Ita ruremekedzo musikana wako unodiwa kana mudzimai wako zvakaoma. Anenge munhu wese anoziva nezveizvi. Mushure mezvose, vakadzi - zvisikwa zvakanyanya kuoma uye dzimwe nguva nemafungiro asingatarisirwi. Asi dzimwe nguva dambudziko, apo mudzimai asingaremekedzi murume wake, anogona kuvanzwa uye achienzaniswa nemurume ane rudo kumukadzi.
Dambudziko rekuti murume akashaya kuvimbika mumaziso omudzimai wake, akakurukurwa zvakanyanya paInited Modern Modern Marriage. Kana yakambove yakafanana, saka yakachengetwa mavhare manomwe. Nhasi, kana iwe wakatarisa-svetuka, unogona kuona kuti vamwe vakadzi vanoranga varume vavo pachena, uye izvi, sezvamunoziva, zvinoderedza zvikuru kudada kwevarume. Asi dambudziko rechokwadi nderokuti mudzimai haaremekedzi murume wake uye kuti varume vanotungamira vakadzi vasingadikanwi vanomanikidzwa, kuti vakatambura kuchinja kwakasimba mune tsika dzetsika uye tsika. Vakadzi vari kuwedzera kuchinje nzvimbo yakakwirira munyika, uye vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba pane dzimwe nguva, vakanyatsotsinhanisa nzvimbo dzavo.
Ndechipi chikonzero?
Kana tikataura pamusoro pokuti musikana haaremekedzi mukomana wake kana mukadzi wake akamira kumuremekedza kamwechete-murume anodikamwa, zvino mumwe anofanirwa kuchera zvakadzika mumidzi inokonzera kuve nemafambiro evanhu, avo vakadzi vanowanzoshamisika nazvo:
- Muzviitiko zvizhinji, mumwe amai anounza mwanakomana wake (baba kana kubasa uye haazvioni kuti zvakakosha, kunyanya munguva yake yekusununguka, kutarisira mwana wake, kana mudzimai wako mukurambana, kana baba vanotenda kuti iyi haisi bhizinesi romurume, kudzidza).
- Varume vaduku vanoenda kuchikoro chechikoro, uye kune vadzidzisi vadzidzisi (vamwe vakomana, avo vanoregererwa uye vasina kuwana pfungwa yakarurama yemabasa evanhu vasina simba zvakasimba zvepabonde, vanofunga kuti zvakajairika kana vakadzi vachivabata). Zvadaro mamiriro acho anodzokorora kuchikoro.
- Hondo "iri kunze kwefashoni". Pakupedzisira, izvi zvinokanganisa kuumbwa kwemasimba maitiro mumurume.
- Apo zvinosvika pakuroorana, vamwe varume, vaita chisarudzo chisina kunaka mukubata nevadzimai, funga kuti zvakajairika kuti tisapindira nayo mumakakatanwa. Uyewo vakadzi, mushure mekunge vasingadi kuedza kutaura nevakaroorana navo, vanotora kutora kwakakodzera pamabasa evanhu, vachizviita ivo tenzi weimba.
Nzira yekuita sei mudzimai achiremekedza murume wake?
Sezvaunoziva, nyika yevarume nevakadzi inoona yakasiyana kwazvo, uye nzira chete yekuita kuti musikana amuremekedze mukomana kana mudzimai wake kana iye achizvida iye oga.
Mukadzi anofanira kunzwisisa kuti murume acharatidzira kumira kwakakodzera, atora matanho nemaoko ake, nezvimwe. ipapo, paanofunga kuti mukadzi anotenda maari.
Murume, iyewo, anofanira kuziva kuti vakadzi, zvisinei kuti vanoda kuonei mweya wakasimba, nguva dzose vanoda kuziva kuti vanogara vachiine munhu mushure mekunge vangave mushure mavo, semashure emadziro ematombo.