Barika revarume nevakadzi - zvinokonzera uye zviratidzo

Murume wepurogiramu - chimwe chezvinhu zvinowanzozivikanwa munzanga. Inowanzokwanisika kunzwa kubva kumudzimai wechikadzi chirevo chokuti munhu "anofamba" nemasikirwo. Panecheka yevakadzi inotaurwa zvishoma nezvishoma, inofungidzirwa kuti iyi ndiyo mugove wevarume. Izvi ndizvo here?

Imai ndeapi?

Barika rinodiwa nomunhu kuti ave nehukama hwakasiyana nevanhurume vakasiyana. Iyo pfungwa yakabva pashoko rokuti polygamy (chiGiriki pολύς - vazhinji, γάμος - kuroorana) - muchato umo murume kana mukadzi ane vakaroorana vakawanda. Muzvisikwa, kuitika kweparika muvarume kunonzi polygyny uye tsika dzakadaro dzepabonde dzinobatsira kuchengetedza zvipenyu kuburikidza nevana vakawanda.

Mumwe munhu isaromu kana kuti murume mumwe chete here?

Mubvunzo, kana munhu ari mitaka, unokonzera kufarira pakati pezvinyorwa zvebiologist uye vezvemagariro evanhu. Sayenzi haipei mhinduro isinganzwisisiki, kakawanda inofungidzirwa kuti mumwe murume anowirirana kana munhu aine chido chekuenderera mberi nemhuri yake, asi apo hukama hunosimbiswa uye vana vachikura, ipapo mararamiro akafanana anogona kusimuka: kuroorazve uye mwana mutsva. Varume kana vakadzi vasingadi kuparadza mhuri, vanoita hukama hwemhirizhonga hwakanyatsovanzwa.

Zvinokonzera mitaka

Chii chinoita kuti munhu ave nehukama hwakasiyana kana hukama. Zvikonzero zvebarika ndezviverengeka:

1. Kupona . Kubvira panguva yekare, vanhu vakawana hondo dzakawanda, kuputika kwezvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana, kuparadza. Varume vakafa muhondo, vana vakafa, uye kuitira kuti nenzira imwe neimwe ienzanise varume, chimiro chekuberekwa chinomutsa kuburikidza nekutaurirana nevakasiyana-siyana pamwe chete panguva imwe chete.
2. Tsika . Pano, chitendero uye nzira yevanhu vanoita basa. Barika rinotsigirwa mune dzimwe nyika dzeIslami, zvikonzero zvinowanzonzika kubva munguva yakapfuura, apo kuwedzera kwekufa kwakawanda. Vamwe vanhu vachiri netsika: munyaya yekufa kwemurume, mukadzi ane vana anoenda pasi pekuchengetedzwa kweimwe hama, kuva mudzimai wake, kunyange kana akaroora panguva iyoyo.
3. Rudo kamwechete kune vashoma . Izvi zvinoitikawo kana murume kana mukadzi ari murudo achiwa murudo nemumwe, achiedza kuchengetedza mhuri . Kazhinji izvi ndeyanovhesi kune rumwe rutivi, iyo inochengetwa pakavanda, kuitira kuti isakonzera marwadzo kune vakaroorana.
4. Prestige . Mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzebhizimisi, kuvapo kwevanokanganisa mazita akawanda kunopa simba.
5. Psychological complexes . Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinotaura pamusoro pegoreka munyika yanhasi sechinhu chisina kusimba chakaoma. "Don Juan", "Casanova" vanotya kuvaka ukama hwakakomba, izvo zvinoreva kushanda uye mitaka pano ndiyo nzira yokuratidza kune vamwe "kuti ini ndakanaka sei uye ini ndinoshandisa kubudirira!"

Barika revarume

Murume wegarika, maererano nevasayendisiti, inokonzerwa nekuti varume vari muzana kune vakadzi vashoma. Maererano nehuwandu hwemashoko, musiyano wacho muduku (50:52), asi vakomana vanozvarwa vasina kusimba uye kufa pakati pavo mucheche kwakakwirira kudarika vasikana. Barika revarume - chiitiko munharaunda inonyatsotsigirwa nehafu yakasimba yevanhu. Murume wepamukira mararamiro anoongorora kare kare kubva muTesitamende Yekare:

1. Mambo mukuru Soromoni, maererano nemitauro yakasiyana-siyana, akanga ane madzimai mazana manomwe mune imwe nzvimbo.
2. Aritashasita II Mutongi wePezhia weimba yeAkaya yemakumi maviri nemaviri - madzimai makumi maviri nemaviri nevarongo, vana 150.
3. Vladimir Krasno Solnyshko - kusati kubvumirwa kubhabhatidzwa kwaizivikanwa sehobertine guru uye yakasvibiswa muupombwe yaiva nevakadzi 800.

Vakadzi vebarika

Barika revakadzi riri chinhu chisingawanzwisisiki, rinopomerwa nehupenyu hwemazuva ano uye kutsamwisa kunopesana mumunhu ane pfungwa dzeEurope. Iko pfungwa yebarika yevakadzi inobatanidza kusaruramisira kusararamiro mune zvavanotungamirira. Chikonzero chikuru, maererano neanthropologists, ndeyekuti mukadzi ari kutsvaga murume ane chimiro chakasimba neine zvakanaka genetics yemurume nekuda kwekuenderera kwemajini, nenzira iyi inogona kutora nhamba yakakwana yevamwe. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakaparadzanisa vakadzi vazhinji mumararamiro:

1. "Snow White" - anotenda kuti "uwandu hunokosha kupfuura hunhu." Mukadzi mushure memakore makumi matatu, uyo panguva imwechete haana kufamba. Zvinoshanda. Mune varume, anokoshesa rupo: zvipo, "kufamba muchiedza."
2. "Alpha-females" inowanzova mukadzi webhizimisi, mukadzi akakura mumusikana anosarudza vashandi vaduku. Anokwanisa kukwanisa kubata ne "vechiduku" vanoverengeka panguva imwe chete.

