Pfungwa ye "mudiwa" ine tsanangudzo dzakawanda. Kana iwe uchidudzira zvinorehwa neshoko iri kubva pakuona kwe rudo, saka uyu ndiye munhu akadikanwa, anodikamwa.
Imwe tsanangudzo inobva paukama hwepedyo. Kuti uve wakanyatsojeka, mudiwa ndiye mumwe wamunoita zvepabonde uye haana zvaanofanira kuita kune mumwe nemumwe.
Tsanangudzo yechitatu yakafanana neyo yapfuura. Kuva wakaroorana, ukama huri parutivi rwunotanga nemunhu anodikanwa kana anodikanwa. Zvakare, hukama uhwu hunhu hwehukama hwepedyo. Pakati pevashandi, rudo rungasave. Ihu hukama hunova huchivakirwa mukudanana, kukwezva zvepabonde, tsitsi.
Kurukurai nhasi maitiro ekubata zvakanaka neanoda.
Shiri dzegungwa
Vanhu vasina kuroorwa vanodanana vaishandiswa kunzi vadikani. Kana mudiwa wako ari munhu anodhura uye ari pedyo, iwe unorota hupenyu hunofadza pamwechete, mhuri huru uye funga nezvemuchato, saka unofanira kuchengeta mitemo mukubata nemunhu:
- usamanikidza iye. Icho chiito neukama chinofanira kubva kumurume. Iwe unogona kungomuunza kune izvi nenzira dzose, achishandisa zvose zvidhori zvevakadzi uye mazano;
- iva wakachena. Rudo uye fara panguva imwe neimwe inoshandiswa pamwe chete. Usaisa musungo pamatampu mupasipoti yako. Kana iwe uchiratidza kuti iwe wakadzikama, uye kunyange kusava nehanya newanano, nokukurumidza hafu yako ichada kukuendesa kune korona;
- kuva mukadzi. Usakanganwa nezvako kweminiti. Edza kukwana zvose kunze nekunamata. Enda kumitambo yekuzvidzivirira, tarisa zvokudya, igare yakagadzikana. Sezvavanotaura, mumuviri wakagwinya-pfungwa dzakanaka;
- kukura uye nguva dzose ugare uri shamwari inofadza. Iva netariro, makirasi emweya nemafungiro. Iva nechido kune zvausingazivi, edza kuva "makaro" usati wafa.
Enchanted, ringed
Vakawanda vanofarira mubvunzo wekuita nemunhu anodikanwa, ari kuroorana. Kutaura kuti kupandukira kwakakosha uye kwakaderera kusina maturo. Munhu wose anoita zvaanoda, iyi nyaya yega yoga kune munhu wose. Uye pane zvakakodzera, munhu wose achapiwa mubairo. Kana iwe ukawana munhu "kurutivi", iyo inoshuva kuda, kukokwe, zvinokosha kuti ugare uri kure. Haudi kuparadza imba - ndicho chisarudzo chako. Saka iwe unofanirwa kuita zvose zvaunoita kuti uone kuti anodiwa haane mukana weku "kusangana" muupenyu hwako hwemhuri.
Munhu anodiwa anofanira kuzvibata sei munyaya iyi?
Chokutanga, anofanira kunge akagutsikana nemamiriro ezvinhu umo hukama hwako huripo. Kana achitarisira zvimwe, somuenzaniso, kuti iwe unobva kumurume wako, iwe uchava wakaoma naye. Zvechokwadi, zvakapiwa kuti haunoronga kuzviita munguva yemberi iri pedyo.
Chechipiri, murume haafaniri kukonzera kunyorera pamurume wako. Hapana manheru emanheru uye mafoni. Zvose izvi zvinofanira kuitika panguva yakatarwa.
Chechitatu, anofanirwa kuva akanaka pamubhedha uye kupa zvipo. Vose vari vaviri vanobvuma kubva paukama hwakadaro,
Ufeve kusatendeseka chimwe chinhu icho pane dzimwe nguva chiri kupa kwazvo kupa. Chenjerera mhuri uye rudo, kuburikidza naro rwakasikwa.