho chikonzero chekuita chido kune mukomana chinofanira kuva chakanaka kwatiri. Kune rumwe rutivi, chido chinogona kuva chikonzero chakanakisisa chokutsiva kune munhu asingadi iwe zvikuru. Zvimwe chete, pane zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa uye mamiriro ezvinhu. Nokudaro, runyora rwezvido zvemumwe mukomana rinofanira kuitwa zvichienderana nemafungiro ako kwaari uye zvinangwa zvako. Ngatiedze kuzvinzwisisa.
1. Kana mukomana waunoda, uye iwe usingafungi kuramba uchinyatsotaura naye, zvisarudzo zvekuchiva zvinogona kuva zvinotevera:
- Kumbira kuti akukunyore tsamba muzita rake pachayo yeA4 pepa rese. Izvi zvichakuzivisa iwe kana une mukana weukama nemurume uyu uye kuti anokubata sei. Kunyange kana ukama hwako husingawedzere mberi, uchave nekurangarira kwakanaka kwemu nguva ino;
- rega akukoka iwe kunze kwezuva. Zvimwe kuchava chiito chakanaka kuti iwe uve pedyo;
- kumbira kuti akutsvode. Ichi chisarudzo ndeyevaya vasingatsungiriri zvachose;
- Kumbira chipo kubva pasi pemwoyo. Uyewo nzira yakanaka yekuona kuti anokubata sei.
2. Chii chaunogona kufunga nezvemurume ari shamwari yepedyo iwe?
- unogona kuchengetedza chido kusvikira usingadi rubatsiro rwemunhu uyu (somuenzaniso, tora iwe kana wakanonoka kana kubatsira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma);
- kana iwe uchida mumwe munhu kubva kune shamwari dzako, shingai shamwari yako yakakavadzana kuti ichitaure neshamwari iyi pamutoro wako, kana kumukoka kuti afambe newe;
- kana usina chikamu chechipiri, bvunza munhu akakavadzana nemumwe munhu kukuzivisa;
- iwe unogona kuuya nechishuvo chemavara kubva kune chikamu chekudziya uye ushamwari. Semuenzaniso, kumanikidzira kudya lmon risina shuga, kureurura rudo kumunharaunda wekare, kuimba pakati pekona imwe rwiyo rwep pop kana kuenda kuchitoro mune rimwe jasi;
- Imwe nzira inosanganisira shamwari ndiyo chido chokuti munhu akakavhiringidza pamusoro pechinhu chakakushamisa iwe. Dzimwe nguva izvi zvinoshanda zvakanaka, zvichipiwa kuti shamwari inokuziva zvakanaka.
3. Chii chiri chido chokuita mukomana anofarira musikana wako? Munyaya iyi, pfungwa dzinofanirwa kuenda kune imwe nzira. Somuenzaniso:
- anobvumirana kubuda nemusikana uyu;
- kana shamwari ikagara pedyo kana inotarisirwa nguva yakadai, uyu murume ari nharo anofanira kumutsvoda, kana kupedza nguva naye. Zvichida, chimwe chinhu kubva pane ichi chichabudawo.
4. Pane kakawanda mamiriro ezvinhu apo munhu asingazivi iwe asina hanya newe unorasikirwa nebheji, kana iwe usingazivi iwe zvakanaka. Unhu hupi hwekuda iwe unogona kufunga pamusoro pomunhu akadaro?
- kumubvunze kuti anyore kana kutaura nezvake;
- iwe haugoni kunetseka uye kungomuita kuti akuite iwe unofadza kushamiswa. Pakupedzisira, iwe hausi kurasikirwa nechimwe chinhu;
- chimwe chinhu chikuru - chishuvo chekuseka.
Kufanana nokukwira kubva kubhandi, kushambidza mune tsime remunharaunda, kufamba mumugwagwa mumapfekero emukadzi, nezvimwewo.
Kufunga kuti ndechipi chido chekuita mukomana, edza kutanga kubva pane zvaunofarira. Zvichida une chivande chinokurudzira, chawakanga uchivanza kubva kumunhu uyu kwenguva refu. Muchiitiko ichi, chido chako ndechokuti iwe pachako mukana wekuvandudza mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Uye yeuka, izvo zvaunazvo mupfungwa hazvifaniri kunyadzisa munhu. Hazvina mhosva kuti unoitora sei, mitambo yakadaro, uye mhirizhonga chero ipi zvayo inowanzova nemifananidzo yakasangana uye haitungamiri kune chero chinhu chinokosha. Kana chido chako chisati chiri kuedza kuswedera pedyo nemurume wechidiki, shandura icho muchikwata chejokes chepakutanga. Uye rega mafungiro ako akubatsire iwe!