Ukama humwe humwe hunomuka pakati pevanhu, kana ivo vakaenzana zvakaenzana. Mumhuri dzine ukama hwakadaro, mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana anonzwa seanononoka sezvinobvira, murume nomudzimai vanonzwisisana kubva kune imwe hafu-shoko, nguva dzose vanoziva nguva ipi zvayo yemaminitsi ekutsigira, intuitively kunzwisisa kuti ndeapi, mabasa api akachengetedzwa, nezvimwewo.
Ukama huviri hunogona kubuda mumunhu chero upi zvake kana akawana hafu yakafanana mumaonero ake, mumweya, mukuchenjera, nezvimwewo. Hapana vanhu "vakanaka" vanogara vachifara muwanano uye "vakaipa", vasingakwanisi kupinda mumhuri yemhuri. Zviri nyore kuti munhu wose akawana "pikicha" yake anokwanisa kuvaka ukama hwechokwadi.
Maererano nemagariro evanhu, vaviri vakaroorana vanobva vasimuka. Vanhu vanoumba kubatsirana kwevamwe havaiti kamwe pakarepo kuona kuti vane rombo rakadini. Pakutanga ukama hwakadaro, zvinhu zvose zvinoitika sekuti kana pachedu-pakutanga ivo vakatanga kungotaurirana, zvino yakava tsika yekufamba pamwe chete, nezvimwewo. Misangano yevakaroorana pamwe chete haifambidzwi nemhepo ine mhirizhonga yemanzwiro , uye munhu wese ane kunzwa kworugare uye nyaradzo. Chero bedzi pavanoparadzana, musikana nemukomana vanonzwisisa kuti zvakaoma sei pasina mumwe nomumwe, kuti havakwanisi kuwana nzvimbo yavo uye vanonzwa kuti avo vanovapoteredza havasi kunzwisisa.
Dual marital
Imba yakaroorana inokonzerwa nekufara nekugara kwenguva refu. Vanhu vane ruzivo rwakakwana rwekuwirirana havakwanise kukakavara. Zvose zvinetso mumhuri yakadaro zvinoshandiswa nekuda kwekutsigirwa, kunzwira tsitsi uye manzwiro akafanana, i.e. kana mumwe achisuruvara, nokuti kune matambudziko ari kushanda, saka mumwe mumwe wako haazoitora mumusoro wake kuti afare.
Zvisinei, havasi vose vakaroorana vanoumba hukama hwechokwadi hunoita machato maererano nehuwandu hwevanhu. Vanhu vasina ukama hwakadaro muhuduku vanotya kuzviwedzera kwakadaro kana kuti vanotenda kuti hafu yechipiri yakanaka kwazvo uye havakodzeri. Kana, pane zvinopesana, zvasangana nomukomana, pane manzwiro ekuti munhu uyu akareruka, asingafariri uye haamutengi nguva. Sezvo tasiya tsika dzehutatu, munhu anogona kuzviwana muupenyu husina mufaro.