MuChechi yechiKristu mune zvikamu zvinomwe zvemasakaramende, kuburikidza nemunhu anoshamwaridzana nechechi naMwari. Uye vabereki vazhinji vane mubvunzo: sei kugadzirira kubhabhatidzwa kwomwana? Chokutanga, sarudza kereke yaunoda kuita tsika. Chechipiri, sarudza vanamwarikadzi uye amai, chikonzero chemhosva - vanhu ava havafaniri kunge vakaroora. Chechitatu, sarudza zita romudzimu kumwana wako, uye pakupedzisira uwane zvinhu zvose zvaunoda kubhabhatidza - kubhabhatidzwa kwakagadzirirwa :
- muchinjikwa;
- tsvina yakachena kana jira;
- shati yechiKristu;
- Icon nechiso chetsvene uyo, ane zita iro mwana achazogamuchira mushure meSaramente.
Zviratidzo zvekutanga zvakabatana nekubhapatidzwa
Mukuwedzera, zvakakosha kuziva nekufungisisa zviratidzo zvevanhu zvekubhabhatidzwa kwemwana:
- Pazuva reKristening hakufaniri kuva nekukakavara mumba.
- Mwarikadzi haafaniri kunge ane pamuviri.
- Panofanira kunge kune nhamba isinganzwisisi yevakashamba muchechi, asi zviri nani kuti iwe nevanamwarikadzi chete iwe uripo panguva ye sacramente.
Mukuwedzera, kucherechedza zviratidzo zvose zvekubhabhatidzwa kwomwana, iva nechokwadi chekuchengetedza makese, tira, chiratidzo uye bhapati yebhapatidzo mushure meSaramente.
Kusarudza zita remweya
Zita rekubhabhatidzwa kwomwana rinofanira kuva reOrthodox. Kana iwe ukashevedza mwana wako kuti akanaka asi kwete zita reOrthodox, saka iwe unofanira kubhabhatidza rubhabhatidzo rwemumwe nemumwe zita. Maererano nechechi yetikoni, zita rebhapatidzo rinofananidza nezita reOrthodox mutsvene, uyo ane zuva iro rubhabhatidzo pachake inopfuura. Izvi zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti mushure meizvi, mutsvene, ane zita rainzi mwana, anova mubatsiri wake uye mudziviriri kubva mumatambudziko ose eupenyu. Mukuwedzera, zita rega roga remweya rinozvimirira pacharo chimwe chifananidzo, mushure mekupedzisira kwevanhu, chimiro chake chemweya, chichavanzwa. Nokudaro, kusarudzwa kwevatsvene, mushure mokunge mwana wacho anopiwa zita rechipiri, inofanira kutaurirwa nezvose zvinotarisirwa.
Kukurukurirana mwana asati abhabhatidzwa
Imwe pfungwa inokosha iyo vabereki vanofanira kuziva vasati vaita saramende yekubhapatidzwa ndeyekufananidza kukurukurirana usati wabhabhatidzwa nomupristi nemupristi, kunze kweizvi hamugoni kubvumirwa kuratidzira. Mune hurukuro idzi, vabereki vanobvunzwa kuti vanoenda kakawanda sei kumabasa, vanogamuchira kugoverana, vachitaura pamusoro penzira iyo yekubhabhatidzwa uye pamusoro pekutenda kune vose. Mune mamwe mazwi, kukurukurirana usati wabhabhatidzwa rubhabhatidzi ndechekugadzirira kugadzirira nzira isati yaitwa saramende pachayo.
Nzira yekubhabhatidzwa inobatanidzwa sei?
Uye, chokwadi, zvinonakidza kune vose vabereki, uye kunyanya vanaamai, kuziva kuti rubhabhatidzo rwemwana runoitika sei, uye kana amai vachabvumirwa kuenda kuchechi, panguva yemitambo? Kana kubhabhatidzwa kunoitika shure kwemazuva makumi mana mushure mokuberekwa, amai vanogona kunge vari muchechi panguva yesakaramende. Pakutanga kwemitambo, mwana asati avharwa mumutauro, chengetedza vana vamwarikadzi vake - vakomana vanochengetedzwa nemamwari, uye vasikana ava vanamwarikadzi. Mushure mekushambidza kwakadaro, vasikana vanopiwa kuna vamwari, uye vakomana vanozvipa ivo vamwari. Kuti apedzise rubhabhatidzo, vakomana vacho vanounzwa muatari,
Nheyo dzekutanga dzekubhabhatidzwa
Pakubhabhatidzwa kwomwana, tsika dzeChechi yeOrthodox dzinoita kuti vanamwarikadzi vamwari vape zvipo kuna godson wavo: naizvozvo, vamwari vanotenga chigadziro - tauro kubhabhatidza kwomwana, shati yebhapatidzo uye bhino nemucheka. Iyo godfather inotengawo ketani uye muchinjikwa, asi chechi haina zvinyatsoda zvezvinhu zvavanenge vaita. Muchinjikwa une ketani kunogona kuva yegoridhe kana sirivha, uye mumwe munhu anofarira kuti mucheche atakura muchinjikwa pamabhoni. Mukuwedzera kune chipo, godfather anobhadhara kuitira rite pachayo uye anofukidza festive tafura.