O, shamwari idzi dzinodiwa vedu! Kazhinji vakadzi vanoreurura "Ndinovenga shamwari yangu yepamwoyo, nguva dzose anouya nenguva uye anounza oga matambudziko." Vakadzi ava vanogona kungonzwira tsitsi - shamwari isiri bhodhoro rewaini, haugoni kuitora kumarara. Asi mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma ndeyevakadzi avo vane shamwari yepamwoyo inonzwira tsitsi zvikuru. Uye hazvirevi nezvenguva apo vanhu vakaita saiyo, tiri kutaura pamusoro pevakadzi vanorota zvekuda neshamwari yemurume wavo.
Ndinoda shamwari yemurume wangu - ndinofanira kuitei?
Edza kureurura kune shamwari "yakawa neshamwari yangu yepamwoyo" uye ona zvinoitika. Zvichida iwe unotanga "kuisa uropi hwako", kukukurudzira kuti ukanganwe pamusoro peshoko rekuda nekukurumidzira. Kunyange zvazvo imwe sarudzo inogona kuitika, kana musikana wacho asina kuremerwa nemitemo yetsika, saka dare rinogona kuedzwa kuti ribvise. Asi ndeipi nzira yakanakisisa yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu?
Kuti upindure mubvunzo uyu, unofanirwa kunzwisisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu zvakadzama. Mushure mezvose, ivo vakasiyana, uye haukwanisi kufunga nezvevakadzi vose vanoda kurara nemurume wekunakidza shamwari yavo chete nevanhu vakatsauka.
"Handidi murume wangu, asi ndinoda shamwari yake"
Isu tose tinoziva nezvezvinyorwa, apo michato inogadzirwa neupenzi, "phiri", uye vakaroora, mushure mechinguva mushure mechato, vanonzwisisa kuti upenyu huri pamwe hahupi hupi hunovapa mufaro. Muchiitiko ichi, kupa mhosva mukadzi nekudanana nemumwe murume, kunyange shamwari yemurume wake, pane kuoma. Ichokwadi, kumurume nyaya iyi haifaniri kuva yakakosha, asi nokuti iwe uchiri kutamba nemudiwa wako vari vasori - kutendeuka, mapepasi uye zvimwe zvinonakidzwa nehupenyu huviri zvichava newe kusvikira ukama nemudiwa wako achimira kana iwe usingaiti kurambana.
"Ndinoda murume wangu uye ndinoda shamwari yake"
Kana mune mamiriro akapfuura, kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunobva pachokwadi chekudanana nemumwe murume hakufaniri kubuda, saka munyaya iyi, havagoni kuparidzirwa. Kusarudza kuita zvepabonde neshamwari yemurume wako, unoisa mungozi kumhuri yemhuri, kunyange kana iri inotyisa. Sezvakaratidzwa zvinoratidzira, mumubhedha wechirimu zvakanaka zviri nani kudana wechitatu iwe wausingazivi, uyo wausingadi kuramba achipindira muupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Saka kana iwe uchida murume wako, saka zviri nani kukanganwa pamusoro pehukama hwake. Kunyange kana rudo rwako rusingaregi kwenguva refu, chero zvakadaro kushanyira kwake kwekupedzisira kumba kwako kunounza maminitsi akawanda asingafadzi. Iyi ndiyo mhaka kana shamwari isina kuroorwa, uye kana yakaroorwa? Iwewo unofanirwa kutaurirana nemudzimai wake. Asi zviri nyore kutaura kuti kukangamwa, asi ungazviita sei?
Edza mazano anotevera:
- Unofunga kuti shamwari yemurume wako ndiyo yakakosha yemunhu here? Asi iwe unonzwisisa kuti vanhu vakanaka havakwanisi. Tarisa zvikanganiso, uye uzviite zvakanaka, sekunge iwe uchiedza kukumbira kubhadhara, uchigutsidzira mutengesi kuti zvinhu zvake zvakashata. Shamwari yemurume wako ichiri kusununguka here? Kuvhiringidzika, kutya uye udyire zviri pachena. Teerera maitiro akaipa, tsika dzakaipa - kuongorora kwakanyatsonaka kwehuhu huchaita kuti chimiro chakanaka chave chakagadzirwa mupfungwa dzako.
- Deredzai mamiriro ako mupfungwa dzako, sekunge iwe wakasarudza kuzadzisa chido chako. Fungidzira kuti wakabatsirwa neizvi, kuti wakarasika. Ingova wechokwadi, usazvivakira mhepo inovhara. Kuti tifambe nokuda kwekubata uye kusangana, kana murume asiri pamba, kwenguva yakareba hairi kubuda. Vanhu vakawanda
kunyatsonyanya kudarika zvavanoda kuonekwa. Uye kana murume asingacherechedzi kuchinja kwehutsika hwako, saka vadikanisi vakanaka vachavhenekera. Iwe unofunga kuti vanasekuru pavanopinda havangacherechedzi here kuti mumwe murume ari kuuya kwauri pasina murume wake? Vachacherechedza uye vanofara kugovana mashoko nevose vanoda. Fungidzira zvichazoitika kana inozi yako inozivikanwa kune vose. Iko kunofanirwa nekuda kwekanguva kwezvinetso zvakadaro here?
Pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu, nguva dzose edza kubatanidza pfungwa kune nyaya, uye kwete manzwiro. Yakagadzirirwa pepa pepa nepeni. Nyora kana kutora mamiriro ako uye edza kufungidzira kubva kune rumwe rutivi. Dzimwe nguva zvinongogoneka kutaridzika kusingadzivisiki ...