Vakawanda havagoni kuzvinzwisisa uye vari kutsvaga tsanangudzo yemanzwiro e rudo. Tinokupa kuti iwe ucherechedze maitiro akawanda anozokuratidza kuti unganzwisisa sei rudo rwechokwadi kubva murudo, rudo nemamwe manzwiro akafanana anogona kusunga vanhu vaviri.
Manzwiro erudo anoratidzwa sei?
Mhedzisiro huru pakati porudo nemamwe manzwiro ose ndekusavapo kwakakwana kwehudyire maererano nechinhu chorudo. Mune mamwe mazwi, munhu wacho achave anokosha kudarika mufaro wevanodiwa, panzvimbo yemukana wekuva naye, kana kamwe-kamwe zvinosvika kuti manzwiro haataurirane.
Kana munhu ari murudo, ari kuda - anoda nguva, kutariswa kweanoda. Munhu anodikanwa anozviriritira - anoda kungoita chimwe chinhu chakanaka kune munhu anokosha kupfuura mamwe ose muupenyu hwake, kuti amupe mufaro. Chido chemufaro chinotora fomu isingadi, sezvinoitwa rwiyo: "Ndinoshuva iwe mufaro, rega kwete neni, saka kune imwe ..."
Simba rukuru rwe rudo
Kana tikafunga kuti rudo sekunhu hukuru hwevanhu, zvakakosha kuziva kuti hazvibviri kuongorora rudo manzwiro umo kugamuchirwa kwemumwe munhu kusingapfuuri kumativi ose. Munyaya yerudo rwechokwadi, ruchazviratidza mumhando yekutengesa nemasimba ose uye nhengo dzekuona:
- Chiratidzo - unodiwa unofadza pamusoro, unoita seakakosha, kunyange kana asina kunaka nemaitiro akaenzana;
- kunzwa - inzwi romunhu waunoda nguva dzose rinonakidza kwazvo;
- Kunhuwa - kunhuwa kwemudiwa wemunhu kwakafanana;
- kubata - nguva dzose inoswededza kwaari kuti abate, kurohwa, etc ;;
- kunakidza - kutsvoda kwomunhu waunoda kuchagara ari nani munyika yose, kunyange kana isina kukwana maererano nekombiyuta.
Chero kana pane kukwezva kwakakwana, kubvuma kwakakwana kwehutano pamwe chete nezvikanganiso (uye kwete kungoita zvakanaka, sekurudo), kunzwa kunogona kufungwa nezvorudo. Semurairo, inoumbwa mumakore mashomanana, uye pakutanga, apo munhu wese anopika kune mumwe nomumwe murudo, ndezvekuwira murudo.
Kunzwa rudo rwekutanga
Ikoko kwaimbova chidzidzo chekuziva chivo chakaratidza kuti wechidiki, pasi pesimba rekuda kwerudo mupfungwa dzake, zvinoshamisa zvakafanana nemunhu ane upenzi husina kunaka. Munhu akadaro anova akanaka chaizvo, anongova nehanya nehupenyu hwake pachake, anoziva kuti hapana munhu aida zvakanyanya, uye hakuna munhu akatambura zvakanyanya, uyezve, kuti kunze kwemweya manzwiro aya, izvi hazvichazovipo.
Zvisinei, gare gare, apo nguva inopfuura, inowanzotarisa kuti izvi hazvisi chinhu kunze kwekuda-kunyange zvazvo, munhu wose anoyeuka iye hupenyu hwake hwose.