"Nokuti nekuda kwevasikana gumi maererano nehuwandu, pane 9 varume" -ku ndiko kuri kuimbwa mune imwe rwiyo rukuru. Vachizvifukidza ivo pachavo kana kungovhiringidza nenzeve, vakadzi vanotanga hukama nevarume vakaroorana. Kazhinji, kubatana kwakadaro kunoparadzwa, nokuti kufara kunotsiviwa nepfungwa yehudzi hwevakadzi, hana yehana yevanhu, uye kuti kutaura kunoda kuvanzwa hakuiti mufaro. Uye kana musikana wacho asingadi kupedza makore ake oupenyu hwakanaka mukumirira kushanyirwa uye "achitamba tsori", anosarudza kuputsa, kuwana dambudziko, kukanganwa murume akaroorwa.
Ungakanganwa sei murume akaroorana waunoda?
- Chokutanga pane zvose, tanga kurarama hupenyu hunoshingaira, enda kune zviitiko zvekugarisana, zviitiko zvekunakidzwa, zvechokwadi mune hukama uhwu hwakapedza nguva yakawanda mumakamuri ehotera asingakoshi kana muimba yako, uko zvinhu zvose zvino zvinokuyeuchidza nezvekare kare rudo.
- Hapana chakareruka kunze kwekukanganwa mudiwa akaroorana ari mumaoko evanhu vatsva vanoda. Asi usakurumidza kuenda kumunda wokutanga kana mukuronga kwekuuya kweusiku, dzimwe nguva kuzvirumbidza uye kudzorera mweya watinoda chete kutamba, kufunga kuti tinoda uye tinoda.
- Iye zvino zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti hakuna chimwe chinhu chakaoma kupfuura kukanganwa murume akaroora waunoda, asi tenda ini, nguva ichapfuura uye iwe uchayeuka ukama uhwu nekumwemwemwerera zvishoma. Panguva ino, nepo uropi huchifukidzwa nerudo uye haugoni kufungidzira, zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti zvose zvaigona kunge zvakasiyana, kuti iwe hauna kukwana. Ichokwadi, izvi hazvisi izvo. Funga pamusoro pokuti ndiani akafuridzira pfungwa iyi kwauri, uyo ane mhosva yekusava nechokwadi kwako, wawakapedza nguva yakareba pasina mhinduro. Uyu munhu akakodzera rudo rwako here? Zviunganidze iwe pamwe chete! Uye kana ruzha rutsva harisi yako sarudzo, saka sarudza kana yeuka zvekudhirodza kwako , zvekare, enda kune zvemitambo pakupedzisira.
- Vakadzi, pasinei nekushuva kwavo, zvinhu zvinonzwisisika, uye kana iwe uchida iwe unogona kufunga nezvekuita kuti iwe ukanganwe murume. Zvinyengetere kuti kuva amaikadzi kunonyadzisa, kuti maawa iwayo emufaro haakodzeri nguva yekutarisira kushungurudza kwemusangano unotevera.
Ida iwe pachako, kukoshesa nguva yako, uye murume asina kuroora wehuroto dzako achave ari pamusuo wako nekukurumidza kupfuura iwe unofunga.