Polyamory (polyamory) ishoko idzva iro vanhu vasina kugutsikana nemakambani emitemo e "murume-mukadzi" maitiro anoratidza hukama hwavo. Maererano nevateveri vakawanda vepolyamory, hukama hwakasununguka hwakadaro hunoita kuti kukura kwehupenyu hugutsikane, zvichiita kuti zvive zvakasiyana uye zvinonakidza.
Polyamory - chii ichocho?
Maererano naBrandon Wade, muumbi wepaiti ye "kufunga pachena", polyamory inzira ye "tsika dzisina kutendeseka" kune vanhu vasingafungi kuti mamiogamy muenzaniso wehukama. Mamiriro makuru ehurumende ndeyekutendeseka, kuziva nekuzarura. Mufambidzani haafaniri kutambura kubva pakuvapo kwevamwe vanobatanidzwa muhukama hwevanhu vaviri, vanhu. Kuwanda kwehukama hwepamusoro kune huwandu hwakazara, uye chete nhamba yevatori vechikamu vanobatanidzwa, maitiro ehukama hwavo, nzira yehupenyu inotarirwa nevatori vechikamu.
Polyamory inofanira kuparadzaniswa kubva kune pfungwa dzakadai sekutengesa, kutengesa. Nekuita upombwe kune mumwe wevamwe, shamwari yechipiri inoshungurudzika, iyo isingatenderani nemutemo mukuru wepolyamory. Nguva yepedyo igarika, izvo zvinoreva chimiro chemuchato umo mumwe wako angagona kuva nevanopfuura mumwe wevakomana vakasiyana (polygamy uye polyandry). Polyamory haina kukwana izvi - muboka revanhu vanobatanidzwa, zvinogona kuva nehutano hwepabonde uye ungochani.
Poly-kubatana - chii ichocho?
Union polyamori (inobatanidzwa) inogona kuva boka kana kusununguka, rakazaruka kana rakavharwa, rakavhenganiswa.
- Iboka rehukama nderudzi rwemhuri-mhuri yemhuri umo, nekunetsana kwepabonde, hukama hwevanhu vose hunobvira. Mhuri dzakadaro-mhuri dzemhuri dzimwe nguva dzinonzi "Swedish".
- Kubatana kusununguka iboka rezvinyorwa zvinyorwa zvisingawirirane kune mumwe nemumwe.
- Vaya vanobatanidzwa muhurumende yakasununguka yemapuryamory vanogona kupa chero nhamba ipi neipi yekubatana, kwenguva refu kana kwenguva pfupi.
- Munharaunda yakavharwa yepolyamore, vanochengetedza ukama neboka rinogara revanhu vanobatanidzwa, pasina kusvhiringidzwa nekunze kwekubatana.
- Muchibatanidzwa chakavhengana, imwe yemapuryamusi inogona kuvhurwa kuitira kushamwaridzana kwenguva pfupi, uye imwe-kuomerera kune vakaroorana navo.
Polyamory - psychology
Kubva pakuona kwepfungwa, hukama hwepamusoro huri hwakatendeseka kudarika mitaka kana kubatana umo mumwe wevadzidzi anoshandura mudzimai. Ichokwadi, uku kutendeseka kunogona kukonzera kuparara kwepanyika kana mumwe wevaya vanobatanidzwa achibvumirana nekusununguka kwepabonde kuitira kuti uchengetedze ukama naye waanoda. Mukuwedzera, mapuryamory akakodzera chete kuvanhu vasina rusununguko rwevanhu, tk. vanhu vazhinji havabvumi nazvo.
Mune zvimwe zviitiko, polyamory inogona kuva ruponeso kuvanhu. Semuenzaniso, kana munhu asingakwanisi kubatana nemurume uye kana pasina mvumo, murume acharamba achichinja. Sami polyamory inowanzotsanangurira chido chavo chekusiyana-siyana mumunhu iyeye haagoni kutora kubva kune mumwe wako zvese zvakasiyana-siyana muhukama nehupenyu hwepabonde.
Ndinogona kusiya mapuryamory here?
Munhu asingadi polyamory muukama, kwete chete anokwanisa kuzviramba, asiwo anofanira kutaura zvakananga izvi kune mumwe wake. Polyamory haigamuchiri nhema uye kuvigwa kwechokwadi, munhu wese ari muhutano hwakadaro anofanira kuziva uye kubvumirana. Munhu anowanzoita rusununguko rwepabonde anofanira kuwana hama munyika, kana kuti kusiya pyamyamori nekuda kwomunhu waunoda.
Polyamory - mabhuku
Polyamorous people vari kuwedzera kuva magamba emabhuku, kutanga ne "vanorota" veBertolucci.
- K.A. Nyora, D. Easton "Maitiro Ekuparadza . " Bhuku rino rinotaura pamusoro pomuviri wemuviri wehukama hwe rudo. Chinangwa chikuru chevanyori vebasa ndechekuratidza kuti hukama huripo hunoenda kunze kwehupfumi hwevanhu.
- D. Ebershof "mudzimai we19" . Bhuku iri, rakanyorwa mumhando yecheki, rinotsanangura nezvekusagadzikana kweukama hwemhuri hwemhuri yakawanda yeMormon.
- R. Merle "Malvil" . Rudo rusununguko hukama mubasa iri rinotarisana nechemberi kwe post-apocalypse.
- M. Kundera "Chiedza Chisingagoneki Chokuva" . Iyi inyanzvi uye basa refilosofi inofadza muverengi nekupisa kwechido uye sangano rakatsauka. Mhare dzebhuku racho dzinorarama hupenyu hwavo, dzichifamba-famba muchirongwa chekuona uye dzichidzidza huviri hwemiviri yavo nemweya.