Mhedzisiro inofanirwa kuratidzwa kune vose, asi kwete munhu wese anopiwa iyo nyore nyore. Kutya kwechikwata uye vateereri vane maitiro muhuzhinji hwevanhu uye kazhinji vanobva paudiki. Zvisinei, iyi phobia inogona kukundwa kuziva kuti haufaniri kuita sei pamatambo.
Chii chinonzi glossophobia?
Glossophobia, kana logophobia, kutya kunekutaura neboka guru revanhu, uye rine zvimwe zvakasiyana-siyana:
- peyraphobia - kutya kutya kutaura kwevanhu vose;
- lalophobia - kudonha pachigamba kana kutya kwekutaura nekuda kwekugona kunyorera;
- verbobobia - kutya kwemashoko ega.
Kutya kutaura kune vateereri hachisi chirwere, asi kunokonzera kusagadzikana kwakawanda muhupenyu kana basa romunhu iro rinosanganisira kushamwaridzana nguva dzose nemapoka makuru evanhu. Mukuwedzera, nehunoonekwa hunogara huripo hwekunyara kwevanhu munharaunda, kushandiswa kwemagariro evanhu semunhu wese zvakare kunowedzera kuoma.
Zviratidzo zve logophobia
Munhu anotambura nokutya zvakanyanya kutaura angasaziva nezvehutano hwake uye anyore zvinhu zvose kuti urege kuzviremekedza. Kune vamwe, iyi zazhatnost inokonzerwa nekunze kwekuremara kana kutaura, uye vanhu vanofunga kuti inoratidzika yakaipa - pano inosungwa mukati. Kutya chiitiko kunoratidzwa muzviratidzo zvinotevera:
- Munguva yekushanda: makotoni tsoka, tsvina, pallor, yakaoma muromo, tachycardia, kuwedzera kutuka, kubwinya kweganda.
- Pamberi pemabasa: kusuwa, kusava nenzara , kutya.
- Zvikanganiso zvekutaura, izvo zvinoratidzwa chete kana vachitaura pamberi pevateereri: kunyorova uye kumarara, kushamwaridzana.
Kutya kwokutaura pachena - zvikonzero
Kutya chiitiko - nhamba ye phobia munharaunda yemazuva ano. Iko mu 95% yevanhu. Zvikonzero zvekutya uku zvinogona kunge zvakadai:
- zvakaipa zvakaitika munguva yakapfuura (murume akasekwa munharaunda, paiva nemamiriro ezvinhu anonyadzisa, akadzokidzwa musingazivi);
- zvikanganiso zvezvidzidzo (vabereki vane hurumende vakafuridzira mwana kuti hazvibviri kutaura nenzwi guru munzvimbo dzevanhu);
- kuzvidzora;
- mutoro pamberi pevateereri izvo munhu asingadi kuzvitora;
- chisarudzo chekunyarara chiri nani, chinokonzerwa nekunzwa kubva kunze (sangano, vabereki) kana nemunhu pachake;
- Zvikanganiso zvekutaura, nekuda kwekuti munhu anozeza kutaura.
Kutya chikwata chevaimbi
Kwete vanhu chete vanorarama zviripo glossophobes. Mutevedzeri wega wega wekutanga wemhanzi mimhanzi kushungurudzika uye kufara pamberi pekambani, achitya kutora nheyo yenhema uye kusekwa nemamwe nhengo dzeimhanzi. Kune vakawanda, iyi phobia inongowedzera kupfuura makore, uye mumwe munhu haazive kukunda kutya kwechiitiko chacho , uye paanoramba zvachose basa remimhanzi, zvisinei kuti rakanaka sei. Zvinonakidza kuti kutya kwekutaura kwevanhu vose kunongowanikwa chete kune vateereri vemimhanzi yekare, uye vapi-vimbi kana vaimbi vedombo havakanganisi nazvo.
Nzira yekudzidzisa mwana sei kuti asatya chiitiko?
Zvinowanzoitika kuti mwana anotya kuita pamatambo. Kunyangwe kugadzirirwa zvakanaka uye kakawanda kudzidzira kumba, mwana akarasikirwa pamberi pevasingazivi uye omira kana kutanga kuchema. Masayendisiti anopa mitemo yakawanda inobatsira vana kukunda kunyara pamberi pevateereri:
- Kudzokorora ndiamai vekudzidza. Zvakakosha kudzoka nemwana nguva dzakawanda, kuti utaure mashoko anodiwa iwe pachako, kusanganisira mune imwe nzvimbo isina kufanira, nekutaura uye kunyemwerera pachiso chake. Nemuenzaniso uyu, vabereki vanoratidzira mwana wacho kuti haafaniri kutya chiitiko chacho.
- Kuumba mufananidzo wakanaka. Regai mwana ataure rwiyo kana kuimba rwiyo pamberi pegirazi, ari muhomwe yakanaka. Achiona kufungidzira kwake, iye achada kudzokorora uku kunaka uye kuratidza kune vamwe.
- Hapana kuenzanisa : haufaniri kutya mwana wacho nokuti anonyima shure kwevamwe vana vanovandudza, asi, asi, zvinomutsigira naye kubudirira kwave kuchiripo. Chinhu chakaipisisa chaunogona kuita ndechekutsamwira mwana uye kumuudza kuti ari kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipisisa kupfuura chese.
- Kukurudzira : kupa chipo kumwana kana kugadzirira chimwe chishamiso, iwe unogona kuita mhemberero chaiye kunze kwekushanda. Mwana wacho achayeuka zuva rino sechiitiko chakajeka uye achada kudzokorora.
Kutya pamusangano kunobatanidzwa kune vakawanda: kubva kuvana vari mumasikana kusvika kune unyanzvi hwevashandi kana vatauriri nemishumo yezvematongerwo enyika. Kana iwe ukashandura basa racho muitiro unofadza, tarisa chete maitiro akanaka mauri, ipapo iwe unogona kudzivisa kunyara pamberi peboka guru revanhu, avo vanocherechedza kune iwe chete. Kunzwisisa kuti ungakurira sei kutya kwechiitiko, vanhu vakuru vachabatsira zvikuru upenyu nevana vavo nekutya kwekutaura kwekutaura.