Sei vakadzi vachichinja?

Kupandukira muhupenyu hwemurume nemukadzi hunoitika munyaya iyo ivo vasina kugutsikana nehukama nehafu yavo yechipiri. Uye, kusagutsikana hakusi kungoita zvepabonde chete.

Maererano nekutsvakurudza kwemagariro evanhu kuEurope uye maimbova nyika dzeCIS, vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti vakadzi vanochinja kakawanda kupfuura varume. Izvi zvinoratidza kuti vakadzi vari kunyanya kufara nehupenyu hwavo. Nyanzvi dzezvematongerwo enyika, zvakare, dzakakwanisa kuzivisa zvikonzero zvikuru zvekutengesa vakadzi vakaroora:

1. Muzviitiko zvizhinji, mukadzi akaroorwa anoda mudikanwi kuti azvidavirire. Mukuru mukuru mukadzi anova, zvakakosha zvikuru kuti iye arambe akaisvonaka uye anodiwa. Apo ukama nemurume hunopera, muhupenyu hwevamwe vakadzi vakaroorwa anodiwa anooneka.
2. Kuita zvepabonde nemurume wake kwakaguma kuunza kugutsikana kumudzimai.
3. Dambudziko muhukama pakati pevakaroorana.
4. Kudiwa kwekunzwa kutsva, zvakanyanya, shake.
5. Kusatarisirwa kusangana nemumwe mudiwa wekare. Vamwe vakadzi, kunyange zvisingatarisirwi ivo pachavo, vanotanga kuchinja varume vavo neyekare.
6. Kusava nehanya kwemurume kumudzimai wake, manzwiro ake, kuonekwa.
7. Murume anopiwa zvachose basa rake kana kuita zvekuita, uye mukadzi anonzwa akasurukirwa muwanano naye.
8. Kusuruvara kwemurume wake.

Mudzimai akachinja murume wake nemukadzi

Kana pfungwa yakadai sekuti "Mukadzi uye mudiwa" ave akajairika kune vanhu vemazuva ano, kutengeswa kwemukadzi nemudzimai kune vakawanda kuchiri musoro wehurukuro. Kune vanhu vakawanda, zvinoramba zvisingazivikanwi nei mukadzi akasarudza kuita zvepabonde nemukadzi. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzakakwanisa kujekesa kuti nei vakadzi vachichinja varume nevakadzi:

• kusanzwisisa kwevanhu. Vakadzi, avo kwenguva yakareba vakatambura nekushaya kunzwisisa kwevarume, kazhinji vanozvibata vachiita madzishe. Kazhinji kazhinji varume havafungiri kuti mudzimai ari kunyengedza nemukadzi;
• chido. Pfungwa yekuda kuziva ndeye, zvakare, chikonzero chinowanzoitika chekutengesa kwemukadzi. Kusvika iye zvino, tinowana ruzivo rwakanyanya pamusoro pehutano hwepabonde imwechete kubva kune vhidhiyo, mabhuku, mafirimu. Vakawanda vehutano hwakanaka vanobatana nemukadzi kuti vagutse chido chake;
• nyota yekunzwa kutsva. Rimwe rutivi rwevakadzi vakaroora (maererano nevanogadzirisa zvemagariro evanhu kubva kune 7 kusvika ku10%) havafungi kuti upenyu hwavo hwakaenzana. Vanoda zviitiko zvinokonzera ropa, vatsva vanozivana uye kubatana. Vakadzi vakadaro vanoenda nyore kune zvakasiyana-siyana. Kusanganisira, uye kurara nemukadzi.

Zvii zvezana zvevakadzi vanochinja?

Munyika imwe neimwe iyi chimiro chakasiyana - zvichienderana nekunyatsoshandiswa kweruzhinji uye mutemo kunoreva kusatendeka kwevakadzi.

Munyika dzeEurope, USA, uyewo, muRussia, Belarus neUkraine, inenge 42% yevakadzi vakaroora vanobiridzira varume vavo. Pakati pezvi, zvinopfuura hafu zvine mudiwa anogara nekusingaperi. Nyanzvi dzezvematongerwo enyika dzinofunga kuti chiyero ichi chikuru kwazvo nokuti munyika idzi hapana mitemo inoranga vakadzi vakaroora nokuda kwekuita zvechisimba. Uyewo, basa rinokosha rinotambidzwa nekutenderera kwevanhu vose kurudzi rweupombwe.

Munyika dzeMuslim, chiyero chevakadzi vanoita upombwe hachina hanya. Kunyengedzera munyika idzi kune chirango chakaipa, kusvika kurufu rwekufa. Muzhizha ra2010, mutsara wakawana nyaya inonyadzisa pamusoro pekuti muSomalia zviremera zvemunharaunda vakauraya mukadzi sei ukama nemurume akaroorwa. Mukadzi weSomalia akatakwa nematombo nokuda kwekumanikidza. Izvo zvakaitika zvakazoitika kumunhu waaiva naye.