Vanhu vashomanana vanoziva kuti 10% chete yezvinyorwa zvinoparadzirwa nemashoko, asi zviratidzo uye chirevo chinogona kuratidza zvakawanda zvinoreva. Nhamba dzekukurukurirana hadzisi dzinokosha, asi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti chiito chemaoko chinoita basa rinokosha zvikuru mukukurukurirana pakati pevanhu. Uye, naizvozvo, unoda kunzwisisa kuti iwe unogona kudzora sei zviratidzo zvako kuti unzwisise zvakakwana iwe.
Pane maonero ekugadzirisa panguva yekukurukurirana, zvikurukuru maminitsi gumi ekutanga, anopa mukana wekuongorora zvizere mutauriri. Uye kamwe kamwe zviratidzo hazvienderane nemashoko omunhu wacho, intuition yako inobva yatora, uye gesticulation pahurukuro inogona kukanganisa izvozvo, kana munhu wacho angave anofadza iwe.
Nokuda kwegesticulation tinokurukura nemuvaravara, mupfungwa uye kunzwisisa kunyange vatorwa, vasingazivi mutauro. Gesticulation muhurukuro yebhizimisi, zvakare, ine basa rinokosha, nokuti pane dzimwe nguva inotsamira pakukurukurirana kwakanaka kwebhizimisi pamwe chete uye kuguma kwekugadzirisa kwebasa.
Gesticulation nemaoko kana uchitaura munyika dzakasiyana hakurevi zvese zvinoreva. Semuenzaniso, chindori chakaitwa chechigunwe uye chinyorwa chemuchina weAmerica chinoreva kubvumirwa kana kubvumirwa kwe "ok", nepo chiFrench chinoreva zero, uye maJapan ane mari. MuFrance uye mune nyika dzinotaura chiRussia, mucherechedzo wechinyorwa unobatanidzwa kutemberi unoratidza kusava neupenzi, uye muHolland, pane zvinopesana, zvinoreva kuvapo kweuchenjeri. Uye munhu wose anofarira chiito chekufuratira, chenjerera, vaGiriki vanoona sechinhu chinonyadzisa!
Zvakakosha kukuyeuka imwe nguva kana munhu ari mukunetseka mupfungwa , zvakaoma zvikuru kuti ape manzwiro asina zviratidzo zvemarudzi ose-mararamiro, uye izvi zvinoshanda zvinogona kutaura zvakawanda pamusoro pezvinorehwa nemamiriro ekusaziva kwomunhu.
Kwemazuva mazhinji, vanachiremba vepfungwa vave vachidzidza gesticulation yevanhu, sezvo nzira yekubata inogona kuratidza vanhu, asi kuti vazive "kuverenga" vamwe, kune mabhuku mazhinji uye mamwe mavara emhando dzose.
Mitemo yemasaini emutauro
Vakawanda vanofarira pfungwa yekutonga kwegesticulation, asi zvakafanira kuziva kana varipo saizvozvo. Zvechokwadi, pane mitemo inotevera:
- Pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu, uye pasi pemamiriro ose haaiti.
- Shandisa maoko ako nemakumbo.
- Zvakare, teerera maoko. Dzidzira kuchengetedza maoko ako nguva dzose mune imwe nzvimbo uye uuye nehutachiona.
- Dzivisa zvinotyisa.
- Tarisa mumeso e-interlocutor. Kuenda kumeso kwekuona kunokwanisa kukonzera kubwinya kwekutaura.
- Handing handshake. Hazvifaniri kunge zvisiri nyore kana zvakaoma, asi zvine simba uye zvakajeka.
Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, yeuka kuti gesticulation yakakodzera ichakubatsira zvikuru iwe kuita chimiro chakanaka pane vamwe uye kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvako.
Usakanganwa kuti zvakanaka zvakasarudzwa zvinokonzerwa nekutaura kusinganzwi kunokwanisa pazinga risina chizivo kuti uise wako interlocutor.