Iwe wakakokwa kumutambo! Kwezuva rekuberekwa, muchato kana zuva rekuyeuka. Mubvunzo wekutanga uchitevera "chii chaunofanira kupfeka?" Unova mubvunzo "chii chaunopa?". Ndinoda chipo chako kuti chive chakanakisisa, chinobatsira uye chinonakidza kune mutangi wemhemberero. Izvi zvinoitika kuti zvipo zvose zvawakabata mumusoro wako, pane chimwe chikonzero hazvikwanisi kana kuti hazvidi. Dzimwe nguva zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti munhu atova nezvose. Kana zvichida iwe hauna nguva yekutenga chipo. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, shandisa chipo chakadaro, semari. Iyi ipo chipo chepasi rose, mari haichazombogadziriswi nemunhu uye haazove yakakosha. Nenzira, zvinotoitikawo kuti munhu pachake pachake anokumbira kuti asamugadzirira chero zvipo, asi kungopa kupa mari.
Asi ndingadai ndisingakwanisi kutambanudzira kune munhu anodhura aine bharuki duku duku, zvakanakisisa, nemaruva emaruva. Muchikamu chino tichakupa mazano ekupa mari mari zvisingaiti, kuitira kuti chipo chako chiyeukwe kwenguva yakareba.
Nzira yekupa mari sei gore rino?
Iwe unogona kugovera mari kune rimwe zuva rekuyeuka nenzira dzakawanda, heano mamwe acho:
- Tenga mbatya yeimba padanda remuti. Isa mari yekubhadhara pamatombo omuti pakati pemashizha, ita zvakanaka, zuva rekuberekwa kwemavara kune chimwe chinhu. Somugumisiro, iwe uchawana "mari" yakasiyana-siyana mumiti. Pamiti yakadaro unogona kushandisa chikonzero chekuvaka. Dururira chirongo chemari, uye ita muromo wecambo.
- Dzadza nemari girasi yakazara gorosi, gadzira uye ushande zvakanaka. Wedzera zvinyorwa zvakadai se "kuchengeta mari mubhangi". Kana, shandisa iyo yakagadzirwa yengoro kubhengi, chete inofadza kuti ive yakajeka uye inogona kuvhura pasina kuputsa.
- Nzira yekutanga yekupa mari inogona kushamisika. Tenga kunakidza, kunyatsoputika, banga, kuparadzanisa chokoti uye kubvisa chido. Muchikamu chakasara bhokisi, isa mari yakapetwa. Itai kuti mazai epurasitiki adzokere mujoko rekotikiti, zvigadzire zvinyoronyoro mumapepa. Uye kuita kuti tsuroti yehafu yekoroti igare yakanyatsogadziriswa, inosungiridza seiri nemudziya unopisa. Apo iwe uchipa chipo chakadaro, usakanganwa kutaura kuti mazai haasi nyore, asi goridhe kana kuguma kwegamba kunowirirana nayo, kuitira kuti chipo chacho chisati chizoenda kune mufaro wevana.
Nzira yekutanga yekupa mari yechato
Kuroora ichinhu chinokosha uye chinokosha pamwoyo miviri inoda. Zuva rino rinoitika kamwe muhupenyu (pahuwandu) uye rinofanira kurangarirwa nekuda kwehupenyu hwose. Edza neimwe nzira kupa chipo chisina kujairika kumuchato, kuitira kuti avo vakaroorana vasati vakanganwa uye vanoyeuka nekumwemwerera. Tinokupa zvisarudzo zvakawanda:
- Ipa avo vachangobva kuchata pfuma yepfuma. Gadzira chifukidzo chekushongedza mumutambo wekare, isa mari pasi, uye kumusoro nemari yesimbi, zvishongo zvemapfekete uye mazhenje. Isa chisimbiso chechifu nekivha huru.
- Iwe unogona kupa mari mu kabichi. Ingoparadzira zvikwereti pakati pemashizha ekakichi. Icho chinosvika kabichi mumutauro chaiwo uye mupfungwa.
- Hapana aizoramba sutukisi yemari. Tenga chidiplomate kana sutukesi uye uzadze nemari yakawanda. Purasi imwe neimwe inoshandiswa kana yakadhindwa nemari yakagadzirwa nemunhu oga, uye kubva kumusoro inoisa rimwe rebhadha rechokwadi.
- Iwe unogona kupa mari sekubhadhara kokutanga kwekutenga chimwe chinhu uye uchienda nacho nechimwe chinhu chaunoda nokuda kwekutenga uku. Semuenzaniso, ipai avo vakaroorana vasati vashandise zvitina nekutanga kwekuvaka imba, gumbo nebhadharo yekutanga yemotokari kana yeklasi yepasi nemari yekuwana uchi.