Parizvino, mutoro mukuru uye mutoro wekurerwa kwevana unogara pamapfudzi emukadzi. Funga, vanotikwidza muminda, kudzidzisa muzvikoro, uye kumba, kazhinji, papa anotora mamiriro ekunyora mukuumba unhu hwemwana, achitenda kuti ibhizimisi romukadzi. Zvisinei, hazvibviri kuramba kudiwa kwevakadzi kuchikoro.
Baba vari mumhuri vane basa rinokosha. Chokutanga pane zvose, baba vanofananidzira mwana wavo muenzaniso wevanhu - mudziviriri, mutongi, munyoro. Basa rebaba pakurera komwana rakaderedzwa kuva chokwadi kuti mubereki ndeyechecheche chidziro chemhuri yemhuri, muchengeti uye mudziviriri weimba. Kuvonga neizvi, vana vanonzwa vaine chivimbo, vanokura mupfungwa uye vane hutano hwakanaka, nokuti vane shure kwakadaro.
Basa rababa pakurera mwanakomana wavo
Upenyu hwababa muhupenyu hwomukomana hunokosha zvikuru. Ndibaba vanova kwaari muenzaniso wekururamisa unhu hwemurume - nekuremekedza mhuri yake, mudzimai wake anodiwa, shamwari, vana remangwana. Mwana wacho anotevedzera, kumwero mukuru, kuna baba vake. Basa rebaba pakurera mhuri rakaderedzwa kusvika pakuziva kuti murume, nekukura, anofanira kunge ari kuraira kupfuura amai vane unyoro. Zvisinei, pasina kuratidzwa kwechisimba uye kusuruvara kwakanyanya - kana zvakadaro mwana achakura akatsamwa uye ane shungu. Kutsigirwa kwaPapin uye kubvuma, kukura kwekusununguka, masculinity, kuremekedzwa kwevakadzi - iri ndiro basa guru rekumutsa baba vemwanakomana.
Basa rababa pakurera komwanasikana
Kurera musikana ndechekunyengera uye kunogadzirisa. Ichokwadi ndechekuti kukura, mwanasikana anoshanda mufananidzo wepapa pakusarudza shamwari yehupenyu, murume, mukomana. Mwana anotorawo muenzaniso wekuvakwa kwehukama pakati pemudzimai nemurume kune vabereki. Mukuwedzera, basa rababa pakurera komwanasikana nderokuti, kutarisa papa, musikana anofanira kuona izvo izvo zvinoita kuti munhu ave murume chaiye. Nokudaro, baba vacho vanofanira kubata mwanasikana wavo sevakadzi, madzimambo, saka vachirera mukadzi wavo chiremerera. Zvakakosha kuona musikana semunhu, kumubvunzurudza, kukoshesa maonero ake. Mwanasikana akakurira mumamiriro ekuda, kazhinji, achava munhu ane mutsa, anonzwira tsitsi, kuvaka mhuri yakasimba uye ine rudo.
Kurera mwana asina baba
Kune mamiriro ezvinhu apo vana vanokura pasina rudo rwababa uye kutarisirwa. Zvisinei, dzidzo yevanhu kumwanakomana wayo inokosha chero ipi zvayo. Kuti akure munhu akanaka, amai vanofanira kubata mukomana semunhu, pasinei nokuti achiri muduku. Kumubvunza rubatsiro rwekupoteredza imba, kukupa jasi, kutakura bhegi. Rega mumwe kubva kumhuri (sekuru, baba, mukoma mukuru), shamwari dzive muenzaniso wakanaka wemwanakomana. Apo mukurera musikana asina baba, muenzaniso wekururamisa unhu hwevarume hunokosha. Inogona kuva nhengo yemhuri, godfather, shamwari, iyo inoda uye inomutarisira. Kuti udzivise zvinetso nevakomana vakasiyana, amai vanofanira kumurondedzera mwanasikana wavo nezvehukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai, kupa mabhuku maererano nerudo rwakanaka.