Mhando yegarika

Barika rinofananidzira chinoshamisa kune mhuka dzenyika, uye munhu, sechikamu chezvisikwa, anotamira kutevera kuratidzwa kwemaitiro ake. Barika rinoparadzaniswa mumhando dzinotevera:

1. Polyandry ndiyo inowanikwa isina kuroorwa, iyo mukadzi ane varume vanoverengeka. Fraternal polyandry - musikana anoroora hama, iyi imba inokubvumira kushandisa nyika yekuzvarwa pasina kuikamura. Madzimai echikafu, sechimiro cheukama, inoshandiswa munenge makumi mashanu ehurumende uye zviri pamutemo zvakatemwa munyika:

• Tibet;
• dzimwe nyanzvi dzeIndia (Rajasthan, Zanskar);
• Polynesia;
• Nigeria;
• nzvimbo dzeFar North.

Barika - inobatsira uye inotyisa

Bharika kubva pane zvepfungwa uye yepfungwa inokwezva kune varume uye ine huwandu hwezvimwe zvinobatsira uye zvigaro zvakasiyana nemudzimai wega, uye kune zvikanganiso zvishoma. Chii chinowedzera muchokwadi? Kubatsira kwetarika:

1. Murume wacho ane chivimbo, akapoteredzwa nehanzvadzi yechakavanzika. Vakadzi vane intuitively vanonzwa kudiwa kwe "murume" uye izvi zvinovakwezva.
2. Kutarisira, shungu uye rudo zvinopiwa nemadzimai kana madzimadzi.
3. Kuoma kwechisarudzo kunopera, apo iwe unoda kusarudza imwe shamwari yehupenyu.
4. Izvo zvakasiyana-siyana zvepajini: vana vanobva "vakadzi" vakasiyana-siyana vanopa "tsanangudzo munhoroondo".
5. Paunenge uchigovana pamwe chete, pane vamwe vakasara.

Maminitsi emarika akawanda:

• kana iyo isiri yepamutemo yepamutemo kubatana kunofanira kureva nhema, dodge;
• kutya kwekuzarurwa pachena;
• chinhu chikuru chemari;
• nharo pamusoro penhaka;
• Mukana wekushungurudzwa, mhuri inoramba isingabatsiri;
• nguva shoma inopiwa vana.

Barika rechiKristu

Ukama hwepamuviri huri kubviswa nekutenda kwechiKristu uye hunofungidzirwa kusagamuchirwa. Bhaibheri rakazara nemitemo yegoreka. Baba Vatsvene vanotsanangura izvi nokuwa kwevanhu, nokuti Mwari akaita ukama humwechete pakati paAdam naEvha mubindu reEdeni. Testamende Yekare "inotyisa" neukama hwepamende uye chete muTestamente Itsva, maererano nedzidziso dzemuapostora Pauro wokutanga, kuroorana chinhu chakavanzika chakavanzika chevanhu vaviri: "Rega murume anamatira kumudzimai wake, uye mudzimai kumurume", vamwe vose upombwe chivi.

Barika rechiJudha

Pakati pevaJudha, chiitiko chegoreka - mitaka yakave yakakurumbira kubvira kare. Madzimai mashomanana aigona kupa vanhu vakanaka chete. Torah - Magwaro Matsvene wevaJudha akatarisirwa kuti ave nemudzimai wechipiri kana mudzimai wekutanga akanga asingabereki kana kuti asina simba. Muzana remakore rechi11, Rabbi Meyer Gershom akarayira chirevo chemakore ane chiuru, izvo zvaida kuti pave nemudzimai mumwe chete uye kurambidzwa kurambana pasina kubvumirwa kwake. Mazuva ano vaJudha ekudzosa sarami kuitira kuti vagadzirise mamiriro ezvinhu evanhu muIsraeri, maererano navo, gore remakore 1000 rave rapera.

Barika reMuslam

Barika reMuslim rinowanzopararira, zvichienderana nenzira yekare yeupenyu. Akaparidzirwa munzvimbo dzine vakadzi vakawanda. Ndeyendei pakati peMuslim marudzi:

• chero munhu ane kodzero yekutora madzimai mazhinji;
• mumwe nomumwe anosarudza kana achishandisa kodzero iyi kana kwete;
• Ukama hwemhuri hunofanira kuva hwakanaka uye hwakaenzana kune vose;
• kana munhu asingakwanisi kupa mudzimai anopfuura mumwechete, kwaari goroka rinorambidzwa.

Korani inorondedzera:

• kupa zvakaenzana kutarisa kune vakaroorana nevana vakaberekerwa navo;
• Nheyo dzemaonero haafaniri kupiwa kunze kwekuda, kugoverwa kwakakosha zvakaenzana kunokosha.

Barika remukati munyika yanhasi

Imwe murume wepamende ndiyo kutendwa kwakasimba nhasi, asi vakadzi havaregi shure kwehafu yakasimba muchishuvo chavo chekuwana tsigiro ivo pachavo nevana vavo, vachiedza nenzira dzakasiyana dzehukama. Bhoora riri chisarudzo chemunhu mumwe nomumwe uye iwe unogona kuchibata nenzira yakasiyana: nekusava nechokwadi nekunyengedzera, kutsamwa, uye iwe unogona kugamuchira chokwadi chekuti kana zviripo zvakasikwa, zvino pane zvikonzero. Varume nevakadzi vanowanzobatana nehurumende yemumwechete uye vanokoshesa nguva dzose havasi vashomanana, munhu anogara aine sarudzo.