Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika, apo pasina chido chekugadzira maitiro, asiwo kusiya mamiriro acho ezvinhu, sezvo pasinawo nzira. Pano, somuenzaniso, mudzimai akadzidza pamusoro pokutengesa kwemurume wake uye anoda kumudzidzisa chidzidzo chekudarika, asi haazive kuti sei. Uye dzimwe nguva mudikani wangu anodikanwa anoda kumuranga nokuda kwekumira kuonga zvaari kumuitira, uye anotaurawo zvinowedzera. Zvingaita sokuti hapana chinoreva zvinoreva "salp soup" kana kuti "iwe uri kugara kumba," asi zvinogumbura sei! Zvichida murume akaita chimwe chinhu icho wawakaroorana naye asingadi kutsungirira, nokuti chinomubata uye hachifari. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, kuora mwoyo kwevakadzi kunokonzera kusimba kwakasimba kwemanzwiro uye ndinoda kudzidzisa murume wangu chidzidzo chekukanganisa.
Ungatsiva sei kumurume wake nekunyomba?
Murume haabhadhari kutora chokwadi chokuti mudzimai anomurwira, uye anokanganwa kumupa zvipo uye akanganwa nezvemazororo emhuri? Kune nzira dzakawanda dzakanaka dzekutsiva pamurume nekuda kwekugumburwa. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzichakuudza kuti sei.
- Mukadzi wacho akanganisa kukanganwa? Iwe haufaniri kukakavadzana, iwe usangotauri naye, saka anoziva kuti chii chakashata.
- Akava vimbiso yekuve pamba pane imwe nguva, asi pane kudaro wakaenda neshamwari kumunda? Zvinokurudzirwa zuva rinotevera kuti adzokorwe "feat", achisiya chikwangwani, panguva imwechete, kubvisa foni. Regai murume anzwe saizvozvi.
- Kana murume akangwara pamusoro pekuti mudzimai wake anogadzirira sei uye anoshandiswa pakubika, zvino iye haakwanisi kupedza mazai ake pachake ? Iko inofanirwa kazhinji kacho kuti usatye kudya kwemanheru. Mudzimai panguva ino, regai avete pamubhedha, vachitarisa kuratidzwa kwaunoda. Kana murume achigutsikana kuti mukadzi haaiti chinhu, zvino regai aone kuti inotarisa sei.
- Kazhinji varume vane chokwadi chokuti mukadzi akagara kumba nemwana haaiti chero chinhu, izvo zvinoreva kuti haaneta. Zano: muendei oga nemwana uye endai zuva rose kuti muzorore neshamwari. Regai aedze kurarama nemwana pachake.
- Uye nzira yekupedzisira ndiyo inofadza zvikuru - chirango chepabonde nekuda kwechikanganiso. Akakanganwa murume kana mudzimai anoramba kubatana naye murume kusvikira asinganzwisisi mhosva yake.