Mhuri ndeimwe yezvinangwa zvakakosha zvevanhu vose, sezvo pamwe nayo inopedza hupenyu hwake hwose. Vangani vangasava neshamwari dzako, hapana kana mumwe wavo angatsiva ushamwari uye runyararo izvo hama dzinopa.
Ndeipi mhuri isina kukwana?
Nhasi, zvinosuruvarisa, zvakaoma kushamisika chero munhu ane chiitiko ichocho. Tsanangudzo yemhuri isina kukwana inoreva kurera mwana nemumwe wevabereki. Izvi zvinoitika nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana: mwana anozvarwa kunze kwechato, kuparadzana kwevabereki, kurambana kana kunyange kufa kweumwe wevabereki. Zvechokwadi, sarudzo yakadaro haisi yakanaka kumwana, asi dzimwe nguva iyo inopa mufaro, rusununguko, rufaro rusingakwanisi kuwanikwa nehutano hwemhuri. Ngationei pane zvakawanda kuti mhuri ipi inonzi inenge isina kukwana.
Mhando dzemhuri imwechete-mubereki: vanaamai navanababa. Kazhinji kazhinji, mhuri yaamai isina kukwana inopararira. Mukadzi ari kutakura, kubereka, kudya kunoratidzika kurarama nemwana. Mukuwedzera, zvinogamuchirwa kuti kutarisirwa kwevana kunovata pamusoro pemafudzi echikadzi. Uye baba vanogona kuva mudzidzisi. Asi panguva imwecheteyo, nyanzvi dzinofunga kuti baba vanopindirana nekuchema uye kunyemwerera kwemwana, pamwe chete nemukadzi. Mhuri yababa isina kukwana haisati yave yakawanda iye zvino, nekuda kwemamiriro akasiyana-siyana. Vanababa vanoita basa rokumutsa mwana, kubva paudiki vaduku, saka kusavapo kwavo kwakanyanya kuonekwa. Asi kazhinji ivo vachiri vapenyu uye vanowana mari, pane vadzidzisi.
Kurera vana mumhuri isina kukwana
Apo paine vana vanoverengeka mumhuri yakadai, izvi zvinopa chikwereti chisina kukwana zvishoma. Mwana mukuru anogona kuva muenzaniso kune muduku, kana vanhu vakuru vachiita zvakarurama. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti mumhuri dzine mubereki mumwe chete, vana vanowirirana zvikuru uye vari kunyanya kushungurudzirana. Vabereki vanorera vana mumhuri dzine mubereki mumwe chete vanoda kupa mazano:
- Taura nemwana uye teerera kwaari. Gara naye nguva dzose mukutaura. Zvakakosha kuti iye anzwike paanotaura nezvegorosi kana chikoro.
- Remekedza kuyeuka kwekare kare nekuremekedza.
- Mubatsire neunyanzvi hwekuita hunokodzera hutano hwake.
- Usatambisa mabasa evabereki varipo kune mafudzi evana.
- Edza kuroorazve uye kudzokera kuupenyu mumhuri yakakwana.
Zviratidzo zvemhuri dzine mubereki ari oga
Mumhuri dzine nherera, pasinei nekurasikirwa nemunhu waunoda, nhengo dzemhuri dzakasara dzinoratidza kubatana uye kuchengetedza ukama hwemhuri nehama dzose dziri pamutsara wevakafa. Ukama hwakadaro hunoenderera mberi uye pahutauriro muhutano hwechipiri, tk. iyi inonzi inofanirwa.
Mukurambana kwemhuri, mwana anogamuchira kushungurudzika kwepfungwa, pfungwa yekutya, kunyadziswa. Nokudaro, zvinotaridzirwa zvakakwana kuti tariro yemwana yekudzorera, kubatanazve kwehukama hwebaba naamai.
Imwe mhuri yemubereki mumwe chete inoumbwa apo baba vari kurwisana nekuberekwa uye mukadzi anosarudza kurera mwana oga. Zvadaro pane dambudziko iro amai vasina kuroora richazovhiringidza mhuri yemwana wavo uye havadi kugovana naro kune ani zvake.
Mazuva ano, kazhinji vana vakaroorana vakagadzikana vanorambana, vasingafungi kuti mwana wavo achakura sei uye sei
Zvidzidzo zvepfungwa dzepfungwa dzemhuri isina kukwana zvinoratidza kuti vana mumhuri dzakadai vanowanzotadza kutyora kubva munheyo dzenheyo, vane unhu hwakanaka hwekudzidza, uye vanozvidzivirira.
Saka, musati maita zvisarudzo pamusoro pekuumbwa kwemhuri, fungisisa kwete pamusoro pemanzwiro ako, asi pamusoro pekuti izvi zvichabata sei mwana. Kushivirira uye kunzwisisa kwekunzwa kwemwana kunogona kugadzira mhuri chaiye, uye panguva imwechete inofara huduku.