Dzimwe nguva mumwe nomumwe wedu anonzwa sokuti anomanikidzwa kune mumwe munhu. Asi havasi vose vanogona kururamisa zvikonzero zveizvi.
Munhu anogara achifunga kuti ane basa, anoderedza kuzvidzora uye kuzvifunga. Munhu akadaro anotanga kufunga kuti hazvirevi chinhu zvachose, uye kuti vabereki, shamwari, kambani, sangano, nezvimwe zvakakosha zvikuru. Asi munhu mumwe nomumwe anofanira kurarama hupenyu hwake zvakakwana uye zvakakwana. Kana iwe uchigara uchingoparadza simba rako, nguva uye simba kune vamwe vanhu vane pfungwa yekuita, zvinenge zvisingakwanisi.
Mukufunga kwepfungwa, manzwiro emabasa anoshevedzwa kugamuchira mabasa ayo munhu anotora paanopinda muhukama nevamwe vanhu. Izvi hazvifaniri kungovhiringidzika nemafungiro ezvakakwana ekuonga kwaanofunga nemhosva kana kuita mabasa kune vamwe .
Pane kukakavara kwekunzwa uye basa, kana munhu achitenda kuti kana ari mune humwe ukama nevanhu, saka ane chimwe chinhu kwavari. Ichokwadi, matambudziko ose anobva paudiki. Vabereki vakawanda vanopa kumwana zvakanyanyisa kudiwa, kunyatsocherechedza hufambiro, shamwari dzefaira, kusimbisa chimwe chinhu kuti chiite. Mune shoko - nguva dzose kutonga. Zuva remuwana rakapetwa chaiyo neawa, uye hapana nguva yakasara yemitambo kana zororo zororo. Mwana akadaro achave ari munharaunda yekushungurudzika nguva dzose. Ichagara uine kutya kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa, kuitira kuti usaodza mwoyo vabereki vako. Somugumisiro, munhu anokura, haazivi kuti aite sei zvisarudzo zvake.
Nzira yekubvisa sei pfungwa yebasa?
Chokutanga pane zvose, unofanira kusarudza chimwe chinhu. Kana pane vanhu vamuri kunyatsopomerwa mhosva, ingokumbira ruregerero uye kukanganwa nezvazvo. Kana izvi zvisina kufanana nemari, zvakakosha kukanganwa kunzwa kwakadaro nokusingaperi. Uye ipapo pachava nekunzwa kwepanyama kwekutenda nekubatsira izvo zvisingakonzere matambudziko.
Nguva dzose yeuka kuti iwe hauna chikwereti kune chero munhu upi zvake, saka usaramba uchigadzirisa maonero evamwe uye uzadzise zvavanoita. Munhu wose anofanira kufunga uye kuziva kuti ndiye oga anogona kuzvifadza. Usaedza kumanikidzira kuita mwana anofara kana mumwe munhu.
Kurwisana pakati pekunzwa uye basa kunotambudza vanhu vazhinji.
Pfungwa yekushandira vabereki kana vadikanwa inoita kuti tisararame pane hupenyu hwedu hwose, asi mumwe munhu. Ndeipi nguva yose yekuedza nekushandisa simba rekufadza vamwe? Mamiriro echisikiro emubatsiro mukuyerera haazokonzeri kunetseka, nepo pfungwa yekuzvipa mhosva uye kutya kuchakuregedza iwe yose kuenda kune chinangwa.
Dambudziko rekufunga kwebasa rinogadziriswa nyore nyore, mushure mekubvuma uye kugona kwekuti munhu wose ndiye mutungamiri wekufara kwake.
Kana uchiri kunzwa manzwiro ekushanda, yeuka kuti hakuna munhu asi iwe pachako anogona kukubatsira kuti ufare. Yeuka kuti hupenyu hwako huri mumaoko ako chete.