Kusarura

Zuva rimwe nerimwe tinosangana nevanhu vakasiyana-siyana, mamiriro ezvinhu, tisingazvioni isu, tinozviongorora uye, kazhinji, haisi maonero edu, mafungiro, asi kusarura kunokonzerwa nesangano.

Kusarura kunoita basa rinokosha muupenyu hwevanhu vose. Vanopikisa pakuona, mafungiro kune chimwe chinhu, kune mumwe munhu.

Mafungiro ehupfungwa echisarudzo anotsanangura rusarura sekusarura kune mumwe munhu, nezvimwewo, zvichibva pauri huri mune imwe nhengo kana boka. Mhedzisiro huru yekusarura ndeyemagariro evanhu uye mhuri yevanhu. Chokutanga pane zvose, vabereki vanodzidzisa mumwana mafungiro, pane izvo pfungwa yake yevamwe inoumbwa, pamusoro pake. Kukura, munhu haazogadziri dzimwe maonero akaiswa kubva paucheche, uye anoshandisa muupenyu hwevanhu vakuru, mune hukama nevamwe.

Mitemo yekusarura

Munharaunda, zvakajairika kusiyanisa pakati pezvimwe zvakasiyana-siyana zvekusarura:

  1. Zvepabonde. Kusarura kwevanhukadzi kune chokuita nehutano. Ichi ndicho chimwe chekusarura kunowanzoitika. Saka, maererano neongororo, kusarura kwakadaro kwevarume varume kunoshandiswa kureva sekunzwisisa, kufungidzira. Kusarura kwepabonde kunosanganisira kutenda kuti varume vanobudirira mune zvebhizimisi kana kuti basa revakadzi rinofungidzirwa kuva rakaderera kupfuura iro revarume.
  2. Kusarura kwenyika. Ichi chinhu chinoshamwaridzana nehukama-hwepfungwa, iyo inoratidzirwa nechinhu chinokanganisa nekuremekedza rumwe rudzi kusvika kune rumwe. Kusarura kwakadaro kune imwe yenzira dzekutaura kwetenocentrism. Vanoita mabasa ekuongorora. Kushanda kwavo kunobatsira kuchengetedza nzvimbo yakasununguka pakati pevatumi vemarudzi akasiyana-siyana.
  3. Age. Dambudziko nemhando iyi yekusarura ndeyekuti munhu anonzwisiswa nevamwe kuburikidza nejeri rezvinyengeri, zvakaratidzwa, somuenzaniso, mukuti vechidiki vanotenda kuti vanhu vezera havagoni kuita zvekushanda, uye vanhu vakuru vanofunga kuti vechidiki havana hanya.
  4. Mhuri. Kusarura kune chokuita nemafungiro omunhu iye pachake, pakuonekwa kwake kana mufambiro (kubva pane zvinetso zvinomuka), kune zviitiko (kutenda mune zvezvitendero, etc.), kune zvokudya, nezvimwewo,

Zvakakosha kuziva kuti chero mukadzi upi zvake asina rusarura, semunhu, anotarisa kunakidza. Mushure mokunge vatenda muzvitendero zvakasiyana-siyana, kuvimba nemafungiro evanhu vakawanda nekuramba kuita maonero avo pachavo, somuenzaniso, maererano nehupi humwe nyika, munhu anogona kutarisa benzi, munhu anogona kurasikirwa nemunhu.

Chikonzero uye kusarura hazvina kumboita nheyo imwe chete yekuburika, nemasikirwo, pfungwa dzevanhu, ruzivo rwakachena, asi kuburikidza nekubvumira mashura kuti atungamirire, munhu wacho anosvibisa nyika yake.

Kana munhu akadzidza kuchengeta, kuenzanisa nekugamuchira ruzivo, kufungisisa pamusoro paro nekuruongorora, kusimbisa zvose nemashizha echokwadi, nekuzobatanidza neruzivo rune ruzivo, munhu anoenda kunzvimbo yakakwirira yehupenyu - yehutano hwekufungisisa. Upenyu hwake hune rusununguko kubva pakusarura.

Sei kubvisa rusaruro?

Iwe unogona kujekesa pfungwa dzako munzira dzakawanda:

  1. Dzidza kuparadzanisa mbeu kubva kumakungu, edza kufunga kwekusika, kubatanidza pfungwa nemanzwiro.
  2. Kuvandudzwa kwekufunga kwe syncretic (unhu hwekuona kwevana).
  3. Usaongorora zviitiko, vanhu. Refuse categorical judgment.
  4. Wedzera kushanduka kwekufunga.
  5. Ita kukwanisa kuchinja kukosha kwekuzvitsoropodza.
  6. Dzidza kutarisa chaicho kubva pakuona kwemukana wakabudirira wekuvandudza unyanzvi hwako.
  7. Ita yako intuition kuburikidza nekugadzirisa kusangana newe pachako.
  8. Dzidza kuteerera inzwi rako romukati.
  9. Tsvaga maonero akanaka mune zvakaipa.

Zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti kubvisa kusarura, iwe unatsuka pfungwa yako, maonero ako kune vamwe, nokudaro unatsiridza hukama muupenyu.