Dzimwe nguva fate inotikanda matambudziko akadaro, mhinduro iyo inofanira kutsvakwa kwemakore. Kunyanya kakawanda zvinetso zvakanyanya zvakaoma zvepfungwa zvinomuka apo kune vashoma vatori vechikamu vanomanikidzwa kugovana nharaunda inowanikwa: somuenzaniso, vashandi pamwe navo kana vemhuri. Uye kana ivo vokutanga, vari muhukama hwakashata kubasa, kudzokera kumusha, uko kushamwaridzana kwechokwadi kwehama kuchivamirira, saka hakuna nzvimbo imwe yokuenda: imba yavo haisisiri nhare, asi "chaiyo yemauto ehondo" nehuwandu hwepfungwa dzepamusoro.
Unyanzvi hwepfungwa nezvehukama hwemhuri nekuda kweiyo, uye panofanira kushanyira kwavari, apo ukama hwehama "hunopera pamagetsi."
Basics of well-being: the psychology of family and family relationships
- chinetso chinowanzoitika. Kuvandudza rugare mune dambudziko mhuri, zvinokosha kuti nhengo dzaro dzose dzione kuti izvi zvakajairika uye panguva imwechete dambudziko rega: mumwe munhu anoita chimwe chinhu chakashata, uye kukakavadzana kunoitwa pane izvi;
- mutual rubatsiro. Mukugadzirisa kusarura kupi zvako, zvakakosha kuti vanhu vabatsirane mumwe kune vamwe mukuzvidzwa kune zvavanofarira;
- Hondo umo mune vasina vakunda. Mune nharo dzemhuri chero ipi zvayo inongova "kurasikirwa", nokuti imba inzvimbo iyo munhu anogona kupukunyuka kubva mumatambudziko ndokudzorerazve simba rake. Kana iyi "mitsipa" ichiva nzvimbo yekukakavara, saka pane zvinopesana, inoda zvakawanda.
Dambudziko nhamba 1 muukama hwemhuri uye hwemhuri - mutoro
Kusava nemutoro pamwe chete ndeimwe yezvinetso zvinowanzoitika mumhuri. Vakuru vose nevana vanofanira kunzwisisa kuti vanofanira kudanana zvikuru: kupa nekuratidza rudo, izvo zvinoda kuratidzwa kwete nemashoko chete, asiwo mune zviito. Somuenzaniso, kumanikidzira murume aneta kuti agadzire musuo, mudzimai anofanira kunzwisisa kuti mangwana achaenda kunoshanda akaneta, uye zvingava zvakaoma kwaari kuti arwise makwikwi anotonga kunze kwemasvingo eimba yavo. Kupera nguva dzose kunotungamirira kukuti iye acharega kushanda uye kuunza mari kumba. Nekudaro, murume, achikurudzira mudzimai wake kuti agadzirire kudya kwemanheru kana kuisa zvinhu zvakagadzirirwa mumba, mushure mokunge adzoka asisina kuneta kubva kubasa - haatarisiki pane zvake.
Nzira yekugadzirisa ukama mumhuri munyaya iyi? Kuti ugadzirise dambudziko rehudyire uye kusava nehanya, unoda kutaura kuti sei uchiita izvi. Kunze kuburikidza nhaurirano inogona "kuvara" nhengo dzemhuri kutarisirana.
Dambudziko nhamba 2 muukama hwemhuri - murume ane usimbe kana mudzimai
Kusagadzikana kwemumwe wako kunogumbura kusaruramisira kwake: nei mumwe munhu achifanira kushanda nesimba, uye manheru mune imwe "hafu-yakafa" mamiriro ekuneta anowira pamubhedha, uye mumwe munhu wose zuva rakanaka, uye anofarira basa romumwe? Iyi ichinetso chinowanzoitika kune vakaroorana, apo mumwe mudiwa ari mutauriri wekutaura, uye imwe inoshingaira.
Nzira yekuvandudza hukama hwakadaro mumhuri? Zvingangodaro, kutsanangurira mukomana ane usimbe kuti zvakaoma sei iwe uye kuti anofanira kushanda hazvina maturo, saka unofanirwa kuzvichengeta iwe pachako. Nokuda kweizvi zvakakosha kutsanangura zvinonzwisisika uye zvinonzwisisika zvaanofanira kuita nhasi, mangwana, mumwedzi. Tanga zviri nani nekufamba marefu,
Dambudziko № 3 hwehukama mumhuri - matriarchy kana patriarchy
Kana mhuri ine vatungamiri vaviri, kana vamiririri vemhuri yemhuri uye mhuri yepamusoro, ipapo kurwisana kwesimba hakugoni kudziviswa.
Nzira yekuita sei rugare mumhuri? Muchiitiko ichi, zvakakwana kuti zviparidze nzvimbo dze "kukudzwa", kana kuti kusvika pane kubvumirana - hukama hwakakwana. Zvakakwana kuti isu tose tinyatsonzwisisa kuti munhu wese munhu anoremekedza mafungire uye ane kodzero yekuteerera maonero ake, asiwo kuva akarurama kana zvichinyatsoitika.