Basa remukadzi rakaoma: haafaniri kungova amai veimba yakanaka chete, asiwo kuziva chakavanzika chekuti ungava sei zvinodiwa kumurume wake. Uye mberi avo vakaroorana vanobva musi wechato , iyo inopinza nyaya iyi. Zvisinei, mararamiro ehupenyu anoratidza kuti anonyatsogadzirisa apo ndiyani mukadzi anoziva kukosha kwekugara kumurume waanoda, iye oga uye anoda.
Nzira yekuita sei zvinodiwa kumurume wangu zvakare?
Chokutanga pane zvose, zvisingadikanwi zvakakwana, zvive iwe pachako. Hungu, hungu, iwe pachako. Yeuka apo nguva yekupedzisira iwe yakasunungura kana kuzvitengera chimwe chinhu chitsva, wakaita mavanga akanaka, aive nemurume wake muresitorendi kana cafe? Hauyeuki here? Zvadaro tinozvinyora nekushandisa hurongwa.
Tarisa iwe pachako mugirazi uye upindure zvakatendeka: Unofarira iwe pachako here? Kana mhinduro dziri "Kwete" kana kuti "Handizivi," funga nezvazvo, kana iwe usingadi iwe pachako, sei uchifanira kufarira murume wako sezvauri iwe iye zvino? Saka - nokuda kwechikonzero chacho:
- isu tinoitisa kuongorora kwevashandi uye tinorega kupfeka "zvinhu zvakanaka", zvakatengwa makore 3-10 apfuura;
- enda kune vabati vemaoko uye uite bvudzi remafashoni, uchifunga nezvekuve iwe unonyanya kukoshesa murume;
- Tinotenga pasi pepurasitiki yakanaka;
- tinobvisa jasi rakaputika uye mashizha akare, nokuti kunyange pamusha iwe unofanirwa kuve wakagadzirirwa uye unofadza;
- Takatumira vana pakushanyira, ticharonga svondo rekuda "nekuda kwezviviri": iwe uchiri kuyeuka kuti zvinoitwa sei? Zvisinei, kuitira kuti manheru aite basa, nyatsogadzirira murume uyu, kuitira kuti arege kuodzwa mwoyo uye kuvhiringidzika pamusana pezvaanogona kutadza kutadza kuita.
Regai manheru ano ave ega kwamuri, matsva, akadzorerwa, uye kune mumwe wako, achiyemura kutarisa mudzimai wake waanoda uye mudzimai anoda kudaro. Usatya kudzoka kwemakore anoverengeka (kana makumi emakore) kumashure: kudzoka uku kunogona kunakidza zvikuru uye kuchagadzirisa nyore nyore dambudziko rekuita zvepabonde uye rinodikanwa.