Rudo ndiko kunzwa kwakanaka sekushamisa, kwete kwechimwe chinhu icho munhu wose anoda kuisa maitiro aro. Asi dambudziko iri harisi nyore, harina kunyatsojekesa kuti parameter ndeipi inogadzirisa-kukura, kuyerwa, kuwirirana kwepfungwa, zera kana chiratidzo chechidiac? Ngatitii kuedza kunzwisisa kana imwe yechiramu-yezera.
Panofanira kuva nekusiyana mutengo pakati pevakaroorana here?
Vakawanda vanotenda kuti michato ine makore akasiyana-siyana inotanga kuparadzwa. Uyu maonero anobva pakuziva kuti vakaroorana vachava nezvinhu zvakasiyana zvakasiyana uye maonero pamusoro pehupenyu kuitira kuti vave nekwanisi kuuya kune imwe sangano. Iko kufungidzira kunosimbiswawo nemigumisiro yeongororo - vazhinji vanotenda kuti kukanganisa kwezera rakanaka kunogona kutaridzirwa semakore mashanu, makore mashanu kubva kune gumi, zvekare, zvinotenderwa, asi hazvina kunaka. Asi huro hwehutano hwakasiyana nemakore anopfuura gumi haugoni kufara. Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vanoongorora nyanzvi vanoti kunyange pazera remakore 15-16, kusiyana kwemakore muwanano kunogona kuva kwakanaka.
Asi kune pfungwa yokuti hakuna mararamiro anofara uko pasina makore akasiyana. Nemhaka yokuti vakaroorana vakadaro vanogara vachiziva kuti ndiani munhu mukuru mumhuri, uye vakaroorana vachipindirana nekufambidzana. Saizvozvowo masayendisiti, pfungwa imwechete inobatanidzwa nevanopindura. Zvechokwadi, kune vakaroorana vanorarama vachifara zvikuru, asi izvi zvakangoita sechinhu chimwe chete. Kazhinji kacho, zvibvumirano zvakadai zvakaoma kwazvo uye kungoita mwoyo murefu uye chido chekunzwisisa mudzimai wako anogona kuchengetedza mhuri.
Kufambira mberi kubva pane izvi, zvinogona kugumiswa kuti izvo zvakasikwa, izvo zviduku, kusiyana kwemakore pakati pevakaroorana vanofanira kuva. Asi kuti ungave sei, kana mumwe mukadzi akakura kupfuura mumwe, mhuri dzakadaro dzinoparadzaniswa here?
Imba yerudo nezera rakakura kusiyana
Mhuri umo murume mukuru kune mudzimai wake, nguva dzose inokonzera kusagamuchirwa nevanhu. Vasikana vanopomerwa kuti vanoda kuve vapfumi pamutengo wefumi akare, uye varume-mukunyengera. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa hadzisi dzakarongeka uye dzinotsanangura chido chevakadzi kuti varoore nemurume ari mukuru kune iye oga nechido chekuwana mudziviriri uye kutsigira muupenyu. Uye huporofita hwavo hwehupenyu mumhuri yakadai haisi iyo inosuruvarisa. Mufaro unokwanisika, kana vaviri vacho vachigona kupedzisa pane zvinotevera zvinogona kuwirirana:
- Kusiyana kwezvaunofarira uye zvaunofarira;
- kunyange munhu ane simba anogona kuva neutera hwake, saka achiwa murudo neanokwanisa, munhu anogona kuwana
kunyanya kuora mwoyo; - musiyano wezvido zvepabonde.
Zvimwe kunyunyuta kunokonzerwa nemhuri dzine mutsauko wezera, umo mukadzi akwegura kupfuura murume wake. Uye inowanzotongwa mhosva yevanhu inoparadza imba inogona kufara. Chimwe chikonzero nei mararamiro akadaro akaparara ndiko kusaremekedzwa kwomukadzi ane mudzimai wake muduku. Uyezve, vakadzi vanowanzoona manzwiro avamai vavo nokuda kwevarume vavo vechidiki, munyaya iyi, muchato hauchazoiti chinhu kunze kwekuodzwa mwoyo.