Isu tinoshandiswa kuti chokwadi varume vanowanzovanza manzwiro avo, vachitarisa kuonekwa kwavo sevasina simba. Asi hutsika iyi inomutsa kusava nechokwadi, vanhu vanovhiringidzwa here? Zvichida havadi uye havawanikwi zvakadai, uye isu pasina mubvunze kubva kune avo vakaita saizvozvo?
Nzira yekuita kuti munhu asakanganise?
Kutanga, iwe unoda kunzwisisa kana tatanga kuora mwoyo. Zviri pachena kuti izvi zvinoitika kana iwe ukarasikirwa nemukana wekuwana chimwe chinhu chinodhura. Munhu wese anofirwa nevabereki vake, vana vaduku, vaduku vezvipfuwo, nezvimwewo. Iyi manzwiro akafanana kune munhu wose, saka mubvunzo kana varume vakaroorwa kana kwete hazvirevi. Kana iwe uri mudiwa zvikuru kune wako wakasanangurwa, zvirokwazvo achamirira misangano newe, achitarisira imwe neimwe. Kunyange kuti uchinzwisisa nzira yekuita kuti munhu asave, hazvikuvadzi. Kamwe kamwe pachava nechido chekubatsira mudiwa wako kuti anzwe manzwiro aya?
- Kazhinji, vasikana vanoedza zvakaoma kuti varatidze rudo rwavo kuti ivo havaregi munhu achigomera. Edza imwe nzira, rega kumudana nguva yose, iwe unewo mamwe mabasa. Shandisa nguva yakawanda kushanda uye kuzviita, kunyange kana iye zvino ari kudana uye achishamisika kuti uri kuitei.
- Kana iwe usingagare pamwe chete, ipapo pakushanyira kuno mumwe murume kukanganwa chimwe chinhu kubva kwaari chichakuyeuchidza iwe. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe uchifunga kuti ungaita sei murume akaroorwa achiora mwoyo, zano iri haringashande. Kana mudzimai akawana chinhu chakasara, anodikanwa achakuyeuka iwe, asi kwete chokwadi kuti iri shoko rakanaka.
- Unoda kuti munhu apone here? Shandisa naye nguva yakawanda, izere nezviitiko zvinonakidza, zvisingakanganwiki. Ipapo imwe nheyo yaanoita inoshamwaridzana newe.
- Kana iwe uchifunga nzira yekuita kuti murume akaroora akaroorwa, ipapo iwe unofanira kuyananisa unyanzvi hwokuongorora . Funga pamusoro pezvaasingawani muwanano: zvepabonde, kunyanya kutarisa, zvidyo zvekudya, kurumbidzwa. Edza kumupa zvaanoda, uye ipapo achakuyeuka iwe nekukusiya pane imwe pfungwa yaasingawani nayo kumba.