Ukama nemurume akaroora

Dambudziko rehukama nemurume akaroorwa ndechekare sechinhu chekuroorana. Zvinosuruvarisa, manzwiro haakwanisi kumanikidzwa kusarudza chinhu chakanaka chekunamatwa, saka, pakuramba unyengeri nekuvhara maziso ako kune tsika netsika dzakanaka dzechinetso, ngatinzwisise mafungiro ehupfungwa hwehukama nemurume akaroorwa.

Psychology yehukama nemurume akaroora

Vakadzi vaduku vane ukama ne "ringed" vakasarudzwa, kazhinji vanozvipupurira kuti, anoti, haasi kunetseka mumhuri, mudzimai wechinono, uye chete neni anowana ushamwari hunofanirwa. Mune chikamu, maonero aya ndeechokwadi: zvirokwazvo, varume vakawanda havangashandure hafu yavo yechipiri kana zvose kana kuti zvese (shure kwezvose, hakuna hukama hwakanaka) zviyero mumhuri yemhuri. Kunyange zvakadaro, kunewo majekiseni akadaro anonyatsopindirana neshoko rokuti "ingani mhumhi haifaniri kudya ...". Nemamwe mazwi, zvisinei kuti mudzimai wake angave akanaka zvakadini, uye mamiriro akanaka emamiriro emhuri, hupenyu hwezuva nezuva, uye mubhedha, haakwanisi asi "kufamba parutivi" munzira ipi zvayo. Kune marudzi akawanda evakadzi vakadaro:

1. Tora imwe ndeye "polygam" . Varume vakadaro havakwanise kuwana kutarisa uye kufara kwavanoda mune ukama nemumwe mukadzi. Kazhinji ivo vakakurira pamwechete naambuya naamai, uye havajai kusarudza pakati pevakadzi vaviri. Nenzira, kazhinji mudzimai nemadzimai evanhu vakadaro vanopindirana nemapfungwa ezviko naambuya naamai. Nokudaro, anongodzorera mamiriro ake ezvinhu kubvira achiri mwana.
2. Rudzi rwechipiri ndi "mutori" . Kune munhu akadaro, mukadzi wega wega wenguva dzose ndiye chikwata chepamutemo. Anongokwanisa kumira, mumutsara uyu wekusingaperi kusimbisa humi hwake. Kunyange dai akakwanisa kuisa pindori, mudzimai wake, zvakakosha kubatanidza nemafungiro kuti haazovi iye oga mukadzi muhupenyu hwake (kunyange imwe yeviri, nyaya yacho inowanzoenda kune dzakawanda). Ukama nehukama hwakadaro hahuna nguva refu, nokuti haisi icho chinangwa chake, uye anotanga kukurumidza kukuremwa navo.
3. Nyora zvitatu - "kunyanya rudo yemitambo" - zvakangoita sepakutanga, asi chinangwa chake hachisi rudo rwekukunda. Anonyorera cocktail ye endorphins uye adrenaline iyo inopinda muropa rake pakutanga kwezvinyorwa zvose zvitsva. Kazhinji anowana hukama hukama panguva imwe chete, saka hwakanga huchifadza. Zviri nyore nyore kupa munyori, asi "kurarama kwenguva refu uye achifara" naye, zvakare, hazvizoshandi. Kushamwaridzana kwemhuri kusinganzwisisiki, kumunhu akadaro, kuchinja.

Sezvinoratidzika kubva pane zvakasarudzwa, hukama hwevarume vane hutachiona hwevanhu vanowanzopambwa munguva yemberi. Sezvo "mitaka" isingambofi yakasiya mhuri yake, inogutsikana nemamiriro ezvinhu ayo ane mudzimai nemadzimai. A "muunganidzi" uye "zvakanyanyisa" kana vakagadzira mhuri itsva, izvi hazvizogadziri. Nenzira, varume vakaroorana vakadaro ndivo vakawanda vanovamba ukama nemukadzi kune rumwe rutivi.

Nzira yekuparadzanisa sei ukama nemurume akaroorwa?

Kakawanda, nzira chete inogamuchirwa kuti mukadzi ave kuparadza ukama nemurume akaroora. Pakutanga, kugoverana muchende katatu, zvinongorasikirwa nenguva, nokuti mukana wekuumba mhuri pano hausi. Chechipiri, godo, zvakare, hapana akaregererwa. Mushure mezvose, kutarisa kwose kwekurinda kwake, nhema dzose kumudzimai wake patefoni, kuti akange akabatwa mumutambo mukuru wemotokari (zvakakosha kusimudzira), asi achakurumidza kudzokera kumba, achikuvadza mumwewo. Chero mukadzi upi zvake anoda kuve akasiyana uye asina kukwana, haafaniri kuvanza rudo rwake, uye kwete kutamba spy pamusangano.

Nokudaro, kana uchiri kusarudza kuputsa nemumwe wako wawakaroora, zvibvunze mubvunzo "Unobvepi kubva paukama huno?", Kwete chete zvakanaka, asiwo zvakaipa. Iva akatendeseka iwe pachako. Kana matambudziko asina kunaka ehukama hwemurume nemurume akaroora, achiri nani kupfuura zvaanoita, kuderedza, kana kusapedza zvachose misangano yako. Tarisa mumwe munhu anonyatsokoshesa iwe. Munhu akadaro anonyatsowanikwa.