Kuwira murudo nemurume akaroorwa - chii chaunofanira kuita?

Manzwiro akajeka, manzwiro akasimba uye kunzwa kwakashure kwavo mapapiro kwakaonekwa: murume akaonekwa muhupenyu hwako. Zvakanaka, iwe unogona kurumbidza, asi kwete kana iwe uchinge uchida murume akaroora, nokuti chii chaunofanira kuita mumamiriro ezvinhu aya uye kuti ungatarise sei nechokwadi chokuti mudikanwi haasununguki achafanira kusarudza uye nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare zvichave zvakakodzera kusarudza: kugutsikana nemudzimai wechipiri muvakadzi kana kumubvisa kubva kumhuri.

Chii chinofanira kuroora madzimai?

Vakawanda vevaya vakasungwa nemisungo yeHymen, musaona chero chakaipa nevanoda kana kuti vanodika parutivi. Sezvavanotaura, "wekusimba wekusimbisa anosimbisa imba" uye kana pasina munhu anoronga kusiya mhuri, zvino chinhu chakakosha ndechokunyengedza nekunyengedza uye kusaisa manzwiro ehafu yepakati pasi pekutambudzika. Asi kana mamiriro acho akaparara, zvakakosha kufungisisa zvakananga kana zvakakosha "candleworm" uye kana iwe uchazvidemba kuti waputsa mararamiro ehupenyu, vana vakakuvara uye vakatsinhana baba vavo kune mumwe munhuwo zvake. Kana iwe ukadanana nemunhu akanaka uye wakaroora, haisi chokwadi chokuti anoronga hukama hwakakomba nemwi. Zvechokwadi, ndinoda chido ichi uye moto seAna Karenina, asi ini ndinoda kugadzirisa zvakadaro?

Chii chingaita musina kuroora?

Imba isina kubatana mumamiriro ezvinhu aya haafaniri kuitirwa godo. Kusangana nomunhu akaroora, kwete munhu akasununguka kutungamira hupenyu mukutarisira kusingagumi: achauya-iye haazovi, achadana-haazodanidzi. Kuchema mumutsago, kusangana negore idzva uye March 8 oga. Zviuraye iwe kusurukirwa uye kusava nevana. Pane maonero ekuti vakadzi vakadaro vanongomhanya kubva kune varume vaanokwanisa kuvaka mhuri uye vanosarudza kwete vakasununguka, iyo inogara ichifadza, yakanaka uye adrenaline mamota muropa. Ivo pachavo havakagadzirira kumira muhupenyu uye havatarisiri kuti murume achasiya mhuri yake kwavari. Zvakanaka, izvi ndizvo zvavanosarudza uye vanopomera munhu watinayo pano asina kodzero.

Chimwe chinhu, kana rudo nemurume akaroora kunounza kutambura, kana iwe ukacherechedza kuipa kweukama hwakadaro uye hutachiona hwekunzwa kusingagoni kuguma zvakanaka. Pano zvakakosha kutora matanho ekubvisa rudo rwakarambidzwa. Edza kuona mumurume wako kwete chete zvakanakisisa, asiwo kukanganisa, kumuramba mumisangano, shandura kune chimwe chinhu chipi zvacho, shandisa dhanho kana kutanga kutamba uchikomberedza pamwe chete nemusikana wako.

Kuda nemurume anodiwa wakaroorana kunogona kutungamirira kwaari kusiya mhuri kana iwe mose muchida uye muchigadzirira zvose zvinoguma. Kana iwe uine chokwadi chokuti iyi ihafu yako yechipiri, iwe unogona kutarisira uye kuenda kumugumo, pasinei nezvipingamupinyi.