Chido chokutonga vamwe vanhu chinorarama nenzira imwe neimwe mune imwe neimwe yedu. Munhu mumwe chete anoda kupa mirairo, uye mumwe munhu anonyanya kufarira mukana wekuvanzwa kuvanzwa kuziva kweumwe munhu. Vamwe vanobva vayeuka kamwechete ma gypsies anozadza avo vanobatwa mu hypnosis, iyo iyo munhu akadzingwa zvachose kune kuda kwe manipulator. Iwe, hongu, unogonawo kudzidza unyanzvi hwehutachiona , asi uchiushandisa, zvakafanana nokuzarura bhokisi rakavezwa nedemo. Kana iwe uchida kuti kushandiswa kurambe kuri kusingaonekwi, unofanirwa kuita zvishoma.
Nzira yekugadzirisa Kuziva Kwevanhu
Kutanga, iwe unofanirwa kuyeuka kuti vanhu vese vasina kuvepo havawani. Uye kana munhu achitaura kuti hapana nzira yekudzora manzwiro evanhu pamusoro pake achashanda, munoziva, munhu uyu ari nyore. Kazhinji vanhu vari muhutano hwakasimba hwezvimwe zvitendero vanorasikirwa nekugadzikana kwavo kwekufunga, uye kuvanyengetedza kodzero dzavo dzinova nyore. Mukuwedzera, kana wakaziva nyaya yekutendeseka, iwe haugoni kutsvaga chinangwa chisina simba chekatikati, iwe unogona kutanga kushanda necho chokwadi.
Kudzora ruzivo rwomumwe munhu zvinobvira, zvinokosha kuti unzwisise zvaanoda mukati, kudzidza pamusoro pekusava nesimba kwake. Kubvumirana, hakusi nguva nguva dzose yekuunganidza ruzivo pamusoro pechinhu chinokonzera, dzimwe nguva zvinokosha kukanganisa nzira yekukurukurirana paunoona munhu wekutanga kana wechipiri. Nokudaro, chero munhu anoda kuchinja iyo interlocutor, inoda huwandu hwekucherechedza. Kana uhu uhwu husipo, iwe unofanirwa kuhukudziridza zvakafanana nekuyeuchidza kurovedza, sezvo iwe uchada kuchengeta zvinyorwa zvishoma kudarika yako kanyorwa yemhinduro dzevanhu kune chimwe chinhu chinokurudzira. Yeuka, mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana vanhu vanogona kuita zvakasiyana, asi maitiro ekutanga achava akafanana kwavari.
Kuwana nzvimbo yeunhu isina simba, edza kutamba pairi. Zvakanaka, kuti uwane pfungwa dzinopikisa, unoda kubvunza mibvunzo miviri yekujekesa. Dzidza kuti chii chaunofanira kubvunza,
Sezvaunogona kuona, nzira yekudzora pfungwa yevanhu iri nyore, kana iwe chete iwe unoziva "kuona" vanhu. Ndicho chikonzero avo vakanakisisa manipulator vanhu vaidzidza nezvepfungwa.