Rudo ari kure - zvinoita here, uye sei kuchengeta ukama uri kure?

Rudo uri kure - zvakakodzera here kupinda mukati mekunzwa uku? Pane ramangwana rerudo rwakadaro here? Dzimwe nguva moyo haubvunzi uye unopindura, chii chaunofanira kuita nezvazvo? Hazvisi zvinhu zvose zvakashata uye zviuru zvevanhu munyika yose zvakapinda muhupenyu hunosiyana uye zvakabatanidza zvavanoda.

Rudo runogoneka zvishoma here?

Pane rudo here? Sei? Rudo rwacho rwakasiyana uye runoitika uye harusi kunyange rushoma. Vanhu vazhinji vanogona kusangana nehupenyu hwavo nekuda kwemikana inowanikwa nenzvimbo yakakwana, kana kusangana kusinganzwisisiki mumakwikwi, kunyange zvazvo zvisati zvese zvakaitika kuva pamwe chete, asi kune avo vanokunda zvipingamupinyi zvekuparadzana uye vakawana rudo rwechokwadi.

Rudo runogara kwenguva yakareba rini?

Ushamwari huri kure ndihwo husingaiti misangano sechipo chekuguma, kusuruvara uye rudo pane imwe nguva? Kana izwi rorudo rwakadaro? Mumwe munhu ari mumutambo uyu anorarama hupenyu hwose, vamwe havagoni kumira uye vanosarudza chaiye, zvisinei kwete rudo, ukama , asi munhu ari pedyo. Asi avo vakaona rudo mucheto nguva dzose vanokoshesa mumoyo mufananidzo wevaya vanorevei izvi, asi kusangana kwakadai kunosangana. Pano pane imwe mhando yekusakwana uye kukwezva.

Ukama huri kure - mazano emunhu wepfungwa

Nzira yekuita ukama hwakakwana-kure-mazano echipfungwa chepfungwa:

• kuva shamwari, mumwe wako anofanirwa kunzwa sechishuvo chekuswedera pedyo nekukurukurirana pane dzimwe nyaya dzinokosha kwaari;
• Usataurire pamusoro pezvinhu zvinoparadzanisa, asi tsvaga mhinduro dzinoungana pamwe nekubatana;
• zvakakosha kuratidza nemwoyo wose manzwiro ako - mazwi mashoma, sechinzvimbo chokubata;
• Sarudza munharaunda yausingarereki kwaunogara uchingosangana nayo kakawanda sezvinobvira, inogona kunge iri pfupi pamepu inoratidza kukundwa kwehafu yenguva, chido chekuonana, mumwe nomumwe akakunda kure hafu-yakanyanya kuda.

Zvakakosha here kutanga ukama huri kure?

Kucherechedza manzwiro ari kure kana kuti kuponesa ukama huri kure, zvichida havafaniri kutanga? Dzimwe nguva ruzivo rwakadaro runodiwa uye hukama hwakakwana hunogona kubva mazviri, uye kamwe--kuzoitika, hapana anoziva, saka kana moyo uchiti "Hongu!" - unofanirwa kuutenda , iwe unozozvidza iwe iwe usina kumboedza. Izvi ndizvo, unoda ushingi hushoma uye kuvimba mumanzwiro ako.

Chirevo cherudo ari kure

Chirevo chekuda kumurume ari kure chinonyanya kurudzirwa, asi varume vakaita sazvo apo mukadzi wavo akanyora tsamba kana nhetembo pamusoro pekuoma kwekuparadzanisa. Kutenda kwokuti vadikamwi vakaparadzaniswa nemuganhu wakareba, nyika yakanzwa dzakawanda nhetembo dzakanaka, prose, manodhi - inogara ichibata mweya, saka usatya kutya kuratidza kuonekwa kwako nenzira yerudo, pfungwa dze mweya dzinogara dzakanaka.

Nzira yekukudziridza ukama huri kure?

Rudo uri kure - kuburikidza nerunhare rwenyika yose, nyika yakabatana mune imwe nzvimbo mudenga, haugone kubuda mumba kuti uite ukama? Asi pane ramangwana revaya vari kune rumwe rutivi rwekona here? Nokuti kukweverwa kwemweya hakuna mitsara, mubvunzo ndewokuti, rudo rukaitika sei kuti ruve nekuvandudza ukama huri nemurume ari kure? Mazano mashomanana, asi zvose zvakasiyana uye zvakakosha kuedza:

1. Ukama hunofanira kuonekwa seicho chaihwo, semunhu ari pedyo, kuti afarire, kubvunza, kuti anokwanisa kuteerera, kuti ave nehanya.
2. Usatya kuratidza unhu hwako, hutano - chibvumirano cheukama hwechokwadi.
3. Musangano unofanirwa kuitika, zvisinei kuti ungave uri kutya sei.
4. Kuvaka kuvimbana kune umwe neumwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chekugara kwenguva refu, kusvikira pane musangano chaiwo uye kunzwisisa kuti iwe uri murume nemudzimai, hapanofanira kuva nenzvimbo dzechisimba zvekuratidzwa kwegodo , zvinogona kutyisa.

Nzira yekuchengetedza sei rudo kubva kure?

Ndezvipi zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kune manzwiro kupfuura munhu waunoda kune rumwe rutivi rwepasi, kana mune rimwe guta, nzira yekuchengetedza ukama uri kure? Hapana angati izvi zviri nyore, saka zvakakosha kushandisa nzira dzose dzinogoneka:

• rambai muchigadzirisana nezvezviitiko zvose, sarudza nzira dzekutaurirana, kubatsirwa kwenyika yanhasi kunobatsira kuva "mamiriro ezvinhu" pedyo nemaminetsi makumi maviri nemasere, unogona kushandisa zvishandiso zveInternet, video call, macheza;
• shingairira purogiramu yako, kuronga mazuva apo iwe ungagona kubhururuka, uya pahafu yako uye uite kuti ive zuva, asi ichange iine mafungiro akazara uye mashiriki kana iwe uchigadzirira, asi kunyange kana zvichinyanya kushamisa;
• kukurukurirana pamisoro dzakasiyana, kutaura kuti nguva dzinotyisa dzinobatsira kuva vanhu vepedyo kunyange nechokure;
• zvakakosha kukurudzirana nguva dzose - uye zvose zvichabuda.

Ukama huri kure - kuti ungaparadzana sei?

Nzira yekuparadzanisa hukama nechokure - mubvunzo uyu unobvunzwa nevarume vakaroorana vakaneta zvose zvakagadziriswa . Zvakaoma uye zvepfungwa uye zvepanyama, kana zvigunzva uye nguva dzehukama hwepedyo zvakakosha zvikuru. Chii chaunofanira kuita kana ukasarudza kuparadzanisa nzira:

1. Pakutanga, zvipe iwe mukana wekuongorora mafungiro ako zvakare. Izvozvo zvinokonzera kuparadzana ndiyo nzvimbo yakanyanya kuvengwa kana chikonzero - muyanzvi pachake, manzwiro ake akadzikama. Kuzvibvuma iwe pachako kunorwadza, asiwo kuporesa.
2. Ita rondedzero yehutano uye hukama hwehukama hwakadaro, izvo zvakanyanya?
3. Dambudziko racho ringagadziriswa here? Pane imwe nzira yekubuda nayo iri pedyo uye kakawanda? Kana zvisingaiti -kuparadzanisa hakugoneki.
4. Taurira mumwe wacho kutendeseka pamusoro pechisarudzo chavo chekugovana navo, pasina kutarisa kumashure uye kuedza kuramba varipo mune hukama hwehukama hwakadaro. Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokuita zviitiko, kuonga muvakidzani wenguva iyo yavakapedza nguva pamwe chete uye vakatsigirana kubva kure.
5. Tanga kuumba hupenyu hwako, uzviite uine hukama hutsva. Upenyu hunoenderera mberi.

Mafirimu nezvorudo ari kure

Kureba kunouraya rudo - ichokwadi here? Zvichida, kana mweya isingabatanidzi, saka yakanga isiri rudo, uye nzvimbo yacho haisi yekuita nayo? Rudo uri kure ndirwo ruzivo rwezvepfungwa rwemafirimu uye rinonyatsoshandiswa nevatungamiri vazhinji vanoda kufuratira mitambo pamusoro pe rudo. Mafirimu pamusoro pemanzwiro ari kure:

1. " 10 000 km: Rudo uri kure / 10 000 km ". Sergio naAlex vanogara muBarcelona, ​​ivo vari vakaroorana vane simba, shungu yavo mushure memakore manomwe ekuroorana yakangofanana. Alex anopa basa rinorota rehupenyu hwake muLos Angeles uye musikana anobvumirana. Gore risina shamwari, Alex naSergio vanogona here kuchengetedza manzwiro?
2. " Kune imwe nzvimbo ye rudo / Going The Distance ." Vhiki nhanhatu dzeshoko rakasvibirira rakanaka pakati peva protagonist uye inoda kudzokera kuSan Francisco, uye Garrett anogara kuNew York. Erin naGarrett vari kuedza kukunda chikamu cherudo.
3. " The Lake House ". Rudo ari kure uye makiromita apa haasi mhosva, ari munguva yakapfuura, ari mune ramangwana, makore maviri chete anogovana navo, vanonyora tsamba kune mumwe nemumwe, vane mbwa imwe yeviri, uye imba iri pedyo negungwa. Vachakunda zvose, nokuti rudo rwechokwadi haruna ruzivo.
4. " Sezvakaita mapenzi ." Anna naJakobho vari vadzidzi, uye kuva kwenguva yakareba pamwe chete naye, anotyora mamiriro ezvinhu edzidzidzi visa, uye paanosvika kuEngland anouya kune imwe nyika yekuenda kune dzimwe nyika, Anna haakwanisi kusvika kumudiwa wake kuNew York.

Mabhuku pamusoro perudo ari kure

Rudo runoedzwa nenguva uye kure-chokwadi ichi chave chichangobva kufungidzirwa kukwirira kweuchenjeri uye tsika dzakanaka , nguva yekuda rudo yakapfuura uye kana rudo uye ukama hwemhuri ari kure zvidzaidza chokwadi chekunzwa? Izvi zvose zvakasarudzwa, asi ndinoda kutenda kuti ichi ndicho chiitiko. Uye kuti ufuridzike uye unzwe kuti chii, iwe unogona kuverenga mabhuku anotevera:

1. " Angelica uye rudo rwake " A. Golon, S. Golon. Kusingafi zvinyorwa zve nguva dzose uye vanhu. Rudo varume nevakadzi vakanaka vari kure. Ivo vakasungwa nokusingaperi mumoyo uye hapana zvipingamupinyi hazvigoni kuparadza rudo urwu.
2. "Mishonga yakanakisisa yemhepo yekuchamhembe " D. Glattauer. Vaviri vari voga mweya muhutano hwehutano hwehutano vakawana mumwe nemumwe, kubva pane tsamba - kusingaperi kwemafungiro nemanzwiro. Asi zvakadini kana tikatora uye tichionana muhupenyu chaihwo, kamwe-kamwe mashiriro ekufunga anopera mumhepo yekuchamhembe?
3. Uri kupi? "M. Levy. NdiSusan, uye iye Philippe, shamwari kubva paudiki "usasipo mvura" haana kuona kuti ushamwari hwavo hwakakura sei uye izvi zvinotyisa Susan, anomhanya kubva murudo kusvikira kumucheto wemhepo, asi angatiza kubva pamanzwiro akasimba?
4. " Victoria " K. Hamsun. Rudo rwevanhu vaviri vari kure rwunoitika uye izvi: Ivo vamiririri vezvikwata zvakasiyana-siyana zvevanhu uye iyi ihwowo mararamiro ekureba kubhadzi, kuda nekuziva kuti hazvirevi kuva pamwe chete.
5. " Handitendi. Handitarisi. Ndinoda "S. Ahern. Vanonyora tsamba kune mumwe nemumwe, vanoita basa pakati peyi tsamba, vanoberekera vana, vanorambana, uye pazera remakore makumi mashanu vanonzwisisa kuti vaida zvakadini upenyu hwavo hwose uye vanoda kuva pamwe chete.