Zvinosuruvarisa, kutarisirwa kwemumwe wako kubva kumhuri hakusi kutadza. Hazvishamisi kuti vakadzi vakawanda vanofarira mhinduro kumubvunzo wekudzorera murume wake kumba mune rimwe zuva. Hazvigoneki kuti dambudziko iri rinogona kugadziriswa zvakakurumidza, kunyange zvazvo riri, zvechokwadi, rinogona kuedza.
Mazano epfungwa nezvekudzorera murume wake kumba
Nyanzvi muhukama hwemhuri dzinorayirwa, kutanga kune dzose, kudzikama. Kugadzirisa dambudziko kuti ungadzorera sei murume kumba, zvinogona kuita nzira mbiri: kuumba simbi apo inopisa kana kushanda zvishoma nezvishoma. Zvose zvinoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo uye pamusoro pemamiriro emumwe wako. Kana akareba kwenguva refu akasarudza kuputsa newe uye ane nguva refu yaaida, kwaakasiya, kana ukama hwemhuri yako hwave huri huri hwakanaka, kana iwe usina vana vanogara nebhizimisi, saka zvichida, kuedza kudzorera murume uyu hazvina maturo. Iwe unofanirwa kufunga pamusoro pekuti imba iyi inofanira kuchengetedzwa zvachose. Zvichida zviri nani kuwana rudo rutsva uye munhu ane hanya, achirega kuenda kare?
Kana, zvakadaro, mumwe wako, sezvaanodanidza, dhiyabhorosi akanyengedza, chisarudzo chake chekubva chakanga chiri chega, uye iye pachake haasi munhu akatsunga, saka iwe unoda kuita nekukurumidza. Icho chichava chinhu chakanaka kuisa kumanikidzwa kumurume wako: kufambisa kutyisidzira, kushanduka kune ushamwari, kutya, kuedza kudana iwe pachako kunzwira tsitsi, kukumbira hana yake, kubvisa foni kwaari uye kutsvaga kwake kutsva, kuuya kune basa rake, kushamwaridzana nehama, nezvimwewo. Mune rimwe shoko, kuita zvose zvinomuchengetedza runyararo, zvichida mumwe wako achanzwisisa kuti akakurumidza kana kungotya mitezo isingafadzi yezvaanoita uye achadzoka.
Nzira yekudzorera sei murume wake kumusha, kana iye pachake pachake akadzingwa, nerubatsiro rwegadziriro?
Dzorera murume kumba nekukurumidza iwe unogona kuburikidza nekushandira kumashiripiti. Kunyanya kubudirira mazano nemitambo, kana chiitiko icho chaicho chaicho chakasiya kwete nechido, asi chakambodzingwa newe.
Iwe unofanirwa kuita zvinotevera:
- kumirira usiku hwakajeka, apo mudenga pachava nekukura kwemwedzi;
- tora musoro wako kunze kwehwindo uye uverenge chigadziro chakadaro (zviri nani kuifunga nemusoro nemoyo): "Muranda waMwari akafamba achienda kumba, akapinda mutemberi, akakotamira kuna Mwari ndokugeza kiyi nemvura, akashamisika kuti chiedza uye kutonhora sei mumba maMwari. Izvo mumba mangu zvakanga zvakanaka kuti muranda waMwari agare (zita romurume) uye mushumiri waMwari (zita rake) maari murudo uye kubudirira kusvika pakufa kwake. Ameni! ";
- Zvakare zvakakosha kubva mumba, katatu kuti uende-svetukidze, tichifamba pamberi pedu nemvura tsvene;
- dzokera kumba, tora mufananidzo wemurume wake uye utarise iye pachiso nechitarisiko chirefu.
Zuva rinotevera, murume achavimbiswa kudzoka, maererano nekutenda.