Kuroorana idanho, pasina mubvunzo ane mhosva, uye musikana wose anokanda pamusoro pechato chakanaka nemurume akanaka. Uye pavanofungidzira pachavo nekunaka kwakadaro, vasikana vanotambudzwa nemubvunzo wokuti "makore mangani ndinogona kuroora?" Zvakanyanya kunaka kuti uende mumba muchiroto chemuchato.
Panewo mhaka apo mukomana nemusikana vanosangana kwemakore akawanda uye vanoda kuwanana, kune vakaroorana vakadaro mubvunzo "makore mangani iwe ungaroora (kuroora)?" Ndizvo zvakanyanya kuoma. Saka, makore mangani iwe unogona kuisa kuhofisi ye registry?
Makore mangani angave akaroorana nemutemo?
Ngatitange, zvichida, neRussia - makore mangani nemutemo iwe unogona kuroora muRussia? The Family Code inosimbisa makore akaroora (nhamba yemakore mushure mekuti munhu anogona kuroora) kwemakore gumi nemana. Asi kana pane zvikonzero zvakanaka, vanogona kuroorwa (asi kwete kusungirwa) vane gumi nematanhatu-vane makore. Mukuwedzera, kana pane mamiriro akasiyana akataurwa nemitemo yeRussian Federation, imba inogona kugadziriswa isati yava nemakore gumi nematanhatu.
Uye makore mangani muUkraine ndingakwanisa kuroorana? Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura, yakabvumidzwa kuroora kubva pazera remakore gumi nemanomwe, asi Family Code yeUkraine muna April 2012 yakagadziridza kugadzirisa kukwidziridzwa kwemakore ekuroorana kwevakadzi. Iye zvino iye, kufanana neRussia, ane makore 18. Asi kodzero yekuroora inogona kuwanikwa nemusikana (kana mukomana) kwemakore gumi nematanhatu nedare rekutonga kana chiitiko icho chichato chinopindira zvinodiwa zvevakaroorana vanoda kuwanana. Pamberi pacho, mudiki wezera hwekuroorana kwaive nemakore gumi nemana. Kusimudzirwa kwezera rakaroorana kwakatsanangurwa nevanyori veyo mushumo semuedzo wekudzidzisa muchizvarwa chechidiki kuva nemafungiro akawedzera uye akabudirira pamusoro pekugadzirwa kwemhuri.
Inguva ipi yekuroorana?
Zvichida vakawanda vanofunga kuti vasikana vakaroora mushure memaziso avo, vachidzidza kuti kumirira kwegumi nemasere ekuberekwa, sezvo pasina humwe hunokosha uye hunoremekedza mamiriro ezvinhu. Uyezve, vakadzi vakuru vachaedza kuvanyaradza, vachiti hapana nzvimbo yekukurumidzira, iwe uchiri nenguva yekutora hupenyu hukuru hwemhuri pamwe nehomwe huru. Zvose zvizvarwa zvine chokwadi chavo, asi zvichida hazvikoshi kwete pamakore mangani unogona kuroora nemutemo, uye kana iwe uchida kuzviita. Mushure mezvose, zera hazvikoshi, zvinoitika kuti mukadzi ane makore makumi matatu nemakore anoshanda nenzira inenge isina simba, asingazivi zvachose mutoro waanofanira kutora paanoita nekuroora. Uye pane zviitiko apo musikana ane makore gumi nemana uye mucheche, uye anotarisana nehupfumi, uye anonzwa anofara. Zvose zvinoenderana nemunhu, mumwe nomumwe wedu ane nguva iyo nguva yekuroora, yakasiyana.
Asi sei kuti uwane nguva yako yekuroorana, kana mubvunzo wekuti "makore akawanda vakadzi vanoroora" hausi kusimudzira chidzitiro chekuvanzika? Uye ndiani akakuudza kuti iwe unoda kubvunza mumwe munhu maonero? Pane kusarura kwakadaro pakati pevakadzi "Handina kuroora ndisati ndava nemakore makumi matatu, naizvozvo hapana munhu akakodzera", ndizvo zvayo vasikana vanomhanyira kuhofisi yebazi, vachiedza kubata kusvika panguva yakaoma.
Kana maonero evamwewo asingakwanise kuva mutungamiri munyaya yewanano, ipapo tariro yekupedzisira yechiremba. Vanotaura kuti nguva yakanakisisa yekuberekwa kwemwana wekutanga ndeyezera remakore makumi maviri nemaviri nemashanu. Saka iwe unofanirwa kuedza kusvika ipapo nenzira dzose? Kunyange kana vana vasingadi, kunyange kana murume wacho aripo, haadi kutamba basa romunhu waunoda? Sezviri pachena mubvunzo, kana yava nguva yekuroorana, uye mushonga hauna simba.
Uye ndeyezera ripi ratinogona kutaura pamusoro? Mhuri haisi mifananidzo, iyo manzwiro, zvido uye kuzvipira kwevanhu vaviri avo vakasarudza kurarama hupenyu hurefu pamwe chete. Hazvina basa kuti vanhu ava vakura sei - 16 kana 89.