Nzira yekuregeredza kuda murume akaroorwa?

Kubvira paucheche chaihwo, tinorota kwechinda pane bhiza jena. Iye ndiye akanaka kwazvo, akavimbika, ane mutsa, munyoro, akatendeka, akatendeka ... Asi kwete iyo iyo ndarama iyo inopenya. Upenyu hahuzivikanwi uye hunowanzopa zvinhu zvisingatarisirwi uye zvisingafadzi nguva dzose. Ndezvipi zvinonyadzisa zvinomirira apo zvinoshanduka kuti chinhu chedu rudo chati chave chakanyongedzwa, ane mudzimai, zvichida kunyange vana ... Uye tinonzwisisa kuti hazvibviri, hazvina kunaka, asi haugoni kuraira mwoyo wako. Uye sei kuti uve pano? Nzira ipi yekudzivisa kuda murume akaroorwa kana pasina zvachose chinangwa chokuparadza mhuri yake?

Mwoyo, mwoyo unofadza ... Kune vakawanda vakashaya uye vakakodzera varume munyika, asi kwete, nenzira imwe neimwe vakamusarudza, vakaroora ... Uye zvinoita sokuti ndiye iye-kunyanya-uye, zviri nani kuti usamboonana ... Unodanidzira, usuruvara, kana uyo waasingadi kuona vamwe, iye oga ndiye akatora zvese zvaanofunga uye manzwiro ake ... Uye kumativi ose, zvirokwazvo, anorayirwa kumurega kunze kwebhuku rake ... Asi ungadzivisa sei rudo uye kukanganwa munhu kana uri mumadzika emweya wake pane tariro yekuti iwe uchava pamwe chete, uye iwe uchava mumwe wake. Zvechokwadi, iwe unoziva kuti kune mikana shoma shoma, kana inenge isina, asi zvivimbiso zvinodiwa kuti acharamba, asi kana mudzimai ari nani, vana vachakura, nekudaro. Uye nguva inoramba ichienderera uye hapana chinoshanduka. Pane imwe nguva iwe unoziva kuti zvinhu zvose zvasvika pakuguma kwehukama hwakadaro pasina ramangwana, nokuti hapana chichazombochinja.

"Ndinoda kurega kuda"

Kutora danho rokutanga pakuputsa ukama kunokosha zvikuru kutora simba rose rinoda kuita chibvumirano uye kutarisisa nemamiriro ezvinhu. Fungidzira kana kamwe-kamwe, nemamiriro ezvinhu akabudirira kwazvo kwauri, iye achiri kurambana uye achangova yako. Asi iwe unogona kuvimba naye ipapo here? Pashure pezvose, zvino iwe uri mudzimai wake wemutemo, zvakafanana sezvaaiva, musikana waainyengedza newe. Iwe haungaiti here kazhinji nekushanyira pfungwa yekufanirwa kwakafanana? Pashure pezvose, kana munhu akashanduka kamwechete, chii chinomudzivisa kushandura kechipiri? Zvichida ikozvino manzwiro ako akasimba nokuti haisi yako uye zvichida haudi "rudzi rwe" mufaro "zvachose"?

Iko mafungiro ekuti varume vose vagadzire uye kuva nemudzimai, vacharamba vachichinja uye havazosiyi mhuri yavo nekukanganisa. Zvinowanzoitika kuti munhu anowira murudo, sezvavanotaura, zvechokwadi uye anosiya mhuri yekare. Asi zvakanyatsojeka kubatana kwekare kare hakugoni kubviswa zvachose, kunyanya kana paine vana mumuchato uye zvichida, nguva nenguva achakurukura neaimbova mudzimai wake. Uchave wakasununguka muukama hwakadaro here, iwe ungavaidza kuti vanofara? Zvingangodaro kwete. Muchiitiko ichi, kukanganisa rudo kunokosha, kunyange kana zvichikwanisika kubatanidza fate nayo. Nhamo yevamwe haisi iyo yakanakisisa yekuita mhuri inofara.

Asi zvinokwanisikawo kuti iwe uripo shure kwezviitiko zvehupenyu hwemudiwa wako huchagutsikana naye zvakakwana. Funga, ivo pachavo, hazvina kunaka kwaari here? Kune vakadzi vaviri avo vanonyatsoda, asi chokwadi chokuti iye oga anonyengedza asingagumi, uye mumwe anotambura neizvi-kwaari, nditende ini, zvinhu zviduku zvehupenyu. Asi chinosuruvarisa ndechekuti iwe hauzove nenguva yekutarisa shure, kuti huduku huchapfuura sei, runako huchapfuura uye kazhinji iwe haugoni kuhuda zvachose, nokuti, "gondo" rinomudzivisei kuti awane mumwe munhu muduku? Uye iwe uchagara uri woga kwehupenyu hwako hwose ... Kwete kwete zvakanakisisa tariro, chakanaka?

Zvakakosha kubvisa ushamwari husina mufaro. Hazvishamisi kuti vanotaura kuti haugone kuvaka mufaro kune umwe munhu. Uye shure kwezvose musikana wese anofanirwa nazvo! Saka, inwa chiduku chiduku, funga uye udzidze mazwi ekufuratira uye pakupedzisira mutaurire zvakananga pamusoro pezvaunoda kugovana. Pasina kunyengera, usapindura kushevedza kwake, usamboonana naye, usatora zvipo zvake, kurasira zvose zvinomuyeuchidza pamusoro pake-kumubvisa kubva muupenyu hwako kamwe chete! Uye zvino, kana zvichikwanisika, zivana nevamwe varume, kunyange kana vazivana vacho vasingazombomanikidzi kune chero chinhu, ingoziva nezvekukwezva kwako kune vakomana nevasikana uye pakupedzisira iwe uchasangana nemumwe wako wechokwadi rudo. Tungamira kuti usangane nemufaro wako!