Kune vanhu vanofamba kuburikidza nehupenyu, usatarisa-tarisa, uye usingacherechedzi vamwe. Vanhu vakadaro havatombofungi kuti zvakaoma kuti vanzwe mwoyo wevakidzani vavo, kuzvifungidzira pachavo munzvimbo yake. Uyezve, dzimwe nguva, vanosundira vamwe, vachifamba netsoka dzavo, uye, vachitaura zvese, pamisoro yavo, vachifunga kuti iyo inofadza. Vanhu vakadaro vane ivo pachavo pachavo pakutanga, ivo pachavo kutonga uye pfungwa yekuona. Ichi chinonzi chinonzi egocentrism.
Saka, kuzvipira haisi chirwere chepfungwa, asi chinzvimbo chemunhu, chinoratidzwa nekugadzirisa zvakakwana pane zvaanoona, maonero, zvido, nezvimwewo. Munhu wega wega haakwanisi kutora nekufungisisa ruzivo runopesana nezvakaitika kwaari, kusanganisira izvo zvinobva kune vamwe. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti kushaya kukwanisa kuzviisa panzvimbo yeumwe munhu, kusakwanisa "kugara mune rimwe ganda reumwe munhu," kusada kubvuma kune zvaanoda uye zvaanoda.
Zviratidzo zvekudzivirira
Psychology inoshandisa pfungwa ye "kugadzirisa" pashure pokunge yatangwa naJean Piaget kurondedzera mafungiro anowanikwa nevana 8-10 wemakore.
Kutaura kwakananga kunoratidzwa pachena muhuduku uye hunokundwa nemakore 11-14. Asi, sekutonga, mukukwegura kune zvakare chido chekusimbisa chiitiko chekufunga.
Kuzvipira muzvikamu zvakasiyana-siyana zvekuoma kunopfuurira kune vamwe vanhu uye panguva yakakura.
Tinonyora zvikonzero uye mamiriro ezvinhu anogadzirisa kana munhu angave ari munhu mukuru kana kuti kwete:
- Mwana oga ari mumhuri.
- Muduku pakati pehama kana hanzvadzi.
- Mwana muduku.
- Amai vanodzvinyirira.
- Kuda kwekuchera.
- Iko kodzero yenzvimbo yakanyanyisa inoshanda kupfuura yakasara.
- Kusatenda kwevabereki, kunyanya, amai, kumwana.
- Kunyanya kunetseka mupfungwa muhuduku.
Asi hapana chimwe chezvikonzero hachisi chikonzero chokupedzisira. nenzira dzakawanda iyo inokonzera kukanganisa mumunhu, kunobva pauunhu hweunhu hwake pachake.
Kuzvida uye kuzvipira
Pasinei nemafungiro akapararira, asi kuzvipira hakusi mutsara kana chimiro, chido chekuzvifunga. Saka, somuenzaniso, mumwe munhu anonyatsoona nyika yakamupoteredza seasna yekurwa nechinangwa chake pachake, nokuda kwezvaanofarira. Muzviitiko zvizhinji, anofarira kuona sangano rakapoteredza sevavengi, kana sevanopikisana nevanofanira kukwikwidza nekurwa. Panzira yekuwana chikonzero chaidiwa, munhu ane udyire, asina kumboita, anoshandisa izwi rokuti "Mugumo unoruramisa nzira".
Egocentric, zvakare, inoona nyika yakamupoteredza senharaunda inongorumbidzwa naye uye inoshungurudzwa nematambudziko ake. Kana zvisina kudaro, anotenda zvakasimba kuti izvi zvinofanira kunge zvakadaro.
Nemhaka yemamwe mafungiro, vanhu vanovapoteredza vanoona nyore nyore udyire. Asi kuzvipira pakutanga pakuona munhu asingazivikanwi asina kuzviratidza achazviratidza semunhu ane ushamwari, akatendeseka. Izvi zvicharamba kusvikira pane mamiriro ezvinhu achaomanikidza munhu wega-oga kuti aite chero zvibayiro. Asi egocentric haisati yakagadzirirwa izvi, nokuti, mumaonero ake, iyo inofanira kubayirwa muchidimbu chake, asi zvirokwazvo kwete iye.
Pakati pavhesi, egocentrism yevakadzi ndiyo inonyanya kushandiswa izwi rinosanganiswa rinoenderana nechokwadi chaicho pane "murume egocentrism". Muzvokwadi, mumwero wakakwana,
Nzira yekugadzirisa sei egocentrism?
Nekunyengera hazvibviri kurwisana kusvikira munhu achiziva kuti anoda kurasa. Chero humwe hudo hwakanaka hwehupenyu hwega, kana huri mamiriro ezvinhu akachinjwa apo zvisina kukodzera kushandisa kufunga kwake kwakananga, zvinogona kuponesa munhu kubva pakufunga kwakajeka.
Kana zvikaitika kuti egocentricity inowanikwa mumunhu ari pedo newe, zvino zvakakosha nekuchenjerera uye kushivirira kukurudzira pfungwa dzako pamusoro pekuparadzana kwekuzvipira kubva kwazviri.