Ungakanganwa sei munhu waunoda?

Zvichida, mumwe nomumwe wedu akatarisana nedambudziko rakadai, mumwe munhu pane zvaanoziva zvinorwadza, uye mumwe munhu, achinyaradza shamwari iyo "isina kushanda." Zvimwe, fungiro rimwe nerimwe pamusoro pekukanganwa munhu waunoda, kwete kurota usiku uye kusabvisa mumutsiro. Zviri pachena kuti nokukurumidza kukanganwa mudiwa wako, zvisinei kuti unoedza zvakadini, hazvizoshandi, zvinotora nguva uye zvakanyanya, zviri nani. Asi iwe unogona kukurumidzira kushandiswa nekushandisa nguva zvakakwana sezvinogona. Ngatitarisei nzira dzokuti ungakanganwa sei mudiwa wako nokusingaperi.

Danho 1

Chinhu chekutanga iwe unofanirwa kuita kuti ukanganwe waunoda kuti aone zvakajeka sezvinobvira kuti iye atove mukana wekare muupenyu hwako. Uye hapana chinangwa pakudzokera shure. Usafamba-famba mumativi ose muupenyu hwako. Uye sezvo takasarudza kukanganwa, saka tinofanira kuzviita pakarepo, hatifaniri kuva nehanya nehupenyu hwepakutanga, kudana uye kuronga zvidhori. Ingosiya nhamba yefoni uye usabvumidza shamwari dzako dzekukudzana kuti zikuzivise nezvehupenyu hwake, hauna hanya nazvo ikozvino. Ichokwadi, kupindura mubvunzo wekuti ungakanganwa sei munhu waunoda kuti aite zvakanaka, vamwe vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanopa mazano ekudana vanhu vekare. Asi dzimwe nguva chete, uye chete kana iwe uchida kudhonza nhamba yake zvikuru. Kushushikana chishuvo kunogona kutungamirira ku kuora mwoyo, saka iwe unoda kudana, asi chete kuti utaure neushamwari. Kana iwe usingafungi mano akadaro mukati mako, yeuka kukanganwa nhamba yake yefoni, e-mail kero uye dzimwe shamwari.

Danho 2

Iro zano remumwe munhu wepfungwa, kukanganwa munhu waunoda, richave rine chirevo chinotevera: "Usachengeta manzwiro iwe pachako." Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unoda kuwana munhu anoteerera anoteerera uye kuwana bhabheri rakanaka, kukuudza kuti zvinorwadza sei nezvimwe zvakadaro. Kana munhu anoteerera akasawanikwa, kana kana iwe usingaregi manzwiro pane chimwe chikonzero, edza kuvapa imwe nzira. Somuenzaniso, unonzwa wakatsamwa here? Bvaridza mifananidzo yake kune shreds, kupfura zvidhori zviduku zvakaratidzwa kwavari, madombo, kuposhera zvinhu zvake kubva mubhandi (chete kune vanofamba-uye kwete kuronga), chero chinhu.

Danho 3

Hauzivi kuti ungakurumidza kukanganwa sei mudiwa? Psychology inotiraira kuti tifunge nezvekuve kwakanaka kwazvo, kuparadzanisa zvose zvayo zvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka. Yeuka nzira yekare: tinoparadzanisa pepa iri hafu uye tinyorera mune imwe korombo pluses, uye mune imwe, minuses. Kazhinji nzira iyi inobatsira, kana usingakanganwi mudiwa wako, saka iwe unofanirwa kuve wakanetseka mukati maro. Mukadzi akagumburwa anowona zvikanganiso zvakawanda zvokuti pamagumo ekuzadza tafura, chishamiso chinopiwa, sezvachiri kurarama nemhuka iyi.

Nhanho 4

Nzira yekuedza sei kukanganwa mudiwa? Uye nenzira ipi zvayo, mirai ikozvino, pakuguma, edza kuramba muchikuyeuka kubva mumangariro yako. Ingoraramira, muhupenyu kune zvakawanda zvakawanda zvezvose zvakanaka, uye zvaiva, uye zviri, uye zvichava. Usanamatira pane zvakapfuura. Zvakanaka, kuitira kuti mafungiro asina kufanira arege kukushanyira, zadza zuva rako nemabasa kusvika kumagumo. Izvi hazvirevi kuti zvakakosha kuchinjeka, kunofamba mupaki (mabhizimisi), misangano neshamwari, makirasi ezvokuita zvakanaka (mumutsara wekucheka nekucheka, kuumbwa kubva kuPlasinine, chero chinhu chipi nechipi chinowanikwa pakugadzirira) chiri nani kune pfungwa ye "bhizinesi". Uye mushure mekushanda kwezuva, hapana pfungwa dzinosuruvarisa dzisina nguva yekugadzirisa mupfungwa dzako, muviri unoda kukurumidza kupumha uye pasina dhidhiro dzekuda panguva ino iye haazofariri.

Nhanho 5

Kazhinji kuparadzana newaunoda, hatigone kunzwisisa kwenguva yakareba kuti pane imwe nzvimbo yekufara. Kuti utsungirire kuora mwoyo, dzidza, zuva rega roga kuti uone zvinhu zviduku izvo zvaita kuti unyemwe. Hazvina basa kuti chii chichava chii, kofi inonhuhwirira nekeke, yakaravira mune cafe inofadza, chikafu nemeso anoshamisika, kutarisa bhokoto kana ripoti rinotumirwa rakabudirira. Mufaro, uye uri mune zvinhu izvi zviduku. Husiku humwe hunoyeuka zvakaitika kune zvakanaka zvezuva racho. Nokudaro iwe uchadzokorora zvakare kunyoresa nyika, uye iye achazonyenyeredza zvakare kwauri.