Zvechokwadi, kwete mwenga mumwe chete, kuisa chindori nemaoko ekudedera, haisi kufunga nezvekurambana, kuti munhu akamira akatarisana achange asinganyanyisi zvokuti haazodi kuona kana kumunzwa. Asi zvisati zvisiri zvisinganzwisisiki, nhamba dzezvenhoroondo iyi zvinosuruvarisa. MuRussia, 57% yevakaroorana vakarambana, asi muUkraine kurambana kuri 48%. Ndezvipi zvikonzero zvekuparara kwemhuri, nei kurambana kunobva kubva pakupedzisira kwekuita muupenyu humwe? Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa zvikonzero zvekurambana.
Zvinonyanya kukonzera kurambana
Sei mhuri ichiputsa? Murume nemudzimai mumwe nomumwe vakarambana vane nhoroondo yakasiyana yokurambana, asi vanachipangamazano vanoona zvikonzero zvitanhatu zvekuparadzana kwemhuri, iyo inofungidzirwa kuti ndiyo huru.
- Kana tikataura pamusoro pezvikonzero zvekurambana kwemhuri mhuri, mutsara wokutanga mune urongwa huchatora chikonzero chakadaro, seusina kuroorana. Kazhinji vanhu vakaroorana vakadaro vanosarudza kuroorwa muine rudo rukuru. Uye kuti havazivi nezvehupenyu hwemhuri. Somugumisiro, kusada kuteerera kune mumwe munhu, kugadzirisa, uye pakupedzisira kurambana.
- Chimwe, chikonzero chisingazivikanwi chikonzero chekurambana, ndiko kunodhakwa kweumwe wevakaroorana. Kunwa doro, kupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka, mitambo yemishonga, izvi zvose zvinoita kuti upenyu hwemhuri husingagumi. Uye kana chirwere ichi chisingadi kubvisa tsika yakaipa, kune nzira imwechete yekubuda-kurambana.
- Pakati pezvikonzero zvekuparara kwemhuri kunowanzoti ufeve. Kuchinja kunogona kunzwisiswa, kutsanangurwa, asi zvakaoma kwazvo kukanganwira. Vakawanda havadi kuti vatsungirire mafungiro akafanana emumwe wavo uye vanoendeswa kurambana.
- Kazhinji vaviri vacho vanofunga kurambana nekuda kwekushaya mari mumhuri, kusakwanisa kuvandudza mamiriro avo emari. Basa rinokosha rinoridzwa nekushayikwa kwemari yekupa mhuri mhuri yakasiyana-kugara nevabereki nguva dzose inosangana nemuedzo wakaoma kune vakaroorana.
- Zvichida iwe uchashamisika, asi kana wakabvunzwa kuti sei mhuri dzichiputsa, vanachipangamazano vanofunga kuti vakaroorana vane maonero akasiyana pamusoro pehupenyu, mune mamwe mazwi, havana kubvumirana nemunhu. Iyi misiyano inonyanya kuziviswa muhutano hwevanhu vanobva kune rumwe rutivi rwemagariro evanhu. Semuenzaniso, mumwe wevakaroorana ane dzidzo yepamusoro, basa rakanaka, akashandiswa kuva nezororo panzvimbo dzekuchengetedza (kunyange vanhu vekumba), anoda chaizvo kuverenga mabhuku eunyanzvi. Mumwe haana kumboedza kupinda muyunivhesiti, iye anoda kuchera mubindu panzvimbo yezororo uye haagoni kunzwisisa zvinogona kuwanikwa pamapeji emabhuku. Kunyange zvazvo rudo runevo, kusiyana kwakadaro hakuonekwi. Asi mushure mokunge manzwiro achinonoka zvishoma, zvinova pachena kuti vanhu ava havana chinhu chakafanana, zvakanaka, rudzi rwemhuri ndeiyi?
- Uyewo, zvinokonzera kurambana kungave kusagutsikana kwepabonde kana matambudziko ehutano, kunyanya, nehutano hwekubereka. Kazhinji, panzvimbo yekutaura nenyanzvi yekugadzirisa zvinetso, vaviri vacho vanofunga kurambana.
Zviratidzo zvekuparara kwekutanga kwemhuri
Kuparara kwehukama hwemhuri hakuitike kamwe chete, kusagutsikana kwevamwe kune umwe kunowedzera zvishoma nezvishoma, zuva rimwe nerimwe, kusvikira zvichizoita chisarudzo chekurambana. Nzira yekuziva sei kuti pane kukakavara mumhuri?
Kunyanya, inotonhora muhukama. Tiri kutaura pamusoro pepabonde - murume nemudzimai vanowedzera kumuda kurara kwakanaka kweusiku hwose. Kana tichitaura pamusoro pekukurukurirana kwezuva nezuva, zvino pane zvinhu zviviri zvinogona kuitwa: murume nomudzimai wake vanenge vasingatauri, vachizviisa kumashoko akaoma, kana kuti vanotaura nguva dzose, asi nevana chete, matambudziko ezuva nezuva, pasina kuedza kuwana nhaurirano yakafanana yekukurukurirana. Vakaroorana vanorega kugovana mufaro wavo nezvinetso zvavo, havadi kudzidza chimwe chinhu pamusoro pomumwe nomumwe. Muvakidzani ari pamubhedha unonzwisiswa sekuwedzerwa kunosuruvarisa, iyo iyo nguva iyo inokonzera kubudirira kwepfuma, chimiro chemhuri yemhuri, vana vaduku vaduku.