Kutarisira vanhu inyanzvi chaiyo uye shanduko yakaoma. Kukunda vanhu, kuvamanikidza kuti vaite zvaunoda kutungamira mu "channel" yavo, unofanirwa kudzidza dzimwe nzira dzepfungwa dzekukurudzira munhu. Kune nzira dzakawanda dzinokudzidzisa kuti uise pasi pevanhu kana kuti uite unhu hwekunzwisisa hwekutonga vanhu mauri, asi isu tichakurukura ivo vanobudirira zvikuru.
Nzira yekudzidza sei kubata vanhu?
Kuti unzwisise nzira yekugadzirisa nayo vanhu, unofanirwa kuva neruzivo rwepfungwa dzepfungwa dzevanhu, kukwanisa "kuwana" humwe hutsika hwehutano, unhu hwako. Zvisinei, unyanzvi hwokutarisa vanhu hunoda kwete kungodzidza zvidzidzo chete, asiwo zvinobatsira, kuitira kuti munhu afunge, zvinokosha kuti udzidze nzira dzepamusoro dzekutungamira uye kudzidzira nguva dzose, uchikudza simba rako rokutungamirira vanhu. Saka, ngatitenderei ikozvino tishandise nzira dzinoshandisika, kushandisa izvo iwe unogona kutonga munhu:
- Kudzokorora nezita . Kudana munhu nemazita, iwe unoratidza kuti iwe unomuremekedza, kusimbisa kukosha kwake, saka zvichida kuwana nzvimbo yake.
- Flattery . Zvingaita sekuti izvi hazvisi zvakaoma zvachose, kungorumbidzwa chete, mazwi akanaka, nezvimwewo. Zvisinei, haisi zvinhu zvose zvakajeka, kana munhu akanzwa kusava nechokwadi, iwe unomutadzisa kufungidzira . Kuti uite vanhu vakanaka, iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti chii iwe unogona kuzviita, nekuremekedza uyo, nezvimwewo. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe unofadza munhu ane kuzvikudza kwepamusoro, iwe unogona kuzadzikisa nzvimbo yake nekuita kuti unzwe mafungiro akanaka, uye kana nzira yakadaro yaunoshandisa maererano nemunhu akaomeswa, zvino kazhinji achaongorora kukurumbidza kwako, sekunyomba, kunyanya yakavharwa mukati mawo uye ichatove yakaoma zvikuru kuronga iyo pachako uye kukunda chivimbo.
- Kunyatsoteerera kuteerera . Paunenge uchitaura nemunhu, usamudzvinyirira zvachose, kunyange kana maonero ake akasiyana neako uye iwe unopikisa zvakasimba nemaonero ake. Teerera kune mutauriri, regai ataure, uye iwe unoratidza kuremekedza kwako, kusimbisa kukosha kwemaonero ake. Kana mushure mokunge apedzisa mutauriri wake achitaura nemutauriro wake, mutauriri wako anotanga kukuteerera, kunyange kana maonero ake akasiyana neako.
- Tarisa tarisa . Dzidza kutarisa vanhu zvakananga mumaziso, kwete kwete chete, asi sekunge kuvhara munhu. Iwe unofanira kuratidza chimiro chako chakasimba, chivimbo, kutsunga uye kutsungirira. Mafungiro akadaro pamwero wekusaziva unokonzera munhu kuzviisa pasi, asingadi kukakavadzana nomunhu ane simba.
- Hypnosis . Vanhu vazhinji vanofarira nzira yekudzora munhu nesimba rekufunga, nzira iyi inongobva pane izvi. Iwe unokurudzira pfungwa dzako, taura zvaunoda, uite kuti munhu asaziva. Zvisinei, vadzidzisi chete vanogona kushandisa hypnosis, vanhu vasingazivi kuti zviri nani kusaedza, nokuti zvinogona kuva nengozi.
- Kuonga . Kana iwe wakabvunza munhu kuti aite chimwe chinhu, ipapo mushure mekunge basa rakapedzwa, iva nechokwadi chekumutenda, ipapo iwe ucharatidza munhu kukosha kwake uye kuita kuti aremekedzwe mukero yake.
Zvikumbiro zvako zvicharamba zvichizadzikiswa, uye nekukurumidza zvikuru. - Iti kwete . Vanhu vazhinji havazivi kuti "zvakananga sei. Vakawanda vanonzwa vasinganzwisisiki, vazhinji vanonyara, vamwe vanotya kugumbura, nezvimwewo. kana iwe ukadzidza kutaura "kwete" zvakasimba, ipapo vanhu vakavapoteredza vachanzwa mukati menyu musimba, usingaiti uye ane makarani, avo vamusingadi kukakavadzana naro zvachose.
Sezvo wakadzidza nhasi unyanzvi hwakavanzika hwekugadzirisa sei vanhu, edza zvino zvose izvi mukuita, uye zvichida iwe uchakwanisa kuva mutungamiri.