Upenyu hwemhuri hahuna nguva dzekunaka, dzimwe nguva vakaroorana vanokakavadzana uye kukakavadzana . Asi zvose zvinogona kukundwa kana murume nemudzimai vanodanana. Zvisinei, nekufamba kwenguva, manzwiro angangoderedzwa, ayo anogonawo kutungamirira munyaya kudivi, uye ipapo kurambana. Nokudaro, mukadzi wese achave mazano anobatsira zvikuru pamusoro pekunzwisisa kana murume wako achikuda. Pane zviratidzo zvakawanda kuti unogona kunyatsojekesa izvo imwe hafu inonzwa kwauri.
Nzira yekuziva sei kuti murume anoda mudzimai wake?
Kakawanda, kunyange humwe uchapupu hwakajeka hworudo rwemunhu runogona kuonekwa zvisingaiti nokuti mukadzi anoroora anovatora pasina. Nokudaro, iwe unofanirwa kunge uchingwarira uye kutarira zvishoma pamusoro pemumwe wako mumamiriro akasiyana. Uye avo vasingazivi kunzwisisa kana murume achida mudzimai wake, zvinhu zvinotevera zvinogona kushanda sezvinyorwa:
- mumwe wako anoedza kukufadza iwe nezvipo pasina chiitiko;
- anoedza kusaita nguva pabasa;
- anoedza kupedza newe nguva yakawanda sezvinobvira;
- hazviiti kuti shirk kubva pakubatana kwekubatana kwemasangano emhuri pamwe chete;
- pachako pacharo inoronga manheru okudanana uye vhiki dzevhiki;
- godo, kana iwe uchiterera kune vamwe varume, asi panguva imwe chete unozvikudza pamusoro pako uye uchizvirumbidza kune shamwari dzako.
Uyewo, vakadzi vakawanda vanofarira mhinduro kumubvunzo wekunzwisisa kuti murume haadi. Izvi zvinogonawo kugadziriswa pazvikonzero zvakawanda:
- mumwe wako akarega kukuteerera, uye pamibvunzo yako inobva pamabhaisiro emabasa;
- pasi pezvikwereti zvakasiyana-siyana, anosiya kurekurirana newe;
- anoramba zvachose kuva nechido chepabonde kwauri;
- chero kukanganisa kwako kunomugumbura;
- haafariri chero chipi zvacho chaunobata pane chimwe nguva;
- iye haateereri chiso chako;
- mudzimai wacho akaramba asina hanya nezvikumbiro zvako uye mazano.
Nzira yekuziva sei kuti murume wekare akange achiri kuda?
Izvi zvinoitikawo kuti vaviri vacho vanosiyana, asi vachiri nemanzwiro . Pane dzimwe mazano ekuti unzwisise kana murume wako atokuda. Iye zvechokwadi haasi iye asina hanya, kana achiwanzoshevedza nekukumbira mazano, anopa kubatsira kune mamwe mabasa epamba, mari, achiri kutaura zvakanaka pamusoro pako mukukurukurirana neshamwari, dzimwe nguva "pangozi" unosangana newe mumugwagwa; iye haakanganwi kufadza pamusoro pekuzvarwa kwake neNyika Idzva, anoedza zvishoma nezvishoma kuti azviyeuchidze iye pachake uye ave nekutora muhupenyu hwako